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(06-13-2016 07:17 PM)Tyrion Wrote:  

(06-13-2016 05:17 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

What do you mean, if we wanna call it that? Are you trying to get laid here or not?

Your entire premise lies on the fact that I'm trying to fuck her.

Negative.

Offcourse, I'd love to have sex with her eventually but that is not my 'problem' so to speak.

I have hooked up with other girls while I have been talking to her (she doesn't know, ofc).

The thing is that I feel a certain emotional attachment to this girl and she isn't just somebody I find hot and would want to f*ck.

With her, its more than that--and hence this entire thread.

Otherwise, I have been through similar situation with girls and all I have to do is FTOW approach and move on. Easy.

With her, I want to have her in my life. It's not just a banging game for me.

I see. So the disconnect here is that you are under the false impression that you want this woman to have a strong and lasting bond with you, yet you fail to realize that in order for this to happen, sex is a necessary first step.

Women bond through sex (she hasn't done this yet). Men bond through emotional / physical sacrifice. (You apparently have done this, though). I didn't pen that phrase, forgot who did.


It would make sense that you know you want to commit to her as you have invested the necessary time into forming a bond with her, but since you haven't fucked her multiple times and felt her quivering in your arms saying "I love you, OP" she is naturally not going to reciprocate your level of investment.

Chicks usually fall for guys after getting fucked by them multiple times.


Multiple times.


Not typically before.