Quote: (12-28-2015 02:10 AM)ball dont lie Wrote:
Quote: (12-28-2015 12:50 AM)Wutang Wrote:
He did start a new blog:
https://longingfordeath.wordpress.com/20...asian-org/
The writer of this blog has some serious anger issues but I think he has hit on a few things that are true. At least it was an angle I hadn't really considered before. I have a buddy who married a Chinese women and his children look almost completely like the mother. I wonder if in the future problems with the marriage will arise because of that.
That's a problem which many children of interracial couples have; if you look around, you can find many support-forums for such people. It's a unique challenge, raising an interracial child; you wind up having to blend two very separate identities.
One worry I would have about raising an interracial child is the mudsharking that he alludes to. A percentage of interracial relationships are primarily fetishization. This doesn't bode well for the emotional health of the relationship, let alone any children produced. Whether it's Asian>White, or White>Black, the male in the pairing is 'othered', nothing but a big dick and social status, who will never be accepted as part of her community. Quite frankly, I find the whole thing so ugly and mercenary that I avoid it, no matter how incredibly sexy those Chinese girls are - I wouldn't want to sleep with her if she were only doing it to upset daddy, and because of some twisted sense of self-hatred.
This isn't to say that interracial dating is wrong in and of itself, but there are a lot of pitfalls to avoid if you go down that route. It's trepidatious.