1) Taking a shot at the throne is alpha behavior.
So you gotta respond like a king and crush him.
I've been in these situations at work.
Hold on Josh, what did you say, please repeat it.
That's not what happened, but Josh were you trying to hurt my feelings? Make me feel low?
Were you just making conversation? Is that your idea of conversation, just talking about people's business all reckless? Is that the kind of friend you are.
Were you trying to make more look bad in front of our friends?
Don't try to play this off Josh, tell us all how you feel about me?
I see your fists balling up,
Your eyes are squinting though..
Are you going to attack me now?
You don't know what to do now, do you?____________________
Keep going into his motivation. Most men can't handle a verbal dismantling.
If you got dirt on him, or if you have the stomach to get dirty.
"Is this about Stacy? We're all just friends here, I'm not pursuing her. "
"We were all having such a good time Josh, why did you ruin it?"
Thing is, i learned a lot about arguments and communications over the years. Group and individual psychology comes with learning game, if you push yourself.
Guys that don't learn how to neg properly or home in on insecurities and vulnerabilities can't ever be alpha or dark triad.
2) Also, if a dude thinks he can come at you girly mouthed you need to get in the gym.
WIA
So you gotta respond like a king and crush him.
I've been in these situations at work.
Hold on Josh, what did you say, please repeat it.
That's not what happened, but Josh were you trying to hurt my feelings? Make me feel low?
Were you just making conversation? Is that your idea of conversation, just talking about people's business all reckless? Is that the kind of friend you are.
Were you trying to make more look bad in front of our friends?
Don't try to play this off Josh, tell us all how you feel about me?
I see your fists balling up,
Your eyes are squinting though..
Are you going to attack me now?
You don't know what to do now, do you?____________________
Keep going into his motivation. Most men can't handle a verbal dismantling.
If you got dirt on him, or if you have the stomach to get dirty.
"Is this about Stacy? We're all just friends here, I'm not pursuing her. "
"We were all having such a good time Josh, why did you ruin it?"
Thing is, i learned a lot about arguments and communications over the years. Group and individual psychology comes with learning game, if you push yourself.
Guys that don't learn how to neg properly or home in on insecurities and vulnerabilities can't ever be alpha or dark triad.
2) Also, if a dude thinks he can come at you girly mouthed you need to get in the gym.
WIA