Here is the deal. Many guys wouldn't keep pushing it if doing so didn't work. If you are trying to kiss/make out/fuck a girl and she says no, and you IGNORE HER REQUEST and keep pushing ahead, IMHO we are getting into rape territory.
HOWEVER, If you are trying to kiss/make out/fuck a girl and she says no, and you STOP then try again later, and she says no, and you STOP then try again later AGAIN, and she says no AGAIN, and you STOP then try AGAIN later, as long as you are not doing so in a threatening manner that is just being persistent. The sad fact is that QUITE OFTEN that behavior is rewarded. Eventually, the girl either "gives in" or gets up and leaves (or tells you to leave if you are at your place).
The fact that I would have to resort to doing somethig like that bothers me, that fact that women are so weak willed that it will often work DISGUSTS me.
The effectiveness of this strategy hit home right after I graduated in college (ironically, I was living in DC, just like the blog poster). A female friend of mine (translation, I chick I wanted to bang, but was too beta to push the issue) was telling me about this date she went on with a mutual acquaintance of ours who graduated from our university about a year earlier, but was also living in DC at the time (working on the hill).
This chick was a hot little Asian American spinner, and the dude in question was a complete loser. I think she just went out with him for the chance of a free dinner and movie (common in DC). Well, he gets back to her place and starts making out with her. She says no, he stops, then starts up a few minutes later. She says no again, he stops, then starts up AGAIN, a few minutes later. This went on until she finally gave in to the makeout session.
He later escalated to sex, with the EXACT SAME /TRY/REJECTION/STOP/RETRY scenario as before, and like before she "gave in" and fucked this dude. THIS DUDE. He wasn't better looking than me, he wasn't smoother than me, he was just more persistent, and HE was rewarded with that sweet Vietnamese pussy. Me, who was super respectful of her boundaries and body? I got a kiss on the cheek and a hug. The funny thing she said was that she was never scared or threatened, she also WAS NOT attracted to him, she just wanted to get him to stop being so annoying, so she gave him what he wanted. How the hell can I respect a girl like that? I stopped hanging out with her after that (mostly because I was too beta to try the exact same tactic).
HOWEVER, If you are trying to kiss/make out/fuck a girl and she says no, and you STOP then try again later, and she says no, and you STOP then try again later AGAIN, and she says no AGAIN, and you STOP then try AGAIN later, as long as you are not doing so in a threatening manner that is just being persistent. The sad fact is that QUITE OFTEN that behavior is rewarded. Eventually, the girl either "gives in" or gets up and leaves (or tells you to leave if you are at your place).
The fact that I would have to resort to doing somethig like that bothers me, that fact that women are so weak willed that it will often work DISGUSTS me.
The effectiveness of this strategy hit home right after I graduated in college (ironically, I was living in DC, just like the blog poster). A female friend of mine (translation, I chick I wanted to bang, but was too beta to push the issue) was telling me about this date she went on with a mutual acquaintance of ours who graduated from our university about a year earlier, but was also living in DC at the time (working on the hill).
This chick was a hot little Asian American spinner, and the dude in question was a complete loser. I think she just went out with him for the chance of a free dinner and movie (common in DC). Well, he gets back to her place and starts making out with her. She says no, he stops, then starts up a few minutes later. She says no again, he stops, then starts up AGAIN, a few minutes later. This went on until she finally gave in to the makeout session.
He later escalated to sex, with the EXACT SAME /TRY/REJECTION/STOP/RETRY scenario as before, and like before she "gave in" and fucked this dude. THIS DUDE. He wasn't better looking than me, he wasn't smoother than me, he was just more persistent, and HE was rewarded with that sweet Vietnamese pussy. Me, who was super respectful of her boundaries and body? I got a kiss on the cheek and a hug. The funny thing she said was that she was never scared or threatened, she also WAS NOT attracted to him, she just wanted to get him to stop being so annoying, so she gave him what he wanted. How the hell can I respect a girl like that? I stopped hanging out with her after that (mostly because I was too beta to try the exact same tactic).