Quote: (06-04-2015 06:55 AM)Samseau Wrote:
So far it looks like sex is no more sinful than any other wordly pleasure. In excess it's just hedonism but having a good bang doesn't seem to be any more sinful than having an expensive, fancy, and big steak dinner.
Obviously if you get a woman pregnant then the man has other obligations; but the sex itself isn't the sin. Again there's more to Biblical sexual ethics other than "NEVER HAVE SEX UNLESS MARRIED," or "FREE LOVE BRAH," but this post was just to talk about premarital sex with non-virginal women who aren't whores since it is the most applicable to our modern world.
You seem to be guessing too much here and jumping to conclusions based on arbitrarily drawn line.
How do you draw a line between slutiness, whoredom, sexual indecency, and so on ? I can already predict you will say "obviously, we know it from our own experiences in modern western dating world" but that exactly is the problem. Who gave western male a mandate to define sexual decency for Christians ? Based on mating patterns of broken western women ?
Let me be rough and clear here. Western women (85%) have nothing to do with God. Judgmental ? Yes. So i can't see how teachings of Christ and other messiahs and apostles can be applied in a way to approve rampant mating with Godless creatures. As preachers would say "It's not part of God's plan". Christian insistence on marriage has it's purpose. By committing to a Christian spouse, both of you can live separated from sinful world and produce Christian offspring, therefore, living in a sort of your own family "church". Bible would in no way advise a man to live separated from decent people and believers and go out there to freely fulfill his innermost desires.