I don't think the OP is trolling. He has a lot to learn and is generalizing based on one woman, but there are some points for discussion here. OP got beat up a little bit here, but hopefully he will learn to identify red flags sooner and will develop better judgement. This comes with experience.
Let's keep our criticism constructive to help this young player. I appreciate a different perspective on Ukrainian women even if it's a generalization.
Some points for consideration:
OP, consider yourself lucky that you did not marry her. You dodged a bullet.
I suggest you reach out to some experienced players on this Forum and learn from them as much as possible. I think you have overestimated your Game and certainly yours experience with women. Learning from more experienced men, particularly in Ukraine will pay dividends.
Ukraine is a tricky place. Develop a better feel of the country and the culture before consideration into another relationship with a woman from there.
Men who state their alphaness tend to overestimate it. Demonstrate it by behavior, not by words. Respect will come naturally. Otherwise, it is contrived.
A woman's worth in Ukraine is predicated on her beauty. Be grateful for her investment in her beauty, but also look for the other intrinsic qualities. I met Ukrainian women who were intelligent, motivated and hard-working with goals for the future. They do exist.
It wasn't until my early 30s that I developed a preference for younger women. I don't find it unusual that a 25 year old man would date a 27 year old woman. At 25, I tended to date women within a few years of my age. How things have changed!
Let's keep our criticism constructive to help this young player. I appreciate a different perspective on Ukrainian women even if it's a generalization.
Some points for consideration:
OP, consider yourself lucky that you did not marry her. You dodged a bullet.
I suggest you reach out to some experienced players on this Forum and learn from them as much as possible. I think you have overestimated your Game and certainly yours experience with women. Learning from more experienced men, particularly in Ukraine will pay dividends.
Ukraine is a tricky place. Develop a better feel of the country and the culture before consideration into another relationship with a woman from there.
Men who state their alphaness tend to overestimate it. Demonstrate it by behavior, not by words. Respect will come naturally. Otherwise, it is contrived.
A woman's worth in Ukraine is predicated on her beauty. Be grateful for her investment in her beauty, but also look for the other intrinsic qualities. I met Ukrainian women who were intelligent, motivated and hard-working with goals for the future. They do exist.
It wasn't until my early 30s that I developed a preference for younger women. I don't find it unusual that a 25 year old man would date a 27 year old woman. At 25, I tended to date women within a few years of my age. How things have changed!