Take the offer from your parents.
I believe that if you don't, you will always be nagged by the feeling of having been a poor son to your parents. I know that guys will tell you to forget about that, but in reality it's not so simple, easier said than done. You come from a culture where the family attachment is very important, and that is the sort of thing that grows and deepens in a man over time. There are few things worse than having to live with a gnawing regret that you cannot undo in any way.
Beyond that, I think there are other reasons why you should do this:
-- If you run a serious hotel and learn how to manage other people, you will acquire invaluable skills, practical skills that you'd be hard pressed to come by in any other way. Those skills can transfer to many other places in the world. If and when your parents are no longer around -- and you feel perfectly content that you've done right by them, and beyond that -- and you still want to leave Vietnam, you'll be able to do that on your own terms, from a position of financial stability, and taking your skills with you wherever you choose to go.
-- I believe that as a manager of a serious hotel in Vietnam, you will be able to run some quite high quality pussy there; probably hotter than what you would get in the West if you run it right, as a subtle, gentlemanly player and rake. Plain Viet pussy might be nothing special, but high end Viet pussy is very, very nice indeed -- I mean, very nice. And you will be able to run that, I believe, well and discreetly, and you will enjoy the hell out of it.
-- Finally, you don't have to stay there all year round. When the off season comes, take some vacations to RVF hotspots which you'll be able to go to without having to pinch pennies at all times.
I truly believe you will have a better life and life trajectory if you do this. And you are not closing any doors.
I believe that if you don't, you will always be nagged by the feeling of having been a poor son to your parents. I know that guys will tell you to forget about that, but in reality it's not so simple, easier said than done. You come from a culture where the family attachment is very important, and that is the sort of thing that grows and deepens in a man over time. There are few things worse than having to live with a gnawing regret that you cannot undo in any way.
Beyond that, I think there are other reasons why you should do this:
-- If you run a serious hotel and learn how to manage other people, you will acquire invaluable skills, practical skills that you'd be hard pressed to come by in any other way. Those skills can transfer to many other places in the world. If and when your parents are no longer around -- and you feel perfectly content that you've done right by them, and beyond that -- and you still want to leave Vietnam, you'll be able to do that on your own terms, from a position of financial stability, and taking your skills with you wherever you choose to go.
-- I believe that as a manager of a serious hotel in Vietnam, you will be able to run some quite high quality pussy there; probably hotter than what you would get in the West if you run it right, as a subtle, gentlemanly player and rake. Plain Viet pussy might be nothing special, but high end Viet pussy is very, very nice indeed -- I mean, very nice. And you will be able to run that, I believe, well and discreetly, and you will enjoy the hell out of it.
-- Finally, you don't have to stay there all year round. When the off season comes, take some vacations to RVF hotspots which you'll be able to go to without having to pinch pennies at all times.
I truly believe you will have a better life and life trajectory if you do this. And you are not closing any doors.
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