Quote: (07-29-2015 04:50 PM)samsamsam Wrote:Nah dude... By contrast, look at how dumb newbies are treated around here.
Quote: (07-29-2015 04:48 PM)Ziltoid Wrote:
What is to become of the ones who didn't own up to it, if anything?
To be honest, I don't see it to be the end of the world to show someone a little compassion, as long as it doesn't become something where the guy is hoping to get something out of it, or the chick turns it into a constant whine-a-thon.
We are human, we all have our struggles and moments of weakness. Being kind to someone doesn't automatically revoke your manhood.
Not even saying they don't deserve it. Tough love.
If some guy made a post lamenting how lonely he was after getting dumped by his girlfriend, and how depressed he was about the state of his life and modern women, how many PM's would he get tenderly telling him they're "pained" to hear he feels that way. For fuck's sake...
A mentally unstable 6/10 attention whore stumbles onto this forum, threating to out/dox some ex member, and guys are PMing her support and E-hugs. You've got to be shitting me.
I come to RVF to be free of this shit.
Respect to Reno for being honest and I'm not trying to pick on him or single him out (in fact I'd bet money his PM was far from the worst of the bunch), and I've certainly done and said dumb things around here myself, but man does the idea of this rub me the wrong way.