recently got the 'i owe you an explanation' text from a girl who i hooked up with but then she stopped talking outta the blue. ran into her when i was with some friends one night and she started come on to me again. i havent said anything yet, but how would you guys play this? so far i havent said anything back to her.

I got that once after a girl blew me off. She got back together with her bf and stopped responding to me.

Take the higher position. "You don't owe me anything Jennifer" or whatever her name is. Always use her full name. It's like you are nicely talking down to her.

It's like you're subconsciously saying its her loss. She called me again 2 months later after they had a fight and she fucked my brains out.

thanks parlay. ill give this a try very soon.

Quote: (12-26-2011 07:36 PM)at350zguyy Wrote:  

thanks parlay. ill give this a try very soon.

No problem. Please follow up with what happens.

brilliant suggestion parlay. just sent the text. within a few minutes she replied with 'can we talk or do you hate me?'

suggestions on how to play this?

Good she's supplicating to you. (kissing your ass).

Try this: "I have nothing to be mad about Jennifer". What's her name by the way?

Whatever she responds with reply with "Come over Wednesday next week and we'll talk". It's important that it's a weeknight and not a Friday or Saturday. One thing I learned from Roosh is she has to earn those nights.

Hopefully you have your own place or somewhere private to chill with her.

i like the idea...its too bad i live at home still. any other ideas? im not sure where else i can go thats private other than the back of my car haha.

her name is sarah for the record.

Ugh man. Sarah is my pain in the ass ex. My baby-momma. Fuck

You need to get your parents on board with you having girls over. Do whatever you need to do to work that out with them. Then ask them to find somewhere to go til 12 that night.

Invite her over. Do some beers or wine coolers. Talk to her and escalate. Get her in the bedroom and make out with her on the bed. Slowly escalate towards sex til she says stop. Then go cold on her. "Maybe this was a mistake" Kiss her again.

You have to kinda guilt her into it. Guilty sex is the best sex.

PS I want a rep point if you bang

hilarious. ill wait and see what she says. i told her i had nothing to be mad about.

the one thing ive learned from this board is to lay down pipelines and keep them filled. it really keeps you going.

ill definitely give you a rep point if anything good comes out of it.

she asked me what time we should meet. i think ill call her to my office since my boss wont be around this week during the afternoon.

your thoughts?

There's no bed at the office. Most you'll get is a make out. I say no. That shit is cool after you've fucked her a few times to keep it interesting.

I'm assuming you haven't slept with her yet.

Invite her to the house. After dinner is good. Like 7 or 8. Watch tv or a movie. Open a wine cooler and hand it to her. Don't ask if she wants one.

I always offer a massage. Drop a pillow on the floor in front of the couch and tell her to have a seat. You sit on the couch behind her and massage her neck and shoulders. This is cool cause she sitting up and can still drink. After a drink or two tell her to lay on the floor on her stomach. Work her back and ass a little bit and say "ok flip over". Rub her stomach a while then play with her tits. Go for the kiss.

Take her hand and say "come on". Walk her to your bed. Put some music on and make out and escalate.

I've run this routine a million times in high school.

Good luck!!

my goal isnt to bang her though. i want to play a few mind games with her for the flaking she pulled on me.

i actually have been considering setting up a time to meet and then never text her again.

Women play mind games to string guys along for attention.

Men play mind games to fuck women.

Decide which side of the hustle you're on.

this girl wasted a lot of my time and took me for granted. i shouldnt even meet her.

You've got the wrong attitude my brotha. You've got a girl feeling guilty for blowing you off and now she's kissing your ass. You need to play her out and fuck her as long as you can. You need to clear your mind of any anger and resentment and game her and 10 other girls into bed. Sex should always be your goal. That's the point of this forum.

Sup 350 : What's wrong with you my friend..... I'm with Parlay on this one, Is this the same girl you were serious with........ shit doesn't matter, This Girl's throwing pussy at you, Don't refuse..... Pussygods will get mad at you

meeting set for my place thursday evening. will update.

Quote: (12-26-2011 07:51 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote: (12-26-2011 07:36 PM)at350zguyy Wrote:  

thanks parlay. ill give this a try very soon.

No problem. Please follow up with what happens.

This is gold, I'm gonna use this. xD

Quote: (12-26-2011 10:42 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

You need to get your parents on board with you having girls over. Do whatever you need to do to work that out with them. Then ask them to find somewhere to go til 12 that night.

My bedroom is a bit of a shit hole at home with no carpet, is it ever a good idea to bring chicks back to a place like that?

Quote: (12-27-2011 07:36 AM)esperar Wrote:  

Quote: (12-26-2011 10:42 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

You need to get your parents on board with you having girls over. Do whatever you need to do to work that out with them. Then ask them to find somewhere to go til 12 that night.

My bedroom is a bit of a shit hole at home with no carpet, is it ever a good idea to bring chicks back to a place like that?

Shouldn't matter if she's DTF. I say it should be clean and neat personally. Bedroom should have a bed, tv, music, scented candles(I like vanilla), condoms.

Give Tuthmosis's post about logistics a look. It's a good read.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-8681.html

thank you parlay and lothario. you guys are pushing in the right direction.

lothario, this is another girl, not the girl i wanted to get serious with.

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i want to play a few mind games with her for the flaking she pulled on me.

Sounds like the other way around is happening. She's playing mind games with you enough so that you're asking for step by step help on a forum. She's in control.

hmm..never saw it that way roosh. its funny that this is the only girl thats played these kinds of games with me recently, but with other girls im used to being in control of everything. i suppose banging her brains out would let her know whos in charge after all wouldnt it?

Quote: (12-28-2011 12:09 PM)at350zguyy Wrote:  

hmm..never saw it that way roosh. its funny that this is the only girl thats played these kinds of games with me recently, but with other girls im used to being in control of everything. i suppose banging her brains out would let her know whos in charge after all wouldnt it?

Atta Boy, That's the spirit...... Go 3fity...............

update:

she comes over and i have how i met your mother on in the basement with the fireplace running. parlay, i tried to pull your moves on her by doing the massage, but she was having none of it. so i backed off for a while, then tried again about 15 minutes later. after that she fires back and tells me shes dating someone, so i told her to leave. she got really defensive and said she valued our friendship, so i told her im not in this to be friends, so go ahead and see yourself out. she left in tears. deleted her number for good.