How to work with women's inability to (a) fight fair (b) gain insight (c) apologize
11-24-2011, 10:59 PMQuote: (11-23-2011 02:10 PM)Caligula Wrote:
It's an indication of poor character and that she's not submissive, but nothing conclusive. What are her other indicators?
I respect your being objective and fair, it's helping me think more clearly.
There are other indicators that make her look like poor LTR ( what I'm looking for; I'm interested in your opinions. )
1) She does modeling, which is fine, she's 5'9" 120 very elegantly proportioned by my standards. BUT-- she said she wants to be "a star."
I know there's always translation problems, but to me this just points to really wanting a lot of superficial attention.
2) In her initial ad she described how her mom cooks and her dad washes the dishes, and that's the type of thing she wants. ( My fault by being blinded by runway model looks after reading that. )
I think: why bother with someone who looks like they're really going to be alert all the time about what "deal" they're getting, when they really want to be cavorting and being stylish-- not taking care of our home. She's gotten a taste of massive attention being at photo shoots and so forth-- and I think she's spoiled. Doubtful there's any going back.