[robreke]

(02-23-2016 06:06 PM)Stun Wrote:  

(02-23-2016 04:23 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(02-23-2016 02:05 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Date a seven, and loser dudes don't get bold.
Date a dime, you get these outlier dudes gassed up on Hollywood taking their one shot at the three dream girl.

I've seen so much crazy stuff. Even if you were Tyson in his prime, you can't knock everyone out.

Alright.

Why does every guy especially players and self-proclaimed ladies men say repeatedly.

"Dimes barely get approached, they are lonely, you have a better shot with them."

Never seen this to be true. In fact the opposite, guys and people tripping over themselves to compliment them. Guys jokingly promising marriages proposals, huge gifts, old men 10 year old boys, the horny black labrador tied to the street lamppost. I will admit when you approach one more often than not you will get a polite smiley response like you just asked your favorite celeb for their autograph and not the scowl of the insecure 6.

They get guys coming at them from angles Maverick couldn't even come up with against Chester in Top Gun.

Yeah these chicks are really fun to date, again the challenges listed here for me don't make them good for long term in my opinion unless you have fame with other dimes coming at you to keep her in check. She needs to feel direct competition.

Still my favorite for a LTR is a low-mid 7 face with a killer body underneath that she tries to conservatively veil with her clothes because she is somewhat the shy type.

Best bang-to-mental-bullshit ratio.

I almost just gave myself a heart attack trying to manage a high 8 in an area where there just aren't many girls that look that good to show her you're attractive to 'em.

You're also competing with everyone in her life who's got her on a pedestal.

It's really fucking hard. And fucking mentally stressful.

Seconded. Hot girls are bomb-freaking-barded with so many offers, it's not funny.

And if a player "to" is having at least three 6 month plus relationships with 8's and higher, count me out, I haven't done that yet. I had one in my late 20s, even got engaged.

That was years ago when game was different, flaking was much lower and texting was a new phenomenon not being abused by coldly dismissing dates and commitments. Nowadays, I bang an 8 several times a year and even a 9 once in a blue moon. But, it's never more than one or two bangs. Ususally just one.

I'm not coming close to getting any of these girls in relationships. Going for the second or third date with them, they'll either ghost, be vague, or set the date then the day of hit me up with something like "so sorry, something came up, can we reschedule?"

Translation: "Of the 20+ other guys who have been thirstily and relentlessly hitting me up all week, I decided there was one I'd rather go out with tonight than you robreke. And the "can we reschedule?" is a token olive branch that will not be realized."

It is often a grueling slog. One step forward, two steps back kind of deal.

I can keep 6's around for a while but who wants that? Sometimes a 7 too, but they'll eventually ghost due to everything in the west that corrupts the 8s and 9s.

I'm not trying to be cynical here, but it's just the nature of very attractive young women living in a big city.

That said, I definitely need to work on my post bang and "conversion" game to get in their mind, post bang. Banging their brains out, making them laugh and showing them a good time, works to get them the first night or, in some cases, the second, but like I said, not beyond.

I will keep plugging away, harvesting numbers, and setting up online bangs, but I'm thinking long term, I'll have to go where the women are more reliable, less corrupted and more feminine like EE or South America, to find a long term partner and maintain my heart and soul.