I'm walking down the street and open a girl at street corner, start a conversation. She soon starts asking me questions about myself and we walk together, asks me where I'm going, and I just make up I'm going to X street...she says shes going there too, I'm like oh shit, she asks me where on street I'm going, I make up first place that comes to mind, she tells me shes going to another, she needs to get a drink to calm down after work, none of her friends wanted to come out with her, will probably only take one drink to calm her down (in my head I'm thinking try for instadate but dont' pull the trigger...). Not only is she inquiring about me, and giggling at every thing I say, I stop thinking there is a red light when there isn't (she sees that its ok to go, then stops and back tracks and comes back to me), she is about to cross to other side of X street, when she sees I'm not, so she once again walks with me, and I cross at one point and she follows me. Basically all inclinations are this girl is interested in me.
She then gets to the bar she is going to, says it was really nice meeting me, and kind of strange we were going to to the same area. I then said I think she is really cool and ask her if she would like to hang out some time. She then looks like a deer in head lights..."No...uh...No..." (basically mumbles words looking for an excuse to give me)
This was second time I've been pretty surprised a girl said no. I was pretty sure she was dropping hints she wanted to get a drink with me and don't know if it would of went differently if I asked her if she wanted to get a drink with me (I don't drink and not a big fan of bars, so that was the excuse I used in my head not to ask her on insta date which now I wish I did) I was just positive she liked me and thought for sure she would say yes anyways, and would be more comfortable in another setting.
Anyways, after months of doing daygame, I'm in a long slump now in asking girls out (either get the BF line or some form of your sweet but no...) Before the slump though was getting a few numbers but every girl was flaking, pretty much have been on two dates with one girl back in July/August and one date with this crazy 30 something year old who I started up convo for the hell of it who invited me to sit down with her and I did an instadate just for practice.
Can girls just say no due to being nervous? I had a situation myself at a bar where I was watching a game, had girl come over and flirt with me then invited me over to her five friends. I was pretty intimidated, paniced and said something like yeah sure maybe in a little bit and never did which I also regret..
She then gets to the bar she is going to, says it was really nice meeting me, and kind of strange we were going to to the same area. I then said I think she is really cool and ask her if she would like to hang out some time. She then looks like a deer in head lights..."No...uh...No..." (basically mumbles words looking for an excuse to give me)
This was second time I've been pretty surprised a girl said no. I was pretty sure she was dropping hints she wanted to get a drink with me and don't know if it would of went differently if I asked her if she wanted to get a drink with me (I don't drink and not a big fan of bars, so that was the excuse I used in my head not to ask her on insta date which now I wish I did) I was just positive she liked me and thought for sure she would say yes anyways, and would be more comfortable in another setting.
Anyways, after months of doing daygame, I'm in a long slump now in asking girls out (either get the BF line or some form of your sweet but no...) Before the slump though was getting a few numbers but every girl was flaking, pretty much have been on two dates with one girl back in July/August and one date with this crazy 30 something year old who I started up convo for the hell of it who invited me to sit down with her and I did an instadate just for practice.
Can girls just say no due to being nervous? I had a situation myself at a bar where I was watching a game, had girl come over and flirt with me then invited me over to her five friends. I was pretty intimidated, paniced and said something like yeah sure maybe in a little bit and never did which I also regret..