Don't know how to setup a poll but basically was wanting to guage what others experiences are. In my past experiences pretty much every girls I've ever dated would give me blowjobs and expect nothing in return, just hey want a blowjob? I'd say this was teh same for girlfriends as well as FWB or hookups. My last girl I dated for a while literally everytime I left her house she'd ask if I wanted a blowjob before I left, would blow me and I'm out the door.

Current girl I'm dating however isn't like that. She hsa no problem giving blowjobs but it's never just hey have a blowjob, she'll stop and make me fuck her and get hr off as well. Probably a mild thing to complain about oh some girl is blowing you and fucking you lol but it's definately a different experience from previous girls I've dated.

Was just curious what your guys experiences are with this?

I guess doesn't even have to be just blowjobs but maybe a better question is do you have to get your girl off everytime. Again, most girls in the past even if leaving the house and only had like 5 minutes would be totally down for a quicky, this girl unless there's time for her to get off not down with it. I'm definately selfish, I'll be the first to admit that but in the past all girls were pretty much down with my way of thinking.

No girl I've ever dated for long expected anything in return (other than me dating them). If the issue did come up at the beginning of the relationship, I'd break them in real quick.

I refuse to see sex as a quid pro quo. It's a complete turn-off when a girl behaves like that, so I nip that kind of behavior in the bud asap.

I don't have a lot of dating experience, but it's been about 50/50 with me. Some girls just see it as a nice thing to do for a guy, some get really horny when they're doing something sexual, and you bet they'll be expecting sex.

Girls will get off on dome if it means they are pleasing you. They get off on the mental aspect of giving an alpha male pleasure.

Of course, you need to have her know you're an alpha for the dynamic to be effective.

I've seen girl's eyes light up when I reciprocate. Afterwards, there is a common theme: they will say these words "Every guy I've ever been with hated doing that". I make sure I only do that on a girl I am in a longer-term situation with, but I've noticed girls will suck a dick with no questions asked 99% of the time. And thank god for that

girls i have dated didnt expect anything in return. My last LTR would get incredibly wet while giving head, and I prefered to blow in her so i almost always ended up finishing in her vag out of personal preference.

Like everyone else said, blowjobs are commonplace. The girls of 2014 know what is expected of them and realize that if they don't do it, someone else will. Most of my female friends have much higher blowjob counts than sex partners simply because they would give head to any guy they went on a date with, really. You'd think women would rather fuck because that's mutually pleasurable but they somehow in their hamster brains think a guy will see them as "not slutty" if she gives head but doesn't fuck. Their words not mine.

Quote: (05-24-2014 02:31 PM)younggamer1992 Wrote:  

Like everyone else said, blowjobs are commonplace. The girls of 2014 know what is expected of them and realize that if they don't do it, someone else will. Most of my female friends have much higher blowjob counts than sex partners simply because they would give head to any guy they went on a date with, really. You'd think women would rather fuck because that's mutually pleasurable but they somehow in their hamster brains think a guy will see them as "not slutty" if she gives head but doesn't fuck. Their words not mine.

It's the darndest thing too. Because we totally do, even if they don't.

To answer the question, in my past experience I've only had a couple girls that would go straight for dome without any prompting, or expectation of return. The rest required coaxing. However I never dated any of them longer than a month, and I was a total beta bitch back then.

hell, i just had a woman invite me over to her place for a legit massage (she is a therapist) and a blow job finish without me even so much as lifting a finger.

so yes. all the time.

I see it as a nice measure of how into me a girl is. With my last main girl the first few times we hooked up she gave it the college try but I could tell she wasn't that into it and she didn't want me to finish in her mouth. Then after I got more dominant and showed her I knew how to take charge in bed she started really enjoying going down on me and begged for me to finish in her mouth. Likewise when the BJs stop flowing freely I know a girl is on her way out and it's time to actively look for her replacement.

I don't date girls in the stereotypical sense.

If I go on a date and fuck a girl then I probably won't go down on her .. unless I'm hungry

My man, do you think the guys who are doing the best fucks care about such complicated matters?

Quote: (05-24-2014 02:31 PM)younggamer1992 Wrote:  

Like everyone else said, blowjobs are commonplace. The girls of 2014 know what is expected of them and realize that if they don't do it, someone else will. Most of my female friends have much higher blowjob counts than sex partners simply because they would give head to any guy they went on a date with, really. You'd think women would rather fuck because that's mutually pleasurable but they somehow in their hamster brains think a guy will see them as "not slutty" if she gives head but doesn't fuck. Their words not mine.

Was this first dates? Did you have to prompt them in any way or they just went for it?

My main girl loves to give blowjobs. She was raised very Catholic and doesn't want me to go down on her but I'm pushing for it. She's Mexican and lives in Mexico so when I go back for the Summer we'll see .


EDIT: The first time she gave a BJ she also let me finish inside of her mouth so yes, this girl is definitely a keeper!

it's annoying when girls don't want to give head. It makes me think less of her, like she's immature.

I'm surprised that more guys aren't into eating girls out. I have no problem eating a girl out on the first night if she's shaved, smells alright, and isn't on her period. Eating pussy is awesome. It's a great experience for me to have a wet, hot vagina in my face.

Most girls I've been with enjoyed it. If she doesn't like giving head I will not keep her around for very long.

I don't go down on women, was just never really into it. Only one girl ever complained about me not reciprocating and that was the first and only time we hooked up.

What I really hate are girls that suck (forgive the pun) at giving head. Teeth, poor technique....ugh. Made a girl stop recently cause it was just awful. Kept thinking- "How can a 28 year old woman in America not know how to give a proper beej?"

this is not a negotiation.

Quote: (05-25-2014 12:57 AM)soup Wrote:  

I don't date girls in the stereotypical sense.

If I go on a date and fuck a girl then I probably won't go down on her .. unless I'm hungry

My man, do you think the guys who are doing the best fucks care about such complicated matters?

haha agree with you. Blowjobs yes because I do bang a lot of sluts

Ran into a few of those, but they usually don't last long in this camp

...If she is waiting around waiting for you to recip - you haven't got her hot enough yet

Her getting some dick should be the icing on the cake

I have had women at the job tell me:

"eatin' ain't cheatin'....."


to them, BJs don't count as sex !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now and again I see women post on Twitter things like "don't expect a blow job if you don't eat pussy." But from my experiences, only the first ever girl I got a blow job from I have had to lick out - this was probably down to poor game though.

The general rule I've been accustomed to is you get a blow job and in return you bang her. Although plenty of times I've had a blow job without having to give anything back at all.

My first and only real LTR was REALLY resistant at first, and then tried to do some quid-pro-quo shit. Eventually though (after much dominant sex with choking, hair pulling, all that shit) she got to the point where she loves volunteering to give head, and for when I do the missionary-to-dick-in-face move she has done some porno shit like force her own head down further. All other girls didn't mind or were just random sluts who I generally never saw again.

a woman that does not suck dick? there's no suck thing.... if there is, get out of there fast.

only problem I've very had is a woman with subpar skills. that doesn't make any since to me. how on earth does she not know how to give a proper blowjob. you've got the internet and friends to help.

I personally love eating pussy. so of course I require my chick feel the same

In my experience this is a wonderful but hard to find trait in girls I date. I also don't really have girls giving me blowjobs before sex much in my experience either.

Quote: (05-24-2014 01:09 PM)jamaicabound Wrote:  

Don't know how to setup a poll but basically was wanting to guage what others experiences are. In my past experiences pretty much every girls I've ever dated would give me blowjobs and expect nothing in return, just hey want a blowjob? I'd say this was teh same for girlfriends as well as FWB or hookups. My last girl I dated for a while literally everytime I left her house she'd ask if I wanted a blowjob before I left, would blow me and I'm out the door.

Current girl I'm dating however isn't like that. She hsa no problem giving blowjobs but it's never just hey have a blowjob, she'll stop and make me fuck her and get hr off as well. Probably a mild thing to complain about oh some girl is blowing you and fucking you lol but it's definately a different experience from previous girls I've dated.

Was just curious what your guys experiences are with this?

I guess doesn't even have to be just blowjobs but maybe a better question is do you have to get your girl off everytime. Again, most girls in the past even if leaving the house and only had like 5 minutes would be totally down for a quicky, this girl unless there's time for her to get off not down with it. I'm definately selfish, I'll be the first to admit that but in the past all girls were pretty much down with my way of thinking.

Few questions bruh .... is this a fucking serious question? Are you a black dude? Are you under 25?

For fuck sake, unless you're a black dude scared of pussy why in the fuck wouldn't you want to 'return the favor'? Fuck, you should be getting her off first. You'll receive it back more than double if you've just made her cum hard and she's about to put your dick in her mouth.

Here it is really ..... if you're talking about some skank who sucks every guys dick she meets - fuck it. Just tell her you want a BJ and let the little whore suck you off. Otherwise you get that pretty girls pussy wet as fuck, get her tight little asshole wet with some of that pussy wetness, you massage and then start fingering her tight little ass while you get your other finger in her pussy, you get her clit in your mouth, you massage and fuck her ass and pussy, and you give her 2 minutes of this. She cums (multiple times in a 30 second moment of ecstasy and then you kiss her pretty, swollen, pussy lips and roll over. She will immediately be on her hands and knees bent over your dick and you'll feel just how tight her throat is because she will want your cock deep in her mouth. If you're a 'hare-trigger' guy - 1st, so sorry for your shit luck - get ready to blow your load already. For the rest, she's going to alternate between making sure your dick goes half way down her throat, and bringing it almost all the way out her mouth so she can really suck the tip of your dick. After a few minutes of this you'll politely let her know you're about to cum and she will close those lips around your fucking shaft and make sure she has as much pressure on your dick as she can so you can explode that massive cum while she happily either lets it shoot right down her throat, and she starts sucking on the tip to get it all out. No matter how, you're getting a fucking awesome blowjob.

Take care of these girls out there boys. You have no idea just how good they can treat you with their mouth - their pussy - their asshole - whatever the fuck YOU want, as long as you treat them right. And while cumming in her warm wet mouth is damn near 10x better feeling than cumming in her warm wet tight pussy, which is christmas, birthdays, the Superbowl, and the best high all rolled into one, don't neglect making sure you do cum inside her pussy often too. After you make her cum and she gives you the atomic BJ for a few minutes, gently lay her down on her back, slide your dick inside her swollen, soaking wet pussy, and cum inside her after a few minutes of fucking. She will cum AGAIN, and you will too then. And if you've played with her ass just right and/or have some good lube, you can decide if you want to slide it into her tight warm pussy to cum, or, instead slowly (SLOWLY) slide it into get lubed ass hole and let it completely envelope your whole shaft - all the way to the base. Get a slow rhythm going, revel in how tight her ass is, listen to her moan and love your dick sliding in and out of her ass hole, and then just keep a nice rhythm going for maybe 1 minute and that pressure of her ass hole, the fact that everything is so fucking tight, the fact that she is loving it, the sound of her moaning and cumming again, will make your dick fucking erupt in her ass and you will feel yet another fucking awesome god damn pleasure. You get that rhythm down of fucking her tight little asshole AND tight little pussy while sucking/licking/vibrating her pink little clit and rub your thumb or other finger just under that clit where she's very soft and she will fucking give you all the blowjobs you'll ever want.

So again ... are you black and/or serious here? You should ONLY expect she also wants to get off and you should want to make SURE you make her tight little pussy cum too. For fuck sake ......

Amazes me how dumb some questions can really be. If you've ever truly made a girl cum - not her faking it to get it over with and you off her shit, you would know exactly what I am talking about here. She already wants to please you if she's with you ..... you make sure she's on cloud 9 and her pussy gets drained too, and she will suck you off 4 times later that night if you need it.

Quote: (05-27-2014 11:58 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Ran into a few of those, but they usually don't last long in this camp

...If she is waiting around waiting for you to recip - you haven't got her hot enough yet

Her getting some dick should be the icing on the cake

Never saw this thread and another underrated comment from MDP. If a chick randomly sucks your dick it she's doing it to try to get you to fuck her. They should be sucking your dick for a few minutes then say "Ok. Fuck me now" and be visibly turned on.