[PapayaTapper]

(05-05-2016 09:03 AM)TheDuncan Wrote:  

This is the text convo we had today.

Messages me in the morning:

Now I see how you really see me its all good, have a good day.

Me:right

Her:y tho? tell me why you think im a hoe??

Her:if I was a hoe I would be fucking people.

2hrs

Me:why are you assuming what I think?

Her:Cause the way u said it earlier it was obvious n u sure dont tell me what u think so

Me:nah

Her:nah what?

Her: you know what it doesnt matter.....(3 paragraphs about how she is tired of men treating her wrong and that its my choice if I still want to be friends even though she thought we got along etc etc)

I have not responded.

Sorry if I come off inexperienced here guys, I am still learning how to deal with different chicks, why didnt she say that from get go? Instead she makes out, lets me feel her up etc only to go through all this bull?

Not even mad just a waste of time.

Learn this...Chicks will rarely "tell" you what they are thinking unless you are in a relationship (even then only part of the time).

It sounds to me like she likes you. She just threw up some anti slut defense (ASD) because you went in too direct...and vocalized your intentions

It also sounds like you aren't grasping the "plausible deniability" concept very well (which is why you went so direct). See my post above

If a chick is sleeping in your bed that means there's some level of both comfort and/or attraction. That's not enough. You have to ratchet that comfort/attraction into her arousal if you want as Borat would say.. "sexy time".

For us guys our attraction and arousal are very linear. The first leads right to the other with very little needed to make the connection

For chixesses attraction needs to be built upon in order to make what is more of a leap. It's evolution. Think about it. Sex for woman means she has to allow someone to penetrate her body.

If she's laying in your bed she's already told you she's attracted to you. This is when experience teaches you how to escalate and turn that attraction into arousal