Quote: (07-09-2014 08:58 AM)General Stalin Wrote:
What is your opinion on girls who masturbate frequently, and are open about it (maybe not to everyone, but to you)?
I'll explain what made me bring this up to give you some motive:
I recently stopped masturbating and watching porn; not 100%, but I have probably jerked off a total 4 or 5 times in the past 2 months and watched porn once. I did this for my mental and sexual health - wanted to disconnect from affiliating masturbation and porn with orgasms. Was sick of not getting boners as easily with real women and having to close my eyes and imagine watching porn to cum. Totally unhealthy, not to mention the "easy-out" mental release you get from jerking off is not good for motivation, game, or your libido.
Anyway, I have been seeing a regular girl for a few months now - playing around with the idea of girlfriending her. She masturbates regularly; seemingly as much as a guy does. She watches porn often as well. She is open about it with me, and will bring it up unprovoked or when talking about sexual things. Example:
(Texts from last night)
10:55pm - HER: I want your cock. RIGHT NOW
1:06am - ME: Darling You'll just have to wait like a good girl
8:41am - HER: If that includes masturbating for half an hour this morning than yes, I'm a good girl
In my semi-abstinence from masturbation, I've starting projecting it on her a bit. Wondering if her constant self-pleasure is good or bad for our sexual relationship. I don't particularly care if a girl gets off when we are banging or whatever, but I'm curious if her masturbation makes sex or cumming not as easy for her because she masturbates so much. On the otherside of the spectrum, I wonder if her horniness and urge to get-off a lot is a slut red-flag.
I want to note that I am not as concerned or bothered by this as this example makes it seem - just some thoughts in my head that made me think up this question. Sex with this girl is great and I'm not worried about it, but I also am not 100% sure how I feel about her (or any other girl) who is big into porn and masturbation. Kind of an oddly masculine trait, no?
Almost a year and a half ago and my perspective has changed a deal from OP.
Also I ended up developing severe oneitis for that girl. Tsk tsk.
I masturbate regularly nowadays and believe that is actually good for my mental health and keeps me free of distraction from my libido. I was going through a time the past 6 months - 1 year where women were becoming too distracting. I caught myself wrenching my neck everywhere I went and expending a lot of time and energy getting my dick wet. Just difficulty focusing on other things. I now welcome that easy release to get my mind off of pussy and re-center myself on more important matters.
As for girls who watch porn, masturbate often, and are open about it - I could give a shit less how easily they get off during sex. I would consider that a slut tell, though. Rule of thumb is any girl who is overtly sexual and loves getting off a lot is certainly no stranger to getting smashed out.
That girl I was talking about in OP was a slut. Perpetual online dater, cheated on her last BF with a british guy she met at a friend's wedding, generally going from dick to dick, etc. Go figure.