Quote: (08-02-2015 04:35 AM)kaotic Wrote:
Did you let her know at all beforehand, as in set the tone this was temporary ? Or led her on so you could bang her ? (I don't mean this in an insulting or criticizing tone).
It's gotta be done, unless you can keep it casual and friendly, if you have plans on revisiting.
Some girls are fire and forget, others can be a great network tool.
It's not like she won't hop on another foreigners dick, if she's fucked you, you know she has and will do the same again.
Yeah she knew I was just visiting and that I was leaving.
She just didn't know exactly when.
It's hard to explain in a write-up because it's impossible to convey nuance but it just felt like the wrong move, you know?
I could have left her with a lingering feeling of enchantment rather than "see ya, I'm going to sleep alone now, nice knowing you."
@Jariel - I agree that you can't let feelings govern you if you're going to be playing the game.
That's not what this is though.
I really adore women, and if it all possible, I always want to leave them better than I found them.
I believe I succeeded overall because she and I had a great time.
But the way I ended it seems inelegant in retrospect.
It's like a song I was writing the entire week and at the very end, in a moment of inattention, I loudly strummed a dissonant, jarring chord.
I didn't use to think that way but as I get older and more self-actualized, I want to do these kinds of things.
It's not even about the girl per se, I do it for ME.