I think the O.P. may be an extreme introvert or have some kind of anxiety issues, it sounds like he dreads the whole process of gaming and dating women, but yet wants to "be in love with a beautiful intelligent woman." Sounds like he's more driven by pair-bonding than he is by his desire to purely have sex with women, I know guys like this, they're more interested in finding the "one" and being in love.
I do question the OP when he says he has a high sex drive, if he did he would desire sex from these women, and push to escalate sexually. This may be a psychological issue and not a case of low T. The other forum members have pointed out that it may be that these girls he's dating just aren't that sexually attractive, or at least he's not that into them. If I get a number from a hot 8 and she agrees to go on a date with me, you better believe I'm going to push hard to have sex with her, not out of a need to perform a checklist of game duties, but because I genuinely want to put my penis inside of her.
I can see how the OP may be an extreme introvert, therefore the act of gaming and dating is exhausting to him, and he feels more calm, relaxed, and at peace when he is just doing his own thing solo. For extroverts or guys who don't swing too far towards the introvert side of the spectrum this can be hard to understand. Hardcore introverts can find the process of forcing oneself to be extroverted, approach, be high energy, and charming to be somewhat taxing mentally and emotionally, especially in the U.S. dating market where women are ADHD, have very high standards, and are apathetic towards men, when they have an endless supply of options.
I do question the OP when he says he has a high sex drive, if he did he would desire sex from these women, and push to escalate sexually. This may be a psychological issue and not a case of low T. The other forum members have pointed out that it may be that these girls he's dating just aren't that sexually attractive, or at least he's not that into them. If I get a number from a hot 8 and she agrees to go on a date with me, you better believe I'm going to push hard to have sex with her, not out of a need to perform a checklist of game duties, but because I genuinely want to put my penis inside of her.
I can see how the OP may be an extreme introvert, therefore the act of gaming and dating is exhausting to him, and he feels more calm, relaxed, and at peace when he is just doing his own thing solo. For extroverts or guys who don't swing too far towards the introvert side of the spectrum this can be hard to understand. Hardcore introverts can find the process of forcing oneself to be extroverted, approach, be high energy, and charming to be somewhat taxing mentally and emotionally, especially in the U.S. dating market where women are ADHD, have very high standards, and are apathetic towards men, when they have an endless supply of options.