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Another aspect of the relationship is that our personalities simply click. I've had plenty of girls in the past where I was actively thinking of when to say 'x' and do 'y'. I was interacting on a pick up level instead of simply being myself. While the advice of 'being yourself' is usually terrible, after gaining the basics it is exactly what you need to do. I had matured into the man I wanted to be because of this forum and Roosh's works. I picked my girlfriend up by talking to her at a friend's house, getting her number, texting her to go to parties (she didn't go out much), switched it up and took her on a hike, and a week later got her into bed. I even sent her a "last night was fun" text to protect from a false rape claim. She laughed when I told her about it because a non-damaged girl doesn't have those thoughts.
We also have the same sense of humor which matters more than you would think. When it's 90 degrees out and the A/C is broken, humor is really all you have left. She's been a ride or die sidekick the last 2 years. I've been bouncing through a couple jobs trying to catch my stride after college and she's taken the support role like a boss. I've been stuck working 65 hours a week and she keeps up the house, takes care of my dog like it's her own child, and makes sure I'm happy when I'm home. I really can't complain about anything.
Great for you. Everything I'm reading here sounds like you've got a keeper relationship. I'm the same way in mine and it has been fantastic....everyone else who I know that is in a good relationship is the same way with their women.
As I see it one of the hallmarks of a quality woman is that she does shit for you when there's no payoff. Like what you're saying when shes doing everything you need to and adapting her work to complementing the demands on you.
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Bottom line: YOUR career ALWAYS comes first and NEVER forget that the game never ends; it MUST evolve with the circumstances.
Also true. To the OP, don't ever sit on your laurels or get lazy. You've got to stay in shape, stay confident, and stay social. If you get lazy and slow down you will regress to being the kind of guy you were before you met her and if that happens the writing will be on the wall.