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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Griprip08 - 10-20-2014
Quote: (10-20-2014 10:41 AM)dancingjohn Wrote:
Girl: So.. You are kinda sexy, huh
What's to be said here ? This was out of the blue text. The convo before this was just trying to figure out logistics. Although I already replied to this, I was very sleepy then and not sure if it was the best reply.
Next time...
"Don't remind me"
"I deal with it"
"Blame my parents"
"Kinda? You're harsh"
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - reco2100 - 10-22-2014
So here is an interesting one. Met this chick online about three weeks ago. We met chemistry was good. We had good comfort and banged on the first night. She is only 18 and in college but seems to really be into me. We planned on meeting up the following week which is this week. I find out her schedule and we plan to get together when she is free. So this morning I am following up for our meetup tonight.
Me: Goodmorning 9:58 AM
Her: Good morning I dont think I can make it today trying to get out if dance practice 10:02 AM (she never mentioned dance practice before)
Me: K...maybe some other time 11:05 AM (I kept my interval long)
Her: Wow.. don't have to be so stern about it 11:10 AM
Me: Lol...stern? 11:16 AM
Her: Forget it 11:19 AM
I am sure this is a frame issue and her trying to control the frame. This chick is hot, and a great fuck especially for an 18YO but I am perfectly willing to walk away if needed. What would you guys do? My first impulse is to say nothing and go silent for about a week.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 10-22-2014
Quote: (10-22-2014 10:30 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
So here is an interesting one. Met this chick online about three weeks ago. We met chemistry was good. We had good comfort and banged on the first night. She is only 18 and in college but seems to really be into me. We planned on meeting up the following week which is this week. I find out her schedule and we plan to get together when she is free. So this morning I am following up for our meetup tonight.
Me: Goodmorning 9:58 AM
Her: Good morning I dont think I can make it today trying to get out if dance practice 10:02 AM (she never mentioned dance practice before)
Me: K...maybe some other time 11:05 AM (I kept my interval long)
Her: Wow.. don't have to be so stern about it 11:10 AM
Me: Lol...stern? 11:16 AM
Her: Forget it 11:19 AM
I am sure this is a frame issue and her trying to control the frame. This chick is hot, and a great fuck especially for an 18YO but I am perfectly willing to walk away if needed. What would you guys do? My first impulse is to say nothing and go silent for about a week.
I think you know the answer.
I didn't see any malice in what you said, you obviously bruised her ego.
Don't reply let that marinate in her head, she might text you apologizing, if not, a restart text next week will work fine.
Good news is, at least you got the bang.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - reco2100 - 10-22-2014
Thanks brothers that's what I will do. She is very hot and was sweet so far. But I think like most hot chicks she is used to getting her way.
Appreciate the feedback. This forum is awesome.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 10-22-2014
Quote: (10-22-2014 11:42 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
Thanks brothers that's what I will do. She is very hot and was sweet so far. But I think like most hot chicks she is used to getting her way.
Appreciate the feedback. This forum is awesome.
That you met online....that you banged on the first meet up - remember that.
Don't pedestalize her, you don't think she's doing this with other guys ?
Take it for what it is and keep on banging.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - AneroidOcean - 10-23-2014
Quote: (10-22-2014 10:30 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
So here is an interesting one. Met this chick online about three weeks ago. We met chemistry was good. We had good comfort and banged on the first night. She is only 18 and in college but seems to really be into me. We planned on meeting up the following week which is this week. I find out her schedule and we plan to get together when she is free. So this morning I am following up for our meetup tonight.
Me: Goodmorning 9:58 AM
Her: Good morning I dont think I can make it today trying to get out if dance practice 10:02 AM (she never mentioned dance practice before)
Me: K...maybe some other time 11:05 AM (I kept my interval long)
Her: Wow.. don't have to be so stern about it 11:10 AM
Me: Lol...stern? 11:16 AM
Her: Forget it 11:19 AM
I am sure this is a frame issue and her trying to control the frame. This chick is hot, and a great fuck especially for an 18YO but I am perfectly willing to walk away if needed. What would you guys do? My first impulse is to say nothing and go silent for about a week.
After she semi-flaked much better to just say something ambiguous like "k" or "hmm" or even no response at all
I think you also made a mistake saying "Lol...stern?" as in backing off from your statement. Next time something like, "?" or "practice practice practice makes [her name] a dull girl"
Turn the frame around, or go silent, definitely.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - reco2100 - 10-23-2014
Quote: (10-23-2014 04:42 AM)AneroidOcean Wrote:
Quote: (10-22-2014 10:30 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
So here is an interesting one. Met this chick online about three weeks ago. We met chemistry was good. We had good comfort and banged on the first night. She is only 18 and in college but seems to really be into me. We planned on meeting up the following week which is this week. I find out her schedule and we plan to get together when she is free. So this morning I am following up for our meetup tonight.
Me: Goodmorning 9:58 AM
Her: Good morning I dont think I can make it today trying to get out if dance practice 10:02 AM (she never mentioned dance practice before)
Me: K...maybe some other time 11:05 AM (I kept my interval long)
Her: Wow.. don't have to be so stern about it 11:10 AM
Me: Lol...stern? 11:16 AM
Her: Forget it 11:19 AM
I am sure this is a frame issue and her trying to control the frame. This chick is hot, and a great fuck especially for an 18YO but I am perfectly willing to walk away if needed. What would you guys do? My first impulse is to say nothing and go silent for about a week.
After she semi-flaked much better to just say something ambiguous like "k" or "hmm" or even no response at all
I think you also made a mistake saying "Lol...stern?" as in backing off from your statement. Next time something like, "?" or "practice practice practice makes [her name] a dull girl"
Turn the frame around, or go silent, definitely.
AO thanks for the tips. I see exactly what you mean.
@Kaotic, I think you are right. Even though she is only 18 I can see her wheels turning. And yes I do have another scheduled for tonight. We will see how it goes. She is not as good looking but she seems like fun.
Also an update. I did not need to go silent very long. She reached out to me last night with some kind of relationship question. I did not answer until late and then did not answer her question. Just said "whats up" like nothing is going on.
She answered me back this morning like she totally forgot about the orginal question. Then telling me she is real sick.
My analysis is that she is full of shit, trying to get me in the boyfriend mode and is going through her rollodex to get me into line. She is hot looking and is probably used to guys falling into line with her.
So I replied that too bad, I was going to see if she wanted to hang out but since she is sick some other time. lol
It is just like you guys said it is. Little discipline on my side and she keeps contacting me. lol
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Slacker101 - 10-24-2014
Met a girl at the bar last night. She initiated talking to me and was leaning up against me in a playful, not drunk, way while talking to me. Turns out she's a friend's sister's friend or something. Anyway she wanted me to send her a video of one person singing Karaoke. I didn't play my game right and some douche ended up talking to her the rest of the night. Any ideas how to play this? I already texted her that the video won't send but I never got a response. I can't think of any angles, might be a lost cause.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Valhalla - 10-25-2014
I've been getting baited a lot via text recently from okc recently.
A girl will get sexual or go along with im saying then their hamster will flip the next day and they'll say "we're looking for different things"
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Libertas - 10-25-2014
Latest pickup was yesterday. Here is today's text exchange:
Me: Hey Russian it was nice meeting you yesterday. (Callback humor because I told her she looked like she was from Russia.)
Her: Yes how was drinks with your friend?
Me: Went to a bar by his place, was good seeing him. Did you wind up going to the _____
Her: Noo I just went home after, I figure I'll come back next week.
Me: I'm out running a few errands. Are you uptown at all today?
Her: No I went home.
Me: OK, perhaps next week then. I know a couple of places you'll like.
I don't think this was bad. She asked a question, tried to build up a bit of rapport, and so on. Now, how should I re-initiate this? I think a feeler text in a day or so and then asking her what her plans are seems alright. If she answers the feeler I might just call.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 10-28-2014
Quote: (10-25-2014 05:29 PM)Libertas Wrote:
Latest pickup was yesterday. Here is today's text exchange:
Me: Hey Russian it was nice meeting you yesterday. (Callback humor because I told her she looked like she was from Russia.)
Her: Yes how was drinks with your friend?
Me: Went to a bar by his place, was good seeing him. Did you wind up going to the _____
Her: Noo I just went home after, I figure I'll come back next week.
Me: I'm out running a few errands. Are you uptown at all today?
Her: No I went home.
Me: OK, perhaps next week then. I know a couple of places you'll like.
I don't think this was bad. She asked a question, tried to build up a bit of rapport, and so on. Now, how should I re-initiate this? I think a feeler text in a day or so and then asking her what her plans are seems alright. If she answers the feeler I might just call.
I'd go for straight setting up a date and seein how she responds, cool if she's down for your date, good if she counter offers, not so good if she's wishy washy.
I usually will quickly touch base with the 1st test or add a date plan to it.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - reco2100 - 10-31-2014
So little update on the previous challenges I had with the chick from Texas. Met at a convention and was cockblocked by my really good looking “friend”. Almost got the bang but no cigar. So like I was saying she went back to her hometown but she visits here frequently. And we left it open agreeing to stay in touch when she comes to town.
Well I have waited a couple of weeks and want to reengage to maintain a little contact. Nothing too heavy just keep in touch so we can make plans. So far not so good though. I texted her couple of days ago and this is what has happened so far.
Me: Hey there this is that sexy man from ____. (trying to open with something flirty.)
(almost exactly 24 hours later)
Her: Hey there! HRU?
(I waited about 12 hours)
Me: Young kid with a dream…just got off the driving range…what are you up to? (trying to get her to engage)
Its been two days and no response. I know the goal is to get her to chase me. But I am not getting there. What would you guys recommend? I know that my texts aren’t the best but that’s all I have. I cannot just create witty banter out of nothing. Especially when she is giving me nothing. Is this a case of just cut my losses and move on? Or should I just tell her to contact me when she comes out? Or my natural friend said he is a big fan of confrontation. And said to just send a humorous text like “you are breaking up with me already?” I didn’t like that one. Or maybe just ask to set up a meeting date and time. What would you guys do? I want to be aloof but if we are both aloof there is nothing to go on. lol
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Roardog - 11-04-2014
Need help with a couple of messages guys. I met these two girls at the Halloween house part I was at last Friday night and text them both Sunday night.
This one got back to me the next night and we exchanged a couple of playful texts to build rapport before the below.
Me: What day is good for you next week to grab a drink?
Her: Things are kind of crazy right now - work and I'm about to head off overseas for 5 weeks. I don't want to muck you around.
The second girl got back to me on Tuesday (a public holiday here) with the exchange below.
Me (Sunday night): Hey Steph, just a reminder to make sure you pay your fine on time or I'll have to issue a warrant for your arrest ;-) Officer Roardog (I had gone as a cop to the Halloween party and given her a fine for something I can't even remember now)
Her: Hey Roardog, thanks for the message. I have to say I'm feeling flattered and part of me would like you to issue that warrant but I'm afraid I haven't been entirely honest with you. I'm only a couple of weeks out of a long term relationship, so even though I'm tempted, I have to tell you I'm not in the right mindset to start dating yet and I'm sorry if you feel I led you on. I hope there's no hard feelings. S x
So neither of these is looking to date, which is 100% fine by me, but I'm unsure how to get that across to them without sounding like I just want to bang them. I feel like they have both left the door open as if they weren't interested they wouldn't have bothered replying in the first place.
Suggestions?
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - General Stalin - 11-06-2014
Quote: (10-31-2014 10:09 AM)reco2100 Wrote:
So little update on the previous challenges I had with the chick from Texas. Met at a convention and was cockblocked by my really good looking “friend”. Almost got the bang but no cigar. So like I was saying she went back to her hometown but she visits here frequently. And we left it open agreeing to stay in touch when she comes to town.
Well I have waited a couple of weeks and want to reengage to maintain a little contact. Nothing too heavy just keep in touch so we can make plans. So far not so good though. I texted her couple of days ago and this is what has happened so far.
Me: Hey there this is that sexy man from ____. (trying to open with something flirty.)
(almost exactly 24 hours later)
Her: Hey there! HRU?
(I waited about 12 hours)
Me: Young kid with a dream…just got off the driving range…what are you up to? (trying to get her to engage)
Its been two days and no response. I know the goal is to get her to chase me. But I am not getting there. What would you guys recommend? I know that my texts aren’t the best but that’s all I have. I cannot just create witty banter out of nothing. Especially when she is giving me nothing. Is this a case of just cut my losses and move on? Or should I just tell her to contact me when she comes out? Or my natural friend said he is a big fan of confrontation. And said to just send a humorous text like “you are breaking up with me already?” I didn’t like that one. Or maybe just ask to set up a meeting date and time. What would you guys do? I want to be aloof but if we are both aloof there is nothing to go on. lol
Waste of time. Girls are on their text game like flies on shit - if she is waiting days to respond to you then she is not interested. Next her and keep looking.
Now I have an interesting one. This is a girl I had a mini-relationship with that I would have liked to continue banging but she ultimately called things off. The whole "I don't see this in the long run" bit so she decided to end things with me (was about a month ago now). We dated for about 7 months and things ended on her terms with her gradually going dark on me then finally having a phone conversation or two about her not seeing us going any further whatever. Anyway she got word about a knee injury of mine and sent me a text today:
her(12:49pm): Sorry too hear about your knee! Wtf! How is this just coming forward?!
me(1:33pm): 6 weeks of pt wasnt making it better so I saw a specialist
her(1:35pm): I can't believe it didn't figure it out
her(1:36pm): *Pt
her(1:41pm): You must have been in so much pain early on
I recognize trying to parlay this casual reconnect into a bang may be a touchy event so I'd like a little advice.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - AneroidOcean - 11-06-2014
Quote: (11-06-2014 02:15 PM)General Stalin Wrote:
Now I have an interesting one. This is a girl I had a mini-relationship with that I would have liked to continue banging but she ultimately called things off. The whole "I don't see this in the long run" bit so she decided to end things with me (was about a month ago now). We dated for about 7 months and things ended on her terms with her gradually going dark on me then finally having a phone conversation or two about her not seeing us going any further whatever. Anyway she got word about a knee injury of mine and sent me a text today:
her(12:49pm): Sorry too hear about your knee! Wtf! How is this just coming forward?!
me(1:33pm): 6 weeks of pt wasnt making it better so I saw a specialist
her(1:35pm): I can't believe it didn't figure it out
her(1:36pm): *Pt
her(1:41pm): You must have been in so much pain early on
I recognize trying to parlay this casual reconnect into a bang may be a touchy event so I'd like a little advice.
"I was. Still hurts, but the worst part is just sitting around. So boring."
Then whenever she responds, you should say something along the lines of, "maybe you could come entertain me, we can catch up"
Plausible deniability. No reason not to take advantage of your present situation. Keep it short, she's giving you good responses, may be interested.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - General Stalin - 11-06-2014
Quote: (11-06-2014 02:21 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:
"I was. Still hurts, but the worst part is just sitting around. So boring."
Then whenever she responds, you should say something along the lines of, "maybe you could come entertain me, we can catch up"
Plausible deniability. No reason not to take advantage of your present situation. Keep it short, she's giving you good responses, may be interested.
There's a little more to it than that - I've been living with this injury for the entire time I knew her, but I just went to a specialist finally last week and learned the extent of the actual damage and will need surgery to correct it. She knows I'm still moving around until I actually get the surgery. She is messaging me upon finding out that I will be getting surgery in the near future.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - AneroidOcean - 11-06-2014
Quote: (11-06-2014 02:26 PM)General Stalin Wrote:
There's a little more to it than that - I've been living with this injury for the entire time I knew her, but I just went to a specialist finally last week and learned the extent of the actual damage and will need surgery to correct it. She knows I'm still moving around until I actually get the surgery. She is messaging me upon finding out that I will be getting surgery in the near future.
Just feign interest, "catching up" type deal. Just be positive and then see if she wants to meet up for a drink or a bite to eat depending no how she's reacting. Best of all, you've already dated her, so I'd get her on the phone. Yeah, cliche for texting vs non-texting argument, but you're going to do better on the phone than over text with this kind of thing.
Source: My own multiple injuries and meeting with girls who I'd dated casually.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - robreke - 11-07-2014
what do I text next guys. even though I'm dating others....I Want to keep the door open on this ex as she's cool. Here's the situation:
I saw her at whole foods today and she was friendly. She said " the hair on my neck stands up sometimes when I come here cause I know I'm going to see you" We broke up about a month ago as she wanted to date a long time ex.
We were in the parking lot saying goodbye....and we hugged. I said "Hey" and went in for the kiss....she stopped me rather emotionally and said "No No" I just smirked at her , looked in her eyes and said "You look beautiful" She said thank you. I said "have a good weekend " and walked off.
SHe just text me " Robreke it is hard enough resisting being too friendly and comfortable around you when I see you as it is...I truly wish you wouldn't try to kiss me like that when you see me."
She did sleep with him toward the end of our relationship I know this though she's never admitted it. Though her and I were never exclusive but working in that direction. I'd kind of like to say "well your current boyfriend didn't respect the fact that you and I were going out apparently.....that is assuming you told him we were"
Don't want to be too smart aleck in my response...but tell her it's hard for ME to resist kissing her after the hot relationship we had. WHat's a good text comeback?
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 11-07-2014
Quote: (11-07-2014 03:46 PM)robreke Wrote:
what do I text next guys. even though I'm dating others....I Want to keep the door open on this ex as she's cool. Here's the situation:
I saw her at whole foods today and she was friendly. She said " the hair on my neck stands up sometimes when I come here cause I know I'm going to see you" We broke up about a month ago as she wanted to date a long time ex.
We were in the parking lot saying goodbye....and we hugged. I said "Hey" and went in for the kiss....she stopped me rather emotionally and said "No No" I just smirked at her , looked in her eyes and said "You look beautiful" She said thank you. I said "have a good weekend " and walked off.
SHe just text me " Robreke it is hard enough resisting being too friendly and comfortable around you when I see you as it is...I truly wish you wouldn't try to kiss me like that when you see me."
She did sleep with him toward the end of our relationship I know this though she's never admitted it. Though her and I were never exclusive but working in that direction. I'd kind of like to say "well your current boyfriend didn't respect the fact that you and I were going out apparently.....that is assuming you told him we were"
Don't want to be too smart aleck in my response...but tell her it's hard for ME to resist kissing her after the hot relationship we had. WHat's a good text comeback?
Door sounds open to me, you have a few options:
1) Radio silent, see if she responds, if not throw a restart text
2) Stop talking to her, she's an ex that cheated on you with an old ex
3) Respond with a funny remark that isn't about her new BF or your relationship, parlay into meeting up.
Observations:
-She ejected and got on an ex's dick, it's a high possiblity she'll come back around to yours. (actions speak louder than words)
-She obviously has IOI (hair on my neck stands up, it's hard enough resisting)
-DON'T call her out or insult her about her actions against you, especially if you're trying to keep that bridge open.
-DON'T tell her it's "hard for me to resist" <-this shows thirst and you'll feed her ego
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - robreke - 11-07-2014
How about..."I understand...ill promise you this I wont ever be the one to initiate a kiss again...have a good weekend."
Also...when ive bumped into her a few other times post breakup...she has seemed nervous and not very open.
I would like to respond but not come off as apologizing....her text made it sound like I did something wrong in her mind.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - eradicator - 11-07-2014
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
How about..."I understand...ill promise you this I wont ever be the one to initiate a kiss again...have a good weekend."
Also...when ive bumped into her a few other times post breakup...she has seemed nervous and not very open.
I would like to respond but not come off as apologizing....her text made it sound like I did something wrong in her mind.
i'd just write 'k', and then wait a week and try to set a meet up. what you are writing is a little bit too thought out and butt hurt.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 11-07-2014
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
How about..."I understand...ill promise you this I wont ever be the one to initiate a kiss again...have a good weekend."
Also...when ive bumped into her a few other times post breakup...she has seemed nervous and not very open.
I would like to respond but not come off as apologizing....her text made it sound like I did something wrong in her mind.
You didn't do anything wrong, she stopped you, and you stopped.
That's it. Don't ever apologize for that, it'll make you look weak in her eyes.
She feels nervous and not open because she still has attachment/emotions towards you, I guess a bit intimidated. It's like a sick feeling in your stomach when you see an old love.
Honestly I'd put this on ice for a bit and reach out to her later, emotions are still high it seems.
Hate to sound condescending but you it sounds like you're still stuck on this girls a bit.
In the meantime focus on these other girls you're dating.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - robreke - 11-07-2014
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:41 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
How about..."I understand...ill promise you this I wont ever be the one to initiate a kiss again...have a good weekend."
Also...when ive bumped into her a few other times post breakup...she has seemed nervous and not very open.
I would like to respond but not come off as apologizing....her text made it sound like I did something wrong in her mind.
You didn't do anything wrong, she stopped you, and you stopped.
That's it. Don't ever apologize for that, it'll make you look weak in her eyes.
She feels nervous and not open because she still has attachment/emotions towards you, I guess a bit intimidated. It's like a sick feeling in your stomach when you see an old love.
Honestly I'd put this on ice for a bit and reach out to her later, emotions are still high it seems.
Hate to sound condescending but you it sounds like you're still stuck on this girls a bit.
In the meantime focus on these other girls you're dating.
I just texted her "Ok Kate...have a good weekend"
She texted 15 minutes later...."I think if you were the person I was seeing you wouldn't want me kissing other people"
"Other people" she writes. Haha. Like I'm a random person in line at mcdonalds. I know what she's saying but still....
I am SOOOO tempted to text her something like " So you didn't kiss ( or fuck ) someone else when we were seeing each other?"....or even something subtle and sarcastic like "Yeah...when we were seeing each other...I guess you never kissed......anyone else."
I suppose the best thing is just to go no contact for a few weeks ( my plan )...but damn it's tempting to respond with something else to her last text...especially when I know she was banging her ex the last few weekends we were seeing each other when she was driving down to her parents...
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - kaotic - 11-09-2014
Quote: (11-07-2014 05:18 PM)robreke Wrote:
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:41 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (11-07-2014 04:11 PM)robreke Wrote:
How about..."I understand...ill promise you this I wont ever be the one to initiate a kiss again...have a good weekend."
Also...when ive bumped into her a few other times post breakup...she has seemed nervous and not very open.
I would like to respond but not come off as apologizing....her text made it sound like I did something wrong in her mind.
You didn't do anything wrong, she stopped you, and you stopped.
That's it. Don't ever apologize for that, it'll make you look weak in her eyes.
She feels nervous and not open because she still has attachment/emotions towards you, I guess a bit intimidated. It's like a sick feeling in your stomach when you see an old love.
Honestly I'd put this on ice for a bit and reach out to her later, emotions are still high it seems.
Hate to sound condescending but you it sounds like you're still stuck on this girls a bit.
In the meantime focus on these other girls you're dating.
I just texted her "Ok Kate...have a good weekend"
She texted 15 minutes later...."I think if you were the person I was seeing you wouldn't want me kissing other people"
"Other people" she writes. Haha. Like I'm a random person in line at mcdonalds. I know what she's saying but still....
I am SOOOO tempted to text her something like " So you didn't kiss ( or fuck ) someone else when we were seeing each other?"....or even something subtle and sarcastic like "Yeah...when we were seeing each other...I guess you never kissed......anyone else."
I suppose the best thing is just to go no contact for a few weeks ( my plan )...but damn it's tempting to respond with something else to her last text...especially when I know she was banging her ex the last few weekends we were seeing each other when she was driving down to her parents...
See I told you, you shouldn't of texted her, don't feed her hamster, silence is golden.
The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - L M McCoy - 11-09-2014
Messages a Sloot on OKC. Gave her an amazing neg
her response: "not funny. You're a jerk, good bye"
got her riled up just the way I like it but I layed an egg and don't know how to proceed