Quote: (08-13-2014 06:59 PM)horn Wrote:  

I've even had girls in my car saying, 'I just met you, you could be a killer' in between passionately making out with me at red lights, and putting my hand up their skirt/top, it's hilarious. The comfort game overruled her rational thoughts.

   

Quote: (08-13-2014 07:33 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Quote: (08-12-2014 07:01 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

So it's been 8 months with this main HB 8 (still banging on the side)

She has a feminist fist with the female symbol tatted on the top of her back. She helped create women's studies at a school she went to.

The fear of feminism is overblown in my experience.

That being said, 8 months is still the honey moon.

WIA

True, it doesn't help she told me she's prego, currently freaking the fuck out till she takes the abortion pill next week.

This honeymoon might be over.

Quote: (08-13-2014 08:48 PM)CJ Wrote:  

There's a couple old topics on "screening" but nothing really definitive... I'm working on one now. Anything you fellas feel I should include? I've already got quite a bit written down, but I'm always welcome to ideas, especially things that "MUST" be in this guide.

Hoping to put this one up before I go on my trip to Tennessee next week!

Glad you're doing this; screening is huge with me. I hate mass approaching and like to get something going within 5-6 approaches.

I would break it down into two sections- pre approach and post approach

Pre-approach:

Slut signs
Ovulation signs
Best vs worst group to approach in terms of number and type
Body language signs she is approachable
Types of approach invitations

Post approach
How to gauge her responsiveness through her talk and body language
Asking screening questions without being obvious
The roll-off- a very effective technique
Push-pull
Responsiveness to kino
When you should bail vs keep plowing

Look forward to reading it

Quote: (08-13-2014 10:44 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  

I used to be such a shy guy and now I can't coexist with an attractive women without at least trying to fuck her.

That is awesome and a great step forward.

The next step fwd [for me anyway] was being able to chat with a hot woman without trying to fuck her, and saving that game for the attractive ones that excite me the most - tall, fit, fashionable, stilettos, long hair. But keeping the flirting and practicing and seeing where it leads and what hits, but not always having the intention of DTF. Solid Inner Game - always a winner.

Besides, as many have noted here, if you are the guy who is not hitting on her, she will be way more curious about you and if she wants to get to know you better, you're now 2 steps ahead of the crowd. You can probably roll out with her to a new bar, or she will meet you for drinks later that week....you = mysterious, etc.

Quote: (08-14-2014 02:07 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

Quote: (08-13-2014 08:48 PM)CJ Wrote:  

There's a couple old topics on "screening" but nothing really definitive... I'm working on one now. Anything you fellas feel I should include? I've already got quite a bit written down, but I'm always welcome to ideas, especially things that "MUST" be in this guide.

Hoping to put this one up before I go on my trip to Tennessee next week!

Glad you're doing this; screening is huge with me. I hate mass approaching and like to get something going within 5-6 approaches.

I would break it down into two sections- pre approach and post approach

Pre-approach:

Slut signs
Ovulation signs
Best vs worst group to approach in terms of number and type
Body language signs she is approachable
Types of approach invitations

Post approach
How to gauge her responsiveness through her talk and body language
Asking screening questions without being obvious
The roll-off- a very effective technique
Push-pull
Responsiveness to kino
When you should bail vs keep plowing

Look forward to reading it

Fantastic list!

Pre: I'd add things like What is she drinking, is she rolling solo v group,
Is she touchy-feely with her group, or stands apart,
Body language is #1 for me from the jump. Girls that are totally closed off I simply do not bother with unless I'm stuck next to them at the bar and bored.

Post: How willing does she seem to leave her friends? I find venue bounces are critical for me [but not always necessary if she DTF]
Do you vibe with her, how does she respond to your humor/stories
Body language is again key - does she open up physically, do her eyes light up, are you getting positive feedback on your kino.

Maybe most importantly does she kino back? Sexual, flirtatious talk is nice, but if she won't even touch your hand, shoulder, sit closer to you so your hips/legs/feet are touching - is she really going to leave with you?

Look fwd to reading it also!

Keep the suggestions coming in guys! I was very conscious of what girls were DTF last night. I actually saw a pair of girls that I felt would be DTF right when they walked-in.

My buddy and I had already been engaging another pair of girls, and one of them seemed really into him. So, I snuck off for a minute to open the other two. The conversation was going pretty good, but I would've needed my friend to completely bail on what he had started and shift over if we were gonna make that one work, as these girls were not going to be apart for long.

Unfortunately, the girl he was working on was not drinking (how did I miss that?!) and we didn't end up leaving with them.

The other two girls? They ended up leaving with some random guys that basically just followed them into their car... should've gone with my instinct!

"Do you have Hepititis?"

"Nah I got Syphillis yo"

Had her and the whole table laughing at that damn hookah bar.

Was at Dave and Busters yesterday. As her friend left to the bathroom, the thought of kissing her didn't even cross my mind until it was too late. Need to always be closing.

Lost out on a couple solid 7's last month due to complications & red tape

Last couple days been hanging with this 8, and on the way to meet up with another 8 later this evening

Maybe the Player Gods are starting to smile on me again

(*Looks to the sky*)

Do you guys suggest a guy my age (33) gaming the younger girls the same as a younger but experienced player would? I.e. Disqualify/teasing etc.. I'm not an experienced player. I was a married beta for 10 years.

Delete.

I'm an idiot.

Went out gaming with TTG last night at Hakkasan. The ratios started to skew so we decided to try some Hail Mary game out side of the club. We were standing around bullshitting when we saw these two walk by. We both looked at eachother and immediately laughed. We HAD to document this on camera. Here's me posing with these two "dime pieces" that any man should be proud to wife up. American girls be like...

   

What's a good agree and amplify/absurdify response for when she says, "but it's the first date" type of LMR? Obviously, I failed that shit test but the second date prospect is strong though.

Quote: (08-16-2014 11:47 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  

What's a good agree and amplify/absurdify response for when she says, "but it's the first date" type of LMR? Obviously, I failed that shit test but the second date prospect is strong though.

You need to give more detail dude, it's so vague I can't think so anything other than saying "you're right this is so fast" while just escalating. The equivalent of nodding and keep plowing.

We had come back from a date. I had her meet me by my crib and then we went out. We went to two places then came back to my house. We had decent vibes, I thought. I got her inside then gave a tour. I try to make a move then she hits me with that shit test. I fail the test, she leaves. She has the biggest ass I've ever taken on a date, a kid, and a tongue ring. All signs pointed to bang until the bang didn't occur.

--

I went out after the date to salvage the night and was hit on by two different women. I didn't stop to chat with them since I just got there. I wind up talking to another girl who seemed to be too easy. She was trying to get away from a girl she was with. I told her we could go to another location, she obliged. Through questioning, I find out she's a pro and she charges me $60 for the whole shebang, quite cheap for my city. I tell her that I was sorry, I don't have to pay for pussy. I wind up giving her a free ride home as my good deed of the day.

Sounds like you tried escalating too fast, RogueNoir. Did you offer a drink, or turn on a movie, at least? You have to get them comfortable first. Check out Tuth's first date bang recipe.

Quote: (08-17-2014 02:26 AM)RougeNoir Wrote:  

We had come back from a date. I had her meet me by my crib and then we went out. We went to two places then came back to my house. We had decent vibes, I thought. I got her inside then gave a tour. I try to make a move then she hits me with that shit test. I fail the test, she leaves. She has the biggest ass I've ever taken on a date, a kid, and a tongue ring. All signs pointed to bang until the bang didn't occur.

--

I went out after the date to salvage the night and was hit on by two different women. I didn't stop to chat with them since I just got there. I wind up talking to another girl who seemed to be too easy. She was trying to get away from a girl she was with. I told her we could go to another location, she obliged. Through questioning, I find out she's a pro and she charges me $60 for the whole shebang, quite cheap for my city. I tell her that I was sorry, I don't have to pay for pussy. I wind up giving her a free ride home as my good deed of the day.

I would do 2 steps forward 1 back. Make out (kissing her and pulling her hair a little bit) and then try groping her tit. She stops you and you say "that's fine we can just go back to be doing what we were doing " and then try again couple minutes later. This usually requires a while but she probably requires more heating up and putting her fears to sleep.

Interacted with a girl 2 years ago before I went balls to the wall with game. I'm interacting with her now, difference in her attraction is night and day. I used to think girls were very different from one another, but the more I deal with girls, the more they are the same.
Makes me rethink many things:

- Marriage? I can't see myself growing old with someone.
- Girl loves my personality? I know how easy it'd be for a girl to cheat with a guy just like me.
- Most guys can't handle the truth about Women's true nature.
- Girls love my dark side, so instead of hiding it, showing them glimpses work a lot better.

I'm 21

Met this girl on Tinder a little over 2 months ago. For the first month we went on probably one or 2 dates a week. We had sex on our 2nd date.

For the last month or so we have been almost strictly fuck buddies.

There was no discussion about it. Just one day after I think I was giving her a player vibe we just kind of turned into fuck buddies or maybe she just saw no future with me or something.

I'm not sure if she is just fucking me now until she can find her next potential boyfriend or what but in the beginning she was always pushing to do activities and stuff now she is the one texting me on friday and saturday nights to come fuck.

This is my first serious fuck buddy where she is the one texting me to just come over and fuck.

Maybe I should just not think so much about it and enjoy while it lasts because she is pretty hot.


Edit: I definitely feel like I eventually want a relationship but I'm starting to think that no man should have a relationship until he has mastered the art of being able to talk to and charm women. It just feels like such a huge bargaining chip in a relationship that if the girl knows that you aren't afraid to approach any girl that they better hold on to you.

Quote: (08-14-2014 09:04 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Quote: (08-13-2014 06:59 PM)horn Wrote:  

I've even had girls in my car saying, 'I just met you, you could be a killer' in between passionately making out with me at red lights, and putting my hand up their skirt/top, it's hilarious. The comfort game overruled her rational thoughts.

This, so many times. I used to worry about it but now recognize it as a sign that you are sexually arousing her. Girls are very turned on by the ambiguity of liking a man and being attracted to him but being somewhat afraid of him.

Think about it in evolutionary terms-if you're the type of man whom she perceives might hurt her, you're also the type of man who might hurt others to defend her or gain resources for her. She instinctively wants to gain the favor of a man like that, and how does she do that?-by having sex with him

I can give you an example from this very evening. I was texting a chick I have been on one date with; we made out but no sex. She's hot but crazy

6:01 pm: I am scared of you

6:01 pm:I don't even know your last name

7:03 pm Three pics of her ramming her pussy with a dildo followed by detailed descriptions of what she wants me to do to her

A couple of years ago I did an experiment on OKC; I took a pic of myself in which I made myself look as menacing as possible. I let my beard grow out a bit, put on a white t shirt, and took the pic in a darkened room against a plain white wall with a scowl on my face. It was amazing how many replies I got that commented on that pic, usually "Was that taken in jail?" ,or "Are you a serial killer" or "You look like a rapist!"

The larger point being of course that they were willing to communicate with a guy that they thought might be a murderer or rapist, while they probably deleted 50 messages from "nice guys" that week.

Had a dadchelor party, pretty much was a baby shower dudes only. Of course we got 2 strippers, it was a shit show to begin with.

This is what bugged me: Somehow the girls at their baby shower found out.

Turns out 2 of our boys ghosted (left).

One doesn't drink anymore after his DUI. I respect that and don't blame him.

The other went to "pickup his girl" from the girls baby shower....honestly I think he left because he didn't want to get in trouble. This dude had good game when we winged, he's had his FIRST GIRLFRIEND of 4 years. He's 28.

Also, one of our friends posted a fucking picture of strippers on instagram. You don't do that fucking shit, that stays between the men. Next thing you know wifes and girlfriends are blowing up my friends phone. Party fucking over.

I can't believe this shit.

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:08 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

Had a dadchelor party, pretty much was a baby shower dudes only. Of course we got 2 strippers, it was a shit show to begin with.

This is what bugged me: Somehow the girls at their baby shower found out.

Turns out 2 of our boys ghosted (left).

One doesn't drink anymore after his DUI. I respect that and don't blame him.

The other went to "pickup his girl" from the girls baby shower....honestly I think he left because he didn't want to get in trouble. This dude had good game when we winged, he's had his FIRST GIRLFRIEND of 4 years. He's 28.

Also, one of our friends posted a fucking picture of strippers on instagram. You don't do that fucking shit, that stays between the men. Next thing you know wifes and girlfriends are blowing up my friends phone. Party fucking over.

I can't believe this shit.

Sounds like a party...

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:16 AM)simondice Wrote:  

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:08 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

Had a dadchelor party, pretty much was a baby shower dudes only. Of course we got 2 strippers, it was a shit show to begin with.

This is what bugged me: Somehow the girls at their baby shower found out.

Turns out 2 of our boys ghosted (left).

One doesn't drink anymore after his DUI. I respect that and don't blame him.

The other went to "pickup his girl" from the girls baby shower....honestly I think he left because he didn't want to get in trouble. This dude had good game when we winged, he's had his FIRST GIRLFRIEND of 4 years. He's 28.

Also, one of our friends posted a fucking picture of strippers on instagram. You don't do that fucking shit, that stays between the men. Next thing you know wifes and girlfriends are blowing up my friends phone. Party fucking over.

I can't believe this shit.

Sounds like a party...

Eh i had to say it, bugs me guys have no spine

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:21 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:16 AM)simondice Wrote:  

Quote: (08-18-2014 01:08 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

Had a dadchelor party, pretty much was a baby shower dudes only. Of course we got 2 strippers, it was a shit show to begin with.

This is what bugged me: Somehow the girls at their baby shower found out.

Turns out 2 of our boys ghosted (left).

One doesn't drink anymore after his DUI. I respect that and don't blame him.

The other went to "pickup his girl" from the girls baby shower....honestly I think he left because he didn't want to get in trouble. This dude had good game when we winged, he's had his FIRST GIRLFRIEND of 4 years. He's 28.

Also, one of our friends posted a fucking picture of strippers on instagram. You don't do that fucking shit, that stays between the men. Next thing you know wifes and girlfriends are blowing up my friends phone. Party fucking over.

I can't believe this shit.

Sounds like a party...

Eh i had to say it, bugs me guys have no spine

Yeah, men need a swift kick in the ass and understand being whipped is not cool or natural.

I actually downloaded an app that makes a whipping sound whenever any friend is being whipped and use it in front of their girlfriends. Even their girlfriends laugh because they know what they're doing, but they keep pushing to see how much shit they can get away with.

Been going out as usual this last week but my visiting parents are at my pad, so no bang. I figure I can drop the player act a bit and maybe throw in some compliments. Had some pretty nice, humanistic conversation actually.

One pretty blonde I approached and asked her to dance. Told her she danced well and she said "you are really good too. Thanks for coming over and asking me to dance"

Another Mexican girl from Ghuan or something SA, told her she is very flexible and easy to dance with "thanks for letting me know, Its very important for me as a dancer". Talked for quite a bit.

Its refreshing to know girls can still be nice and polite when you are dealing with flake and bitchshield shit storms.

Side note: anyone got some palm reading tricks? I tried this on some girls and they ate that shit up. I didnt know shit so I just bullshit away, but now I figure I should get this as another tool in the box.