Quote: (12-01-2011 07:36 PM)Scarfo19 Wrote:
That guy obviously spends time in the Gym, eats right, was blessed with tall genetics and he is seen with this non-curvy women who frankly looks like trash. He’s built like a model for God sakes. I don’t know their story, but anybody can obviously see that a guy of that caliber should be able to do much much better than her. Maybe he has reasons, like i said I don’t know his story. But men who usually spend enough time to do as many crunches as it would take to get abs like that, wound up with women who share a similar or greater sex appeal.
First off, yeah the guy looks ripped, but that doesn't mean he spends his life in the gym. Not to stereotype black guys, but I know a ton of brothas that have this guy's physique (especially in their teens and early 20's) who eat like shit and have no clue where the nearest gym is. The only working out they do is playing a ton of basketball everyday. So it is not like this guy is necessarily working out in the gym every day for the sole purpose of pulling the finest women and THAT is the best he can do.
Looking at him, and looking at her, my bet is that they are both from the flavelas (the ghettos) in Brazil. They are probably sweethearts and are just out at the beach together. I know I am making a bunch of assumptions, but no more so than you are making in your analysis.
Quote: (12-01-2011 07:36 PM)Scarfo19 Wrote:
Its tough being at the bottom of every one’s totem pole. Im still going to plan to trip there but it makes it tough knowing that neither in this country or other countries that unless I am willing to trick (p4p) I will not be able to “date who I desire”, even if I was tall, athletic, ripped with good bone structure of a model (which is what most women would list as top 5 requirements)
But as I said I am still going to Brazil, I am still saving up my vacation time from work, I am still saving up money to go, I am still learning both Spanish and Portuguese, I am still working out (P90 and then P90x). Its just a tough pill to swallow.
Dude, you need to stop mindfucking yourself. If you show up in Brazil with all of the bullshit baggage you are carrying now, you aren't going to get ANY pussy. Think about it. All of these brothas are telling you about the fine ass women they pull in Brazil, yet you let one white guy's opinion (I am assuming the British guy you spoke of is white) and a photo of a single couple fuck you up and screw up your trip before you even get off of the plane.
Let me break down some facts for you. I haven't been to Brazil, but I have been to several other Latin American countries, including some considered more "racist" than Brazil. I am black, about Denzel's complexion, but without his good looks. I pull VASTLY better chicks than the guy in the photo is with. Hell, I pull better chicks than those you posted in the photos of your ideal.
I have learned over the years not to trust a single NEGATIVE thing that a white person tells me about black guy's ability to pull girls in any particular foreign country. It has been wrong too many times for me to give any credence too. I've actually had dude's tell me that a particular Latina wasn't into black guys at all, only to have the same Latina (after we finished banging) proudly show me pictures of her HALF BLACK KIDS!
Now is every chick going to be into you? Of course not. But the reality is, if you come prepared and WITH A GOOD ATTITUDE there will be more chicks into you than you will have time to bang.
Arrive with a fucked up attitude and you will have a fucked up experience.