Quote: (03-04-2016 11:51 AM)RexImperator Wrote:
I suspect that there's nothing I can really do about it. It's possible that my personality is simply not "attractive". I naturally tend towards being quiet and somewhat serious, unless I'm drinking and/or hanging out with friends. Probably born of experience and facing the challenges of life with a certain degree of stoic resignation.
I do think that "Game" can change things around the edges but a lot of personality is determined by the physical structure of your brain and you can't change it too radically. It's a bit like how you can install a new OS on an old processor but it will still run fairly slow. I don't have a problem talking to girls I meet but I'm pretty sure I can tell that there's no interest.
Limiting false beliefs or realism?
Limiting beliefs. You can be a badass regardless of whether you're quiet and serious... I'm naturally quiet and a bit socially awkward, but a lot of going out has changed me so that I can be social once I do a few warm up approaches or have a drink.
Also, what Oregon said... you don't need to talk a lot. A lot of guys get by talking less.