Unfortunately, she succeeded. Kid is probably a couple of months old by now, and with a pre-birth history like this and a crazy entitled mother, the future doesn't look bright.

The blog is called Desperately Seeking Semen. I wish I were joking about that.

Here she is on the Aussie version of Today, virtually bragging about her utterly preventable situation.






See if you can count the number of self-references in her blog.

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Why I Wrote ‘Desperately Seeking Semen’
The short of it. I couldn’t not share what I now knew. I didn’t plan on penning eighty thousand words, I just couldn’t stop writing.

After enduring a monumental meltdown as a newly single woman facing forty, I had to take matters into my own hands if motherhood was going to be on the cards for me. (ProTip: It's in your hands around the time of your first period, ladies)

It wasn’t about going against the forces of nature to make it happen, rather working with it. It just meant the forces of nature were different than the one path I had assumed I’d go down with a fabulous six foot tall, intelligent being. (No small coincidence you'd have trouble donating sperm if you are not at least 6 feet tall, white and preferably blonde. But it's what's on the inside that counts, right?)

Having endured an eighteen month ‘get pregnant’ rollercoaster quest which included a failed plan to get back with my ex, three failed IUI attempts on the IVF train as well as some disastrous Tinder dating (i.e., lots of unwrapped dicks...), I had to either inject myself with drugs to harvest my eggs or get creative and find another natural solution (gang bang? bukkake?).

I decided for the latter and threw myself at the internet to rectify my semen quandary. I soon found myself in the deep vortex of known sperm donor land or what I thought was the IVF underbelly (thought for a second she was looking for the RVF underbelly - maybe we could have helped!). With further investigation, I realised I had landed upon my very own Willy Wonka cyber factory where there was a bevvy of real-life men happily giving away their sperm to women all around the globe.

So I hung up my hopes of trying to find the fantasy husband and father to be through online dating, and threw myself out there for the ones who were readily available and on the same page – literally! (oh, we know.... literally...) I couldn’t believe that there were a bunch of worthy men happy to skip all the relationship nonsense, especially the gay ones (you couldn't believe a gay man didn't want a relationship with a woman?), and just hand over the key ingredient I needed to make a baby within my shrinking biological clock time frame.

I signed up to a few sperm donor sites (Seeking Arrangement) and began perusing Facebook Groups then sat back and observed the post and forum interactions for a few months. I was still very hesitant about proceeding down this path especially as I had stumbled onto some seedy sites which required me to weed out illegitimate profiles. It wasn’t until Adam Hooper, the FB group admin for Sperm Donation Australia connected with me answering all my questions that I finally felt at ease truly giving it a go.

When I was beyond frustrated with my dire situation and brave enough, I wrote to a few potential donors on the FB group and a couple of others on a paid site.

After conversing with a few fella’s I opted for one that I felt was compatible with my needs (never mind the needs of the baby, right?). Not only was he over six feet tall with great physical features (bing!), more importantly he was available to work with my cycles, understood the donor process intimately (he pumped & dumped you), had a proven success record having assisted other women (alpha widows), had his own family, would sign legal documents outlining intention (to disappear), wanted to be known to the future child, had undertaken genetic testing and counselling and could provide a recent bonafide sperm analysis proving he was highly fertile.

Before moving forward, we engaged in many messenger and Facetime chats as well as phone calls and photo sharing. Once I felt ready and my fertile window aligned, I flew interstate to meet him in the flesh and (let him) proceed with the insemination. Two weeks later, and to my absolute shock, a pregnancy test confirmed I was pregnant after our one and only attempt.

I knew that I was not infertile as I had been informed and am glad I went rogue carving out my own path. It was one that aligned with me physically, spiritually and financially. While I am an advocate for this route and can honestly say I had a superb experience using the internet to secure a viable donor (as she'd done for a decade prior), I wholeheartedly believe this pathway needs to be thoroughly considered before being pursued. I believe it’s imperative to take the time to find the right donor and not swipe right on just anybody as not all sites, apps, solo donors and groups are created equal or perhaps have yours, or your future child’s best interests in mind (best interests.... smh....). This seemingly “rogue” route is primarily based on basic human trust and intention. To navigate it safely and successfully, a little time investment pays off. Ultimately, I believe this is about conceiving a healthy child first and foremost – not just landing any random man’s sperm to conceive.

Although I am now 42 and despite being only halfway through my pregnancy, I felt it was time critical to share this avenue publicly no matter my pregnancy outcome (retardation.....psych meds......a police record....gender dysphoria....the possibilities are endless).

I learned so much and felt compelled to write a book to not only share what I did to become highly reproductive or reveal the ins and outs of this unconventional child making way but also to inform other healthy single women and same-sex lesbian couples in my predicament that they too can follow this alternative and highly successful (!) path without spending thousands! I also wanted to dispel the belief that IVF was the only option available out there (there's good old fashioned fucking - who knew?!).

The moment I opted to seek a sperm donor on what could be deemed as the wild west of the internet, a mental shift occurred. I felt unequivocally empowered. No longer was it just a hope for me to be a mother, it was probable I would be. It was the best decision I’ve ever have made. (I.... me..... I.....)

A huge thank you to the men out there that put themselves out there to assist us! (and a huge fuck you, to what you're going to put that child through)

http://www.desperatelyseekingsemen.com

https://www.facebook.com/desperatelyseekingsemen

https://twitter.com/DespSemen

http://www.hayleychapman.com

Freudian slip at 2:27ish. She's talking about staying in touch with the donor and that, if she wanted anonymity (meaning someone she couldn't sue for support down the road), she'd go to a clinic. She says, "These guys want to PAY...uh PLAY some part in the child's life."

She's hoping the donor wifes her up or at least supports the kid. Otherwise she'd turn to her friendzone for a donor but she said that "wasn't an option" for her...no one there she was attracted to enough to have a child who looks like them.

Quote: (05-01-2018 08:43 PM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  

The blog is called Desperately Seeking Semen.

This story is like a caricature of the worst of female nature.

42 years old? Using Seeking Arrangement to find a donor? And of course he has to be over six feet tall.... etc.

Plus she has to blog about it. Just an example of how twisted our culture has become.

I normally don't wish negative outcomes on others, but in her case, it would only be justice.

Quote: (05-01-2018 11:54 PM)Dirtyblueshirt Wrote:  

This story is like a caricature of the worst of female nature.

42 years old? Using Seeking Arrangement to find a donor? And of course he has to be over six feet tall.... etc.

Plus she has to blog about it. Just an example of how twisted our culture has become.

I normally don't wish negative outcomes on others, but in her case, it would only be justice.

There is nothing more common in this world than an aging mediocre woman who has to have it all. Once again, I think it's that word "entitled" that feminists like to throw around about men.

As I like to tell feminists and their fellow travelers, they're the ones that advocate middle-aged first time single moms, we advocate a two parent family with a father AND a mother. Yet we're the crazy ones?

Not gonna lie... I'm definitely waiting to read the response of Mr. Neubache on this one

   

Bring on the Sharia.

Quote: (05-02-2018 01:10 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Bring on the Sharia.

No, thank you.

The biggest issue in all of this is the dude who got her pregnant. By doing this your are endorsing her lifestyle choices, now more aging post wall women are going to think that it's possible to live your life like this.

I feel sorry for the kid. Statistically being raised by a single mother + mummy wrote a blog about the whole thing that's on the Internet FOREVER just means that he's going to grow up gay/beta and be bullied all the way through school.

All because mummy could go on TV and write a book and get attention.

Fucking degenerates.

Quote: (05-02-2018 12:30 AM)Captain Gh Wrote:  

Not gonna lie... I'm definitely waiting to read the response of Mr. Neubache on this one

I'm sorry but I'm going to disappoint you on this one.

The only question that springs to mind is to ask what kind of sick idiot fucks a 42 year old 4 with the actual intent of getting her pregnant before leaving, and what kind of sick woman is still married to said sick idiot.

As a father I can't begin to fathom siring an illegitimate child and then wondering if I had a son or daughter out in the world, doubtless suffering to the extent all bastard children suffer, or maybe worse still.

What kind of deranged fuckwit is this guy that "has a family of his own"?

No future for that kid. Deranged single mum alpha widowed to a man she's apparently capable of tracking down (and invariably will, to everyone's ruin, especially ALL the children involved) while the father has strong physical traits but also demonstrates sociopathic tendencies.

If the kid is lucky enough to be born without immediately measurable defects then he/she is still playing with a social and psychological deck stacked against them in almost every conceivable way.

I have more respect for men who skip out on their wives and the whores that fuck them than I have for these walking pieces of shit.

I have to say it was awfully considerate of the guy to work around her cycles.

What a trooper.

I'm not really inclined to hear her screech nor read her screed.
Yet what arrangement is there to prevent her from claiming (demanding) child support two years down the track when she's dateless & stuck with a crying child while all her peers can at least have a spare moment or two due to a babysitter or their child staying over the night at a friends place?

WNDSFF

Would Not Donate Semen For Free

G

Quote: (05-01-2018 11:54 PM)Dirtyblueshirt Wrote:  

This story is like a caricature of the worst of female nature.

IMHO, women doing an end-run around the hard work required to pair-bond with men to reproduce is the flipside of men resorting to porn or prostitution rather than hitting the gym and learning game.

The problem is, culturally, we're being told that women are entitled to take these sorts of shortcuts and men are still stigmatized for stooping to sexual crutches. If they can't find a man, it's not their fault, but rather the sad pool of eligible bachelors.

The tax payers are going to finance the hag who wants a baby for herself.

A beta provider was supposed to fuck in exchange of resource. Sex against resource and protection, the oldest agreement between men and women.

Now the globalist state fucks the beta provider and transfers the money to the slut. This scam is not sustainable in the long run.

Maybe this post sounds bitter, for me it's just a peaceful observation.

Hitting the gym and learning game gives you a great outcome on a personal level but on a societal level its rather pointless.

If all the men in a society raised themselves one SMV point then women wouldn't suddenly have the urge to settle down at age 20 and have babies. They would just be monkey-branching from 8 to 8 instead of 7 to 7, and when they reached age 40 they would start (pointlessly) looking for a 10 to settle with instead of a 9. Meanwhile the 6s who used to be 5s would still have trouble getting laid because all the 6s are now 7s.

If anything, male self improvement merely feeds female entitlement mentality. Australian men are typically regarded as suffering a dating market that has them scraping the bottom of the barrel already in terms of relative SMV disparity. Measured by global standards it's not uncommon to see male 7 dating a female 6 or fucking a female 5 in Australia.

Self improvement helps men, but it does nothing to alter the behavior of women. Towards that goal it's a dead end.

^^^^^^

There are a few things that do improve female behavior, though: Laws and social shaming.

Unfortunately, once we gave women the right to vote, politicians bent over backwards to pass laws that had benefits for them and only them. These include welfare payments to single mothers without a man in the house as well as the various alimony laws.

Laws beget behavior which begets what people will and will not accept. Once something is not against the law, all of a sudden the unwashed masses start to favor it (gay marriage, pot, etc.).

So, the women-oriented laws led us to place where social shaming for women is verboten. Since people instinctively feel the need to shame someone (it's in our blood), that means men are shamed.

This, then, is why self-improvement can only get you so far. As I have written many times, every man is Beta when he's facing off against The State. The law becomes the Alpha since they have the keys to the cell where you'll be staying.

You can be in perfect shape and earning tons of money with a paid-off mortgage. But if your wife leaves and The State says you have to fork over the house, assets, and salary, you're not Alpha anymore.

Quote: (05-02-2018 11:03 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

Hitting the gym and learning game gives you a great outcome on a personal level but on a societal level its rather pointless.

If all the men in a society raised themselves one SMV point then women wouldn't suddenly have the urge to settle down at age 20 and have babies. They would just be monkey-branching from 8 to 8 instead of 7 to 7, and when they reached age 40 they would start (pointlessly) looking for a 10 to settle with instead of a 9. Meanwhile the 6s who used to be 5s would still have trouble getting laid because all the 6s are now 7s.

If anything, male self improvement merely feeds female entitlement mentality. Australian men are typically regarded as suffering a dating market that has them scraping the bottom of the barrel already in terms of relative SMV disparity. Measured by global standards it's not uncommon to see male 7 dating a female 6 or fucking a female 5 in Australia.

Self improvement helps men, but it does nothing to alter the behavior of women. Towards that goal it's a dead end.

Sydney has to be the Western Capital of European men / Asian Women relationships.

Western men are already choosing alternative relationships. IE: fuck these masculine, bad attitude bitches imma fuck this Thai 7.

To paraphrase the western economy...the market will correct itself.

To answer the question, there is nothing preventing the woman from seeking financial support from the biological father. All that paperwork is signed for the mother's benefit. It basically states that he renounces all future claims to custodianship and the like. For those who have read Taleb's thoughts on the application of Jensen inequalities to real life situations, look at this one. He is carrying almost no upside and limitless downside. She is the opposite. Welcome to the Brave New World!

Also, governments across the globe are already funding this to the tune of billions of dollars. I remember a huge scandal in Canada a few years ago when it was revealed that the Quebec healtcare system was funding IVF for women who had no chance of conceiving. I believe they "attempted" with a few hundred women who were 45+ and not a single one carried to term. But, thanks Canadian taxpayers. Sorry, I mean merci!

This dude is either crazy or one of those built beta male types. I know it runs contrary to a lot of the Alpha/Beta talk on the web, but there are some seriously Blue Pill guys who happen to be yoked, good looking, and tall. Physicality does not, by itself, make you RP or game aware. But, hey, at least he isn't a hereditary autistic who managed to knock up over twenty women without their knowledge of his condition. And that guy is far from the only one. It isn't like this hasn't happened before. But, back in the day, we had the Mongol Khans seeding teenage peasant girls across central Asia. Now, we have Beta male computer jockeys shooting a last ditch attempt in to a coterie of cavernous, post-wall, retired(?) sluts. The former, arguably, improves the stock. To the victors go the spoils, and the best material moves in to the future. The latter leads us to idiocracy. Hey, did you know that 1 in 59 kids in the United States now has autism? I wonder if I can put my finger on anything that might be contributing to that.

Bring on the Sharia? More like, cut 100% of government funding to any of this kind of stuff. Further, remove the ability of the government to "compel" (with a gun, of course) men to pay for this kind of ridiculous behavior from women. On an actual religious note, I am beginning to think that much of the academic theological work of the Catholic Church is completely accurate when it comes to sex. The Church would have a field day with this.

Thanks for posting this. I was thinking of depositing for posterity. The dangers of donating are now clear. You don't know if you're cloning yourself with this:

Quote: (05-02-2018 02:59 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:  

To answer the question, there is nothing preventing the woman from seeking financial support from the biological father. All that paperwork is signed for the mother's benefit. It basically states that he renounces all future claims to custodianship and the like. For those who have read Taleb's thoughts on the application of Jensen inequalities to real life situations, look at this one. He is carrying almost no upside and limitless downside. She is the opposite. Welcome to the Brave New World!

Also, governments across the globe are already funding this to the tune of billions of dollars. I remember a huge scandal in Canada a few years ago when it was revealed that the Quebec healtcare system was funding IVF for women who had no chance of conceiving. I believe they "attempted" with a few hundred women who were 45+ and not a single one carried to term. But, thanks Canadian taxpayers. Sorry, I mean merci!

This dude is either crazy or one of those built beta male types. I know it runs contrary to a lot of the Alpha/Beta talk on the web, but there are some seriously Blue Pill guys who happen to be yoked, good looking, and tall. Physicality does not, by itself, make you RP or game aware. But, hey, at least he isn't a hereditary autistic who managed to knock up over twenty women without their knowledge of his condition. And that guy is far from the only one. It isn't like this hasn't happened before. But, back in the day, we had the Mongol Khans seeding teenage peasant girls across central Asia. Now, we have Beta male computer jockeys shooting a last ditch attempt in to a coterie of cavernous, post-wall, retired(?) sluts. The former, arguably, improves the stock. To the victors go the spoils, and the best material moves in to the future. The latter leads us to idiocracy. Hey, did you know that 1 in 59 kids in the United States now has autism? I wonder if I can put my finger on anything that might be contributing to that.

Bring on the Sharia? More like, cut 100% of government funding to any of this kind of stuff. Further, remove the ability of the government to "compel" (with a gun, of course) men to pay for this kind of ridiculous behavior from women. On an actual religious note, I am beginning to think that much of the academic theological work of the Catholic Church is completely accurate when it comes to sex. The Church would have a field day with this.

The link on the Autistic Dutch guy is hilarious. It's exactly the type of deal this thread is about. These are women wanting to avoid the cost, time delay and hassle of traditional sperm donor providers, so they use the internet to find attractive men who are willing to fuck them and get them pregnant.
The women meet the guys in question before fucking them. He has to strike them as good sperm donor material before they agree to close the deal, which basically means they have to find him highly fuckable. Apparently this autistic guy has pretty good game, because he's fathered 22 children this way! Now it comes out that he's autistic, and has been treated for depression in the past. The women say he's a pathological liar!

Ha!



Edit: It's hilarious this guy is using this to rack up notches, but I suppose it's not very cool for his children that will have to be raised by crazy lesbians and other damaged women.

One other thing that no one mentions:

None of these women seem to realize that the kind of man who gives his sperm but doesn't want to know his own kid isn't the kind of man you'd want to have kids with.

Personality has a large genetic component (see Steven Pinker's "The Blank Slate"). I consider rejecting your own children a major personality trait of a sociopath.

I've seen this play out in real life enough to think my theory has merit. A single mom breeds with a guy who wants nothing to do with his kids. She ends up with a kid who has traits just like that and then "can't understand why he is the way he is."

When it comes to men, the key phrase has always been "support a family." When you sire a child with a man who doesn't have THE main quality of being a man, I'd say you're asking for trouble.

In other words, these women have kids with the exact men that women of previous generations avoided. And, by the way, a quick look around the Internet will show that these "donor daddy kids" are not a happy lot.

Quote: (05-02-2018 11:16 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Laws beget behavior which begets what people will and will not accept. Once something is not against the law, all of a sudden the unwashed masses start to favor it (gay marriage, pot, etc.).

I have to disagree just a bit - the laws are usually the last thing to give way. By the time they get changed the culture is already so corrupted to the point where laws are little more than cosmetic gestures. Sure, female influence pushes the changes that way, but something already is seriously amiss by the time a politician has an evolving position on something like gay marriage, pot, transexual children, etc.

The societal norms are completely rotted while society itself developed a false sense of security, believing that it's safe to knock out the "obsolete" foundations holding it together. Eventually, everyone learns the hard way that this wasn't wise.


As for this bit:

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42 years old? Using Seeking Arrangement to find a donor? And of course he has to be over six feet tall.... etc.

Let me clarify the bold black & red comments are my interpretations and comments, not those of the nutty broad. I made that part up about SA, but it wouldn't surprise me if she really cruised that site looking for a daddy - in multiple ways.

With respect to her writings, her desire of not wanting to go the traditional sperm bank route because she wanted to know the father is likely a bald faced lie. In America at least, if you have a specific donor in mind and he agrees to participate, using a licensed sperm bank for the process will eliminate any legal obligations for the donor. Doing it on your own as he did is financially retarded as he's liable any time she wants to call in the payments, which should be right around the time her SMV hits near zero.

Quote: (05-02-2018 08:25 AM)CynicalContrarian Wrote:  

Yet what arrangement is there to prevent her from claiming (demanding) child support two years down the track

Nothing can prevent a sperm donor in Australia from being taken to court and being made to pay child support if ordered to by the court.
The Federal Family Act overrides State law.
There's been some outcry now that sperm donors who want to be part of a child's life have taken the mother to court and been granted shared custody.

http://www.desperatelyseekingsemen.com/s...for-semen/

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While I was shocked back to reality, at least he was armed with the sperm of a sexy, tall, dark-haired, green-eyed, 26-year-old Hungarian hottie, that was about to be squirted deep inside my cervix.

I was 40 years old, single and classed as socially infertile. How did I get myself here?

I could say my thirties were the years of racking up lots of travel mileage points, Facebook friends, happy hours and hangovers. While these were easy to accrue, marriage proposals were not.

Thats easy!

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Then came the....



Then came the....



Then you have the single motherhood with child which will end in a disaster.