Got a flake tonight she "forgot" that she had a talk after university. Christ.

My usual modus operandi is to not bother with girls who flake from online. I sometimes break this rule for girls who seem to be DTF. I had a girl a few weeks ago from Tinder who flaked on me twice (in second flake she said she can't do this and is "on off" with her boyfriend, so I just went silent on her) - she restarted texting the following week and ended up fucking her on the date. Was as easy as pie.

One indicator of how advanced you are is how often you flake on girls.

Classic flake last night. 24 year old hits me up during the day wanting to meet. I say ok lets meet at x time at the casino x. Well I get ready and am there and she is a no show. I txt her and say I guess you flaked on me?? I said no more and entire time she was online.
I sitting there and girl number 2 txt me...21 yo black girl I have not met in person. I say meet me here in 30 min. I get there and she is only black chick in the place. Im like wow had vouge model looks and attitude to match. First thing she says is how I look much better than my pics. Anyway we sit at the bar and order drinks and she orders food. Now she was talking about how good she is at manipulating people...danger will robinson. I play it cool and she is like touching me off and on. Now she says how tired she is of dudes her age and their broke ass ways. Im like well your generation is fucked and it will be very hard to make it without all the cards falling right.
Now 3 drinks later I threw some sex bait in the water only after she leaned in and kissed me. She got all pissy and I kept my cool and she was like man your good..real good and smooth...I have to thank you bros for that men. I more or less mind fucked her and she kept trying to keep us there. I close out and we leave go back to her car and talk for a bit. She drives me to my car and says to me that she thought I was cool as fxxx and I say bye..get out of her car and she asks me for gas money...wtf..now I just want to get rid of her so I give her 40 bucks and she says...get this ..you want to see me naked?? Im like what?? Yeah you want to see me naked..I say sure and get back in. She lifts up her dress and she has good legs and a nice rack ..tells me I cant touch her..im like lol lol to myself. I say well gotta go and get out and leave. Im not even 1 mile away and she txt me that she wants to roll with me.
These chicks are like straight up wacked nowadays.

Quote: (02-19-2016 09:27 AM)straightarrow Wrote:  

Classic flake last night. 24 year old hits me up during the day wanting to meet. I say ok lets meet at x time at the casino x. Well I get ready and am there and she is a no show. I txt her and say I guess you flaked on me?? I said no more and entire time she was online.
I sitting there and girl number 2 txt me...21 yo black girl I have not met in person. I say meet me here in 30 min. I get there and she is only black chick in the place. Im like wow had vouge model looks and attitude to match. First thing she says is how I look much better than my pics. Anyway we sit at the bar and order drinks and she orders food. Now she was talking about how good she is at manipulating people...danger will robinson. I play it cool and she is like touching me off and on. Now she says how tired she is of dudes her age and their broke ass ways. Im like well your generation is fucked and it will be very hard to make it without all the cards falling right.
Now 3 drinks later I threw some sex bait in the water only after she leaned in and kissed me. She got all pissy and I kept my cool and she was like man your good..real good and smooth...I have to thank you bros for that men. I more or less mind fucked her and she kept trying to keep us there. I close out and we leave go back to her car and talk for a bit. She drives me to my car and says to me that she thought I was cool as fxxx and I say bye..get out of her car and she asks me for gas money...wtf..now I just want to get rid of her so I give her 40 bucks and she says...get this ..you want to see me naked?? Im like what?? Yeah you want to see me naked..I say sure and get back in. She lifts up her dress and she has good legs and a nice rack ..tells me I cant touch her..im like lol lol to myself. I say well gotta go and get out and leave. Im not even 1 mile away and she txt me that she wants to roll with me.
These chicks are like straight up wacked nowadays.

$40 for ass or for gas?

Lol 40 bucks for GAS..

Triple booked for tonight:
1) Girl 1 (Asian 7 25 year old) flaked.
2) Girl 2 (American 7 20 year old) didn't respond after I told her I'm not looking for anything serious.
3) Girl 3 (Asian 7 24 year old) half flaked saying she may be tired bla blah blah.

Turned around girl 3 by telling her I'm off on holiday and won't be able to meet next week. She seemed to hint at sex that height difference won't matter if we're horizontal.

Then girl 2 came back in the picture saying that sounds good (not looking for anything serious) and she is 20.

So I'm in two minds now of which one to go for. A high likelihood of a bang with an Asian or a 20 year old American. Tough one.

I'd go with the Asian, but that's probably my yellow fever talking.

It's normally all asian all the time for me. However the 20yo American sounds like the better play in this situation. She's at her peak slut age, in a foreign country, probably has a huge fetish for men with British accents and she's on vacation (unless she's in school or living there for some other reason). It reads like the perfect storm of favorable banging conditions.

Quote: (02-19-2016 11:04 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

It's normally all asian all the time for me. However the 20yo American sounds like the better play in this situation. She's at her peak slut age, in a foreign country, probably has a huge fetish for men with British accents and she's on vacation (unless she's in school or living there for some other reason). It reads like the perfect storm of favorable banging conditions.

Yep you read that right and she's just arrived in the country. Will warm them both up and see what's best.

Quote: (02-19-2016 11:04 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

It's normally all asian all the time for me. However the 20yo American sounds like the better play in this situation. She's at her peak slut age, in a foreign country, probably has a huge fetish for men with British accents and she's on vacation (unless she's in school or living there for some other reason). It reads like the perfect storm of favorable banging conditions.

Had the American naked in my bed not sure if my cock went inside her or not maybe the tip did, she was way too tight. Then came over ever. Girls on holiday and in that age bracket are so easy compared to the 30 year olds, it's amazing. The Asian has now gone silent on me unsurprisingly.

Sounds like an NFL game with a touchdown that's under reply review. If you broke the plane it's a score lol.

I'm confused if you came before entering or she left before you could get in?

Quote: (02-19-2016 06:59 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

Sounds like an NFL game with a touchdown that's under reply review. If you broke the plane it's a score lol.

I'm confused if you came before entering or she left before you could get in?

She told me she didn't want to bang. So I told her "just the tip". She said fine. So did that but she was too tight to really get in there properly. Then just came all over her tits I have to say getting her from the bar to be naked in my bed was truly effortless. I either look like a fucking stud or my game is getting towards advanced. She told me she's never been with someone my age.

I actually initially took her to another bar. There were a group of guys next to us, one guy was telling all his friends how he fucked 6 women in a week and all the other guys were "oh my god" (pure betas).

Asian girl I flaked on just responded to me. She's hot for tomorrow, and have another Asian girl on Sunday. This could be a great weekend indeed.

Vincent, what age are you and are you pulling girls in their 20s? Do you stay away from your age and older?

Quote: (02-19-2016 07:30 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  

Vincent, what age are you and are you pulling girls in their 20s? Do you stay away from your age and older?

I'm early 30s and yes I am banging 20-25 year olds on the regular. All from online. I'm actually "dating" a 21 year old Chinese girl (8) also from online but she's in China at the moment. I prefer her to all the other girls. Also have a couple of plates.

I've genuinely never had it so good. The girls in their 30s I sometimes pull as well they are just much tougher - that's really what 15 years of seeing it all does to them. Their attitude is disgusting. I don't avoid them but they need additional screening. One girl in that age group laughed at me saying there's no way I can bang a 21 year old, I just smirked at her back. She was some sort of ballbuster trying to get me to invest and wouldn't have sex two dates later as is so typical of them. I've banged milfs as well (>40), those I usually do avoid.

Matched with a girl from Tinder a couple of weeks ago. Arranged to meet today, though she didnt respond to my message from wednesday. I messaged again today to say see you tonight. She replies
"Sorry not being in contact, got a personal issue has come up and still needs dealing with. Ok to cancel tonight?"

Not responding, next. Can see she has logged into Tinder in the past few hours too.

Quote: (02-20-2016 01:01 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

Quote: (02-19-2016 07:30 PM)griffinmill Wrote:  

Vincent, what age are you and are you pulling girls in their 20s? Do you stay away from your age and older?

I'm early 30s and yes I am banging 20-25 year olds on the regular. All from online.

The girls in their 30s I sometimes pull as well they are just much tougher - that's really what 15 years of seeing it all does to them.

Interestingly, I'm 29 and always found older women (28-35) are typically the easiest age group for me. They seem to be less flakey than younger girls, as well.

Back on the game and back with the flakes. Scheduled 3 girls for today and 2/3 flaked. 1 didn't even answer when I asked her despite seeming very keen the night before. The other replied at like 1am saying its late now, duh, I told her 8pm. Although these were light flakes as I never made concrete plans on the venue, I told them my place and that I'll tell them the address tomorrow. Then on Saturday I had again 2/3 girls flake.

Almost got flaked today by a 19 yo from Tinder.

Her: hey I won't be able to come

Me: *no answer*

(Several minutes later)

Her: forget it see you later

Didn't got the bang, just make out a bit

Flake from a 22 year old last night. Texted throughout the day, and I mentioned I was going to the bar by myself after work. Bitch says she wants to come, so I invite her, fucking get to the bar, and she texts me 15 mins later saying she is still at the gym. called me wanting to meet up an hour late. fuck it. she's probably pissed because I flaked 2 times on her already. Under 25 yr old females are just pathetic when it comes to flaking

@Vincent Chase - Hey man - just like when you're in Vegas, if you're hot you're hot. They can smell it and that 'pussy abundance' mentality just makes them want to fuck you even more. It's crazy man. I openly talk with some girls I bang about how I have other girls coming over tomorrow or later - contrary to what Disney would have you think - they all come back for more. Nice work.

This was an actual pre-emptive flake on my part. Matched with a 30yo blonde, white girl from Bumble who just recently moved to SoCal from Georgia. Moved the exchange to text and she was very enthusiastic about meeting me. She also said that she had never tried sushi in her life but would be down a new adventure. There's a sushi bar across the street from where I live that has a cheap happy hour and the logistics couldn't be better. My thought was to eat a few rolls, down some sake/beer and then come back to my place for more drinks.

Fast forward to today I text her this morning:

Me: All ready for your big sushi adventure today? You nervous?

Her (an hour and a half later): "A little!"

Me: You'll do fine, see you at 5

Then nothing from her. My spidey senses have been going crazy all day that this was going to be a flake on arrival. Since she never really confirmed that she was going to show up I decided to pull the plug after 5 hours of not hearing anything from her. I told her I had a minor family emergency and needed to postpone. Lo and behold she replied in record time saying how it's no problem.

Quote: (02-26-2016 04:54 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

This was an actual pre-emptive flake on my part. Matched with a 30yo blonde, white girl from Bumble who just recently moved to SoCal from Georgia. Moved the exchange to text and she was very enthusiastic about meeting me. She also said that she had never tried sushi in her life but would be down a new adventure. There's a sushi bar across the street from where I live that has a cheap happy hour and the logistics couldn't be better. My thought was to eat a few rolls, down some sake/beer and then come back to my place for more drinks.

Fast forward to today I text her this morning:

Me: All ready for your big sushi adventure today? You nervous?

Her (an hour and a half later): "A little!"

Me: You'll do fine, see you at 5

Then nothing from her. My spidey senses have been going crazy all day that this was going to be a flake on arrival. Since she never really confirmed that she was going to show up I decided to pull the plug after 5 hours of not hearing anything from her. I told her I had a minor family emergency and needed to postpone. Lo and behold she replied in record time saying how it's no problem.

My 2 c: I think the initial text and especially the "You nervous?" part were not good.

That part planted the seed that, somehow, she should be nervous. It's introducing negative energy. Also, the initial text is two questions. Whenever possible, don't ask questions. Assume the sale.

Dates and the setups and everything involved should be light hearted and fun or just purely logistical, not in any way, introducing negative (or nervous) energy.

If you're going to do a "confirmation text", do it like this instead: "Hey, looking forward to tonight. I'm coming from a tournament uptown so I may be a few minutes late. Let's do 5.15 instead if that's cool." or some such.

Notice, no question marks. You're assuming the date is happening.

You're spot on in your advice Robreke. That's exactly how I confirm with almost 100% of my dates but for some reason this one made me doubt my usual game. I was attempting to further qualify and engage her in terms of us meeting up later that day and when she didn't really confirm I pulled the plug and bailed. That's something I need to work on, assuming the sale and making them either show up or flake on me.

Yeah I completely agree, those texts certainly didn't help.

I usually try to warm up their vaginas via text on the day of the date.

Get them excited because sir chad thundercock is coming. The man with the golden cock.

The first text wasn't even that bad of "are you nervous?" as she at least responded positively. I would have responded to her text about how it's such an exciting period for her to meet you and to wear something hot.

Get her juices flowing.

We all make mistakes, I've made the same one dozens of times.

Quote: (02-27-2016 11:35 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

You're spot on in your advice Robreke. That's exactly how I confirm with almost 100% of my dates but for some reason this one made me doubt my usual game. I was attempting to further qualify and engage her in terms of us meeting up later that day and when she didn't really confirm I pulled the plug and bailed. That's something I need to work on, assuming the sale and making them either show up or flake on me.

Yeah, sometimes I like "wear heels"

And of course the maxim 'treat all women the same'

It's harder with the really attractive ones as sometimes the "nice guy" starts to slip out because we don't want to mess up around the really hot ones.

You have to be a cocky player with the plain janes as well as those approaching dime piece status, else they'll feel your weak neediness, turn tail and flake.

Well was talking to a girl all day and night on Tinder. Convo got pretty sexual talking about dick size tit size how i would give her pleasant surprises. 1 hour before she is supposed to come she says

"can we do it Saturday instead"

"Why?"

"i'm feeling sleepy lol"

haven't replied yet. should i say something or nah?