^ OG, think of it like undressing a woman for the first time. You don't just walk up to her and tear her shirt off first time you've got her alone.
You get her to take her shoes off and get comfortable. You touch her more in "safe" places. You move your hands closer to the the things you really want to touch, maybe touching her stomach or gently squeezing her tits through her shirt or running your finger along the bottom of her bra, gauging interest and finally unsnapping that bad boy with your one hand like a pro when it's go-time.
Even then you've got work ahead before you pull her pants and pannies off.
I mean, this is all assuming she doesn't get hot and heavy back right off the bat, at which point you are free to skip the foreplay and tear each other's clothes off...
Same thing with something like this.
Start it as an out-of-the-bedroom thing. Let it become a running joke until she's doing it on her own - correct her like VV talks about when she doesn't do it. When she starts doing it herself with a sly smile all the time, she is buying into the fantasy.
Then start exprerimenting with getting more bold and sexual with it.
Roosh's "don't scare the cat" metaphor is also as apt for pushing her boundaries as it is on more standard approach and seduction.
Here's the thing. Getting her to call you "daddy" in bed (or at all) is effective because it's shocking and taboo - and because it recognizes you as an "authority," which is something American women especially aren't always quick to submit to. One one level, there may be some sexual perversion tied to it, but it's also largely a dominance thing and very psychological.
That means, unfortunately, unless you already own her psychologically based on other work you've put in - enough that she'll jump on board with whatever bedroom stunts you yank out of your bag of tricks - you're going to have to put in the work outside of the bedroom to prime the pump before you start getting all "daddy's dick" on her.
I mean, I say unfortunately only because you said you only want to do it in the bedroom...honestly, the working up to stuff like that is a large part of the fun. Sure, her calling you Daddy while you're nailing her might be hot, but tell me it won't stroke your ego when you send her to the fridge for a beer and she throws a sweet and sexy "yes Daddy" at you. And then you've got a running point of reference you can leverage to get her doing other things for you.
There's also this.
If she only does it in the bedroom - it's an act you put on for your sexual play and it may not be fully real to her.
If you have her calling you daddy all the time, on the other hand, it can eventually become the fulcrum of your relationship. And sure, it's okay to have just-for-the-bedroom fantasies," but blending the lines between the bedroom and the "real world" as much as possible makes things a lot more exciting. Not to mention how much this particular blended line can stack the deck in your favor.
Hell, I remember growing up there were old guys around who had their women calling them daddy even in front of everyone else - that's game. You don't hear that stuff all that much anymore.
Bottom line: Once she really starts to not just call you "daddy" but actually submits to that frame of reference, that's way more rewarding, in and out of the sack, than any temporary sexual role playing could ever be.
In any case, Man, have fun with it. It's all part of the dance.
You get her to take her shoes off and get comfortable. You touch her more in "safe" places. You move your hands closer to the the things you really want to touch, maybe touching her stomach or gently squeezing her tits through her shirt or running your finger along the bottom of her bra, gauging interest and finally unsnapping that bad boy with your one hand like a pro when it's go-time.
Even then you've got work ahead before you pull her pants and pannies off.
I mean, this is all assuming she doesn't get hot and heavy back right off the bat, at which point you are free to skip the foreplay and tear each other's clothes off...
Same thing with something like this.
Start it as an out-of-the-bedroom thing. Let it become a running joke until she's doing it on her own - correct her like VV talks about when she doesn't do it. When she starts doing it herself with a sly smile all the time, she is buying into the fantasy.
Then start exprerimenting with getting more bold and sexual with it.
Roosh's "don't scare the cat" metaphor is also as apt for pushing her boundaries as it is on more standard approach and seduction.
Here's the thing. Getting her to call you "daddy" in bed (or at all) is effective because it's shocking and taboo - and because it recognizes you as an "authority," which is something American women especially aren't always quick to submit to. One one level, there may be some sexual perversion tied to it, but it's also largely a dominance thing and very psychological.
That means, unfortunately, unless you already own her psychologically based on other work you've put in - enough that she'll jump on board with whatever bedroom stunts you yank out of your bag of tricks - you're going to have to put in the work outside of the bedroom to prime the pump before you start getting all "daddy's dick" on her.
I mean, I say unfortunately only because you said you only want to do it in the bedroom...honestly, the working up to stuff like that is a large part of the fun. Sure, her calling you Daddy while you're nailing her might be hot, but tell me it won't stroke your ego when you send her to the fridge for a beer and she throws a sweet and sexy "yes Daddy" at you. And then you've got a running point of reference you can leverage to get her doing other things for you.
There's also this.
If she only does it in the bedroom - it's an act you put on for your sexual play and it may not be fully real to her.
If you have her calling you daddy all the time, on the other hand, it can eventually become the fulcrum of your relationship. And sure, it's okay to have just-for-the-bedroom fantasies," but blending the lines between the bedroom and the "real world" as much as possible makes things a lot more exciting. Not to mention how much this particular blended line can stack the deck in your favor.
Hell, I remember growing up there were old guys around who had their women calling them daddy even in front of everyone else - that's game. You don't hear that stuff all that much anymore.
Bottom line: Once she really starts to not just call you "daddy" but actually submits to that frame of reference, that's way more rewarding, in and out of the sack, than any temporary sexual role playing could ever be.
In any case, Man, have fun with it. It's all part of the dance.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling