Quote: (06-19-2015 09:25 AM)worldtraveler3 Wrote:
What's the best way to screen these girls u think
By being clear and direct from the tip-off. I've posted before (currently in China which I've lived in for almost 3 years, leaving in a few days for the summer) that a solid player can bat .750 in his home turf - not always a guarantee but extremely respectable numbers.
The girls that have come over and not fucked were girls I gave no indication that I wanted to fuck them - I gave off a 'let's be friends' vibe (men and women are friends in China - and yes, 90% of the time he got friendzoned). The girls that have came over and fucked I dropped game and innuendo and double entendres and hints to sex (in a culture where discussion of sex is still considered taboo) and still came anyways. If you're attracted to her, tell her, and yeah you might put off a girl you really like with an overly sexual vibe, but ask yourself this; if she's put off by you going for what you (and likely she to a degree) want, is she what you want?
Not saying be overt and obnoxious and - frankly 'American' with it (stereotype or not...4 of the 5 stupidest foreigners I've met - of several hundred - in China were American) - but make it clear what you're after, and if she doesn't bite on it then next her. No shortage of girls who like foreigners here...but dating them and keeping them around, that's another 5-6 paragraphs of situational ethics entirely.
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Suits is right...any manner of underhanded, deceptive, manipulative bullshit Chinese people can pull on you to extract a little more cash from you, they WILL do. China has two classes of people; poor people (living on 2000-3000 a month) who actually need the money, and the nouveaux-riche, who are all about the 'Greed is good!' style of living (landlord shows you a place and quotes you, a foreigner, 3000 a month rent...a Chinese person he'd say 2300 a month. Why? Because they're likely rich and because they can). Exceptions exist of course - but you really want to get fucked over because you believe in exceptions?
Keep your guard up.