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All of the following is true and applicable. The thing is.. it all depends.. where, how, who.. etc. You could have a major spectrum of girls.. between the following parametric extremes:
FOB > .... West Born..
Even in FOBs.. Urban.. vs Rural..
Even in that.. Party/Socialite ... vs... Homely..
Tons of such attributes..
Slutty Rebel (there are some)... vs.. Nice girl..

You've really got to have subtle & smooth game

But fact is you got to take the factors in.. Accountability vs Anonymity.

If she & her environment (her morality, people, family, friends, her accountability in that event/ family) allow her, she'll be more open upfront.. & let things be VISIBLE (like any girl). e.g. Some girl may be the brides best friend or cousin.. she is high visibility & high accountablity person.. tougher.. ..some one may be a friend who's not highly networked with the people.. and is more ON HER OWN.. (rare).. then.. low accountability..

If not, it she has to make YOU ..LESS VISIBLE.. or obvious. (You end up becoming her SECRET fling).

The culture is highly socially knit so .. social stigma or SLUT labels can be very hard to get out of.

But yes.. if you party it up like a rockstar (Wedding Crashers).. you'll have her into you faster.. than trying one on one game..

Once, she has your attention.. some subtle & private flirtation mixed here and there.. will do all the warming up..

Then... given how Indian weddings are few days to week long multi-function multi-event sagas.. You'll have to factor in those scheduling logistics coming in the way.. or helping.

(12-05-2011 07:47 PM)Dolmance Wrote:  

(12-05-2011 07:12 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Bring canisters of tear gas and a large net. It's the only way.

Heh.

Indian weddings are probably the worst place to pick up Indian chicks as you run the risk of getting cockblocked by an entire family, and your target girl is going to be uncomfortable being hit on with her family watching (especially with judgemental older generation relations present).

2) Wait for your target to be alone, approach and get a number or set up a date for another time as swiftly as possible. (You likely aren't going to be able to extract her to another location straight away given that she will be expected to be present for the wedding celebrations.)

3) Find out who her relatives are and DHV them. Treat the family as a set with the girl as a target. Once you've established some comfort and rapport with the family, ask the oldest family member for permission to dance with her. Then run your normal game. As above, you aren't going to get more than a number or a date at this point.

Option 3 requires a lot more effort than option 2, but if you are in with the family you will not have to worry about getting cockblocked by anyone.

D.

(12-05-2011 09:47 PM)bigxxx Wrote:  

(12-05-2011 06:53 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

Have to go to an Indian wedding (in the states). I'm greek/italian. In the past, any time I've tried to game Indian women (and they wanted it), I've had like ten indian dudes cock-blocking and putting a barrier between me and her.
Any tips to help a white man score some of the brown stuff at this wedding?

If it's a punjabi wedding and u have time learn a few Bhangra moves. That may give you an in on the dance floor...

(12-06-2011 12:51 AM)La Familia Wrote:  

I dated an Indian girl who told me all about these weddings. It's all family, and the men there don't pose a threat (went to one of them, and being non Indian I was given weird looks). The biggest challenge will be her family--usually, it's not just the aunty and her family, but her second cousins and other distant relatives will be there and she will be less likely to engage in conversation with a white guy. I'm not sure how to screen it, but you'll have a better chance if your Indian targets are Westernized. That also means, though, that the guys will cockblock more often whenever given a chance. If you're at a FOB Indian wedding, the men won't be as vigilant (most will be trashed off of johnny walker), but the trade-off is that FOB Indian chicks are shier/harder to crack.

(12-06-2011 01:03 PM)zanetti Wrote:  

check out the part of "Wedding Crashers" where Owen Wilson and Vince Vaughn successfully crash an Indian wedding

do what Vince Vaughn's character did, pretend you're part Indian and say your name is Chuck Vindaloo

(12-06-2011 04:00 PM)satanova77 Wrote:  

Being from that part of the world, I would recommend "clandestine game"....the women love going behind everyone's back to fuck and get off on that shit....if i was white i would pick a target when alone....within 2-5 minutes or less get number(they will give you number when their brothers and male cousins are not looking)....do flirty texts through the event and then invite via txt to your hotel suite or another venue to have "few drinks and talk"....slut will unleash behind close doors....even being their own "peeps" this is the only thing that has worked for me....

They would appreciate you more if you understand hteir cultural background and sensitivity and do "behind the scenes" game...

P.S I get approached by indian chicks on regular basis when i go out(sole group of women who approach me straight up)....but I mostly pass as the drama that follows bang is not worth it....