What do I mean? I am used to fucking with sluts, plain and simple, girls that play games, lie and I know they are fucking with other guys, usually just a smash and dash.
The past 2 months I have being seeing a girl, shes like a 7, I know im more high value than her but there are many qualities I like about her, anyway she is all over me, texts me all the time, cooks for me anything I want, would buy me anything (I dont take advantage like that), sex anytime etc
Now you probably think somethings wrong, she is not ugly but she used to be a little bigger, now shes normal but her confidence is not too high and I caught her saying things like "I didnt think I was your type".
So what I am asking is, what kind of frame do I keep? At first I was really aloof, to the point I didnt give a shit and she was all over me, I have lightened that up now that we know each other but I am finding myself responding to her cute little text messages and talking with her in bed, stuff like that, things I wouldnt do for the sluts I would mess with.
She has been nothing but awesome with me, I cannot find one thing that would make me act negatively to her, so Its come to the point where I feel bad if I ignore her texts and stuff like that. Now I fully understand that alpha is not about being a jerk or being an asshole, and I will always speak my mind and not put up with bullshit but so far she hasnt given me bullshit...at all; and I guess that is weird to me because Im not used to that.
Im not naive enough to think that she is drama free or eventualy some stuff wont pop up but is it possible that since im so used to drama girls and crazy that a normal girl seems weird?
The past 2 months I have being seeing a girl, shes like a 7, I know im more high value than her but there are many qualities I like about her, anyway she is all over me, texts me all the time, cooks for me anything I want, would buy me anything (I dont take advantage like that), sex anytime etc
Now you probably think somethings wrong, she is not ugly but she used to be a little bigger, now shes normal but her confidence is not too high and I caught her saying things like "I didnt think I was your type".
So what I am asking is, what kind of frame do I keep? At first I was really aloof, to the point I didnt give a shit and she was all over me, I have lightened that up now that we know each other but I am finding myself responding to her cute little text messages and talking with her in bed, stuff like that, things I wouldnt do for the sluts I would mess with.
She has been nothing but awesome with me, I cannot find one thing that would make me act negatively to her, so Its come to the point where I feel bad if I ignore her texts and stuff like that. Now I fully understand that alpha is not about being a jerk or being an asshole, and I will always speak my mind and not put up with bullshit but so far she hasnt given me bullshit...at all; and I guess that is weird to me because Im not used to that.
Im not naive enough to think that she is drama free or eventualy some stuff wont pop up but is it possible that since im so used to drama girls and crazy that a normal girl seems weird?