Quote: (12-29-2015 04:00 PM)HankMoody Wrote:
Here is some actual advice...
If you're trying to have a "connection" with a woman, to truly enjoy her presence, to gain a deeper understanding of each other on a mental level, you're not going to get laid. She's going to "have such a good time" and then friend zone you.
If your goal is to try and get laid, act aloof and disinterested. Look at your watch. Sneak a peek at the hockey game. Reveal very little about yourself. Do not lean into the conversation, laugh at your own jokes, or try too hard to make her laugh. Treat her like she's one of many in a vast sea of poon.
Hypergamy, my friends. Women don't want to meet their best friend, they want to lure in a man who is better than them.
This is good advice. However, I think it's good advice for 95% of women. And those would be the flaky ones. If you're looking to score, then yes, do exactly what Hank recommends. He's spot on target.
But if you're looking for something besides a bang, a fun chick to have a relationship with perhaps, then the rules change. If a girl needs headgames to be interested in you - if you have to be aloof and assholish to attract her from the start, then she's the sort of girl that will always need that. She wants the aloof badboy, and she will still want that when she's married to you. And then she'll go elsewhere to bang some other aloof guy while you're at work.
If a girl is a straight shooter from the start and actually lets you know she likes you and enjoys your company without any drama... That's the keeper. She's the 5%.
It depends on what you want. If I just want to hookup, then I do what Hank says. If I actually like a girl, then I treat her as such. And then if she flakes because I was too nice, well, then I just learned that she wasn't worth my relationship.