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(12-30-2015 12:07 PM)offthereservation Wrote:  

(12-30-2015 10:59 AM)Remington Wrote:  

(12-30-2015 10:37 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

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Since it's gotten cold, the LTR threads have been popping up like pumpkin spice lattes.

Brutal.

Was just about to say something about that line. Hilarious.

My current LTR and I are all about taking it slow and having fun. We can only hang out on the weekends so we try to do one thing fun each time out. That can be going to a bar to watch the game or dicking around at the shooting range.

The sex is great and I get it whenever I want. She cooks for me and always has a smile on her face. We do a lot of stuff I want to do which is cool, but I also give her options of what is available so she thinks she sometimes picks the activity. Kind of like when you want your kid to go to bed. Instead of telling him to go to bed, you give him the option of what PJs he wants to wear.

I genuinely enjoy spending time with her and the time commitment isn't anything crazy. She is completely enamored with me so at this point, the relationship will end if I want it to to end. Nothing has happened (yet) where I would question it, but you never know what could unfold.

Hey man I thought the same thing about my LTR I just dumped.

Everything was fine and dandy for the most part (until I had my eyes opened by this forum), you mentioned you're taking it slow, having fun, BUT only see eachother on the weekends.

Sooner or later she won't be "haaapy" just seeing you twice a week and wants more of your time, depending on how long of an LTR you have, she might broach the subject of moving in, futures about marriage and kids, etc.

It's not a matter of IF, it's a matter of WHEN.

In due time, these things WILL surface.

It's at this point you'll have to decide, if she worth moving forward with ? Or is it time to eject ?

Only you can make that decision and in most cases a girl isn't worth it, so you throw her a parachute and hope she lands safely with minimum pain.