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Stuck in a black hole, need some advice
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Stuck in a black hole, need some advice

Get a job in Sales, Marketing or IT. Anything. Start from the bottom if you have too. I'm guessing you're in your early to mid 20's. You can find a easily find a job in Sales in the GTA area. Do you speak another language besides English? I'm guessing Mandarin or Cantonese. Correct me if I'm wrong. You can find a job in a bank selling Mutual Funds to the Chinese Clientele. Just a suggestion. My point is focus on your strengths. And speaking a 2nd or 3rd language is a great skill to have. Once you get a job, cut all unnecessary expenses and live on the low until you pay off all your debts. And attack your debts! All of them. No excuses. You don't want any debt burden. I'm 37 now and in debt because I had my head in my ass during my 20s. Don't do the same mistake. Your number goal right now should be to get out of debt. At the same time, focus on your health. Go run, do push-ups squats pulls ups etc...do some sort of body weight exercise and cardio everyday. This will help with the depression. Are you a Buddhist? Do you have a spiritual side? If so, focus on something spiritual every day. Whether you read a test, church, mosque meditation etc. Anything. Do something to feed your soul. (Don't underestimate the power of meditation) And as for your parents, man up. Just go there with a plan and tell them about it. Explain everything. If they freak out, they freak out. Don't focus on things you cant control. Focus on you only.

I hope this helps. Keep us posted please.
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