Quote: (06-18-2015 09:42 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
Great points, as always CRR. But I want to make one modification: I think American women simply *don't understand at all* how being pleasant is an attractive quality and how being a bitch causes ruined lives, wrecked relationships, and limp dicks.
When women see a buff guy who speaks with a lisp and runs away scared of mice, they are instinctively repulsed. "Sex and the City" even did a segment on this. Women like men with manly, not feminine, qualities.
Similarly, when men meet sarcastic bitches, they're instinctively repulsed. If I want someone to give me shit, I'll go to a boss or a trainer. That's not the quality I seek in a mate.
The million dollar question is: Why are parents, school, and the media teaching women that bitchiness is a good quality and being pleasant is bad? It sure as hell wasn't this was 50 years ago, judging from the media then.
This goes back to young women women being told by everyone at every turn throughout their upbringing that they should be independently financially and professionally successful, and pursue all these things with unwavering selfishness. They've been socially conditioned to not be concerned about having children or starting a family, or that having a man in their life is necessary or even beneficial. Because of this they have not been promoted to develop and hone qualities that make them sweet, accommodating, soft, inviting, and nurturing or in any other way pleasing to have around as a long term domestic partner.
Typically they grew up in dual-income households with both parents being college-educated careerists. Statistically their parents had a poor relationship with one another and likely got divorced/separated. They likely were in custody of their mother in this case and were likely fed a skewed perception of their father and men/relationships in general. They have been taught to put hedonism over altruism.