[Akula]

(11-07-2015 10:23 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

(10-09-2015 11:35 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  

I watched this yesterday and what struck me is how cynical everyone involved is.

The profiteers, the rights advocates, the judges, and the victims. It's all just deeply cynical and broken people.

There's no community or sense of shared cultural value. It's just people ratfucking each other mercilously for another nibble at the cheese.

Yup, even among the afflicted, its very hard to find information to sort through whats real and what not. Thats why its important that any guy going through this educate themselves first by reading lots of books, exploring as much information that exists out there about divorce, knowing your states laws, and of course the minimum of having self control through the process. Thats before you even hire an attorney. Unlike a leaky faucet, you cant just hire someone to fix all of your problems, or trust that the free forms they hand out in the court room will give you the right information or knowledge to have a successful outcome. Its a business, and like a business, no one is there for your best interests out of charity.

The only other thing is making sure it never happens to you again. A vasectomy, never getting married again and learning some game is the easiest way to start. I can never figure out these guys who get remarried, especially when they have children from the past and go on to create more children. Is it really that hard to get laid?? You are guaranteeing that you are going to die broke and miserable. Look at Robin Williams. Look at my dad. And your kids who will become the second or third priority in your life, while your too busy rushing around town going to Target and fulfilling your girlfriends Disney marriage fantasy. You have to have a girlfriend? Fine, get the V and dont move in together. Its so pathetic, I think most of these guys just need a mommy to pick up after them.

I never got it either, and used to chalk it up to the prior generations of men expecting a woman to always be around and that just being how it is. Most older men still harbor deep (unearned) respect for women in general and tend to think that they will always "do the right thing" because "she's a good woman" for the most part, even though today that's certainly not the case.

But guys these days? I guess it all comes down to the last part of your post I bolded re being momma's boys, plus the fact that men are so lost today for the most part due to all the mixed messages they get and the generally abysmal quality of Western women. But any idiot who knows anything about divorce laws should have serious reservations about tying the knot.

I still can't understand why famous simps do it.