nd tier Vietnam woes..
04-25-2018, 11:19 PM
Thoughts gentleman.
All this is brought on by having an injury that means I can't masturbate.
Came out here to Vietnam to teach English.
1. Where I am is a 2nd Tier Vietnamese city 2 hours from Saigon.
It has 1.2 million people but it just seems to be street after street of auto workshops and street food.
There's a small expat scene which is made up of fucked up alcoholics many of whom are 'English teachers' from India, Ecuador, Kazakhstan who can barely speak English. The Americans and Brits amongst them are alcoholic creeps.
I work for probably the biggest and best school here (for whatever thats worth) - its a tough gig, crazy hours at times and poor pay for how much we work, they work on a system of retainers in that in August and September I get the pay for the hours I'm stacking up now.
The school is in the process of sorting out my Vietnamese licence and my work permit and visa, so there's that.
The idea of being here was that I'll save money to pay off loans and have time to fix my injuries which require alot of hours of work on the daily. Cheap to live, no distractions here. I was planning on staying here for two years and getting things sorted physically and financially.
2. I thought I would have the opportunity to get hold of some decent Vietnamese women in the meantime.
Women here seem very traditional, will not have sex with their western boyfriends - only oral after weeks and months (so the Westerners here with local girls tell me),
very few speak English, very few,
and the staff at my school that are young and English speaking have their western boyfriends and carry on like high school cheerleaders, vicious to social outsiders and anyone outside their little western-vietnamese clique.
Trying to learn Vietnamese but fuck me is it a difficult language to learn. The word that means six also means ugly and two or three other things. I thought it was the one word I had nailed. Yesterday I was getting people to help me with this one word and it turned out with all their help I still couldn't get it right.
3. my injuries mean that I can't masturbate without exacerbating my internal injuries and that has put me in crisis.
If I could find a milking machine connected to a fleshlight it might be fine but, in the absence of that..
my sexual desire is going off the charts and I'm struggling to find women that I can even speak with let alone game.
I've gone from planning being here long term to tryna work out where in Vietnam I can meet a range of chicks that speak English and still live cheaper than Tier 1 - Hanoi and HCMC.
tl;dr - I can't wank and like a dog which needs to find somewhere its gonna get a fuck I need to find somewhere in Vietnam I can start prospecting for a half decent range of women.
Any thoughts are welcome.
All this is brought on by having an injury that means I can't masturbate.
Came out here to Vietnam to teach English.
1. Where I am is a 2nd Tier Vietnamese city 2 hours from Saigon.
It has 1.2 million people but it just seems to be street after street of auto workshops and street food.
There's a small expat scene which is made up of fucked up alcoholics many of whom are 'English teachers' from India, Ecuador, Kazakhstan who can barely speak English. The Americans and Brits amongst them are alcoholic creeps.
I work for probably the biggest and best school here (for whatever thats worth) - its a tough gig, crazy hours at times and poor pay for how much we work, they work on a system of retainers in that in August and September I get the pay for the hours I'm stacking up now.
The school is in the process of sorting out my Vietnamese licence and my work permit and visa, so there's that.
The idea of being here was that I'll save money to pay off loans and have time to fix my injuries which require alot of hours of work on the daily. Cheap to live, no distractions here. I was planning on staying here for two years and getting things sorted physically and financially.
2. I thought I would have the opportunity to get hold of some decent Vietnamese women in the meantime.
Women here seem very traditional, will not have sex with their western boyfriends - only oral after weeks and months (so the Westerners here with local girls tell me),
very few speak English, very few,
and the staff at my school that are young and English speaking have their western boyfriends and carry on like high school cheerleaders, vicious to social outsiders and anyone outside their little western-vietnamese clique.
Trying to learn Vietnamese but fuck me is it a difficult language to learn. The word that means six also means ugly and two or three other things. I thought it was the one word I had nailed. Yesterday I was getting people to help me with this one word and it turned out with all their help I still couldn't get it right.
3. my injuries mean that I can't masturbate without exacerbating my internal injuries and that has put me in crisis.
If I could find a milking machine connected to a fleshlight it might be fine but, in the absence of that..
my sexual desire is going off the charts and I'm struggling to find women that I can even speak with let alone game.
I've gone from planning being here long term to tryna work out where in Vietnam I can meet a range of chicks that speak English and still live cheaper than Tier 1 - Hanoi and HCMC.
tl;dr - I can't wank and like a dog which needs to find somewhere its gonna get a fuck I need to find somewhere in Vietnam I can start prospecting for a half decent range of women.
Any thoughts are welcome.