Unless she makes a explicit stance on not swallowing I just bust. Fuck what she thinks. For a while when my diet was spot on girls actually LIKED how it tasted. But its come to the point where most girls just take it down. Porn has become so rampant that girls go crazy for getting nutted on or in the mouth like in the vids just as much as guys enjoy doing it to them.

sure i like for girls to swallow... but after i bust my horniness and care just goes out the window. If i was still super horny after i busted i would have girls brushing thier teeth with that shit...

Bout month ago, one of my regular bangs sucked it for the fist time. Mind you, she is in her early thirties. She was doing okay until she tasted a little pre cum and went running to spit it out! I was like what the fuck? Really? She apologized and we kept fucking. I've refused to see her, it's been about a month now. I'm still pissed. Crazy bitch!

last BJ I had: I pushed the girls head down right before I finished. Without warning, I blew my load, and told her to swallow. She swallowed half of my load, but the other half ended up coming out of her nose. I told her to go to the bathroom to blow her nose and brush her teeth. I know that at the time she enjoyed being treated like a whore, but a few days later she told me that she didn't want to hang out.. that she was "sick of being used for sex, and looking for something more serious." American girls can be ridiculous sometimes...

I like girls more after they swallow. I sometimes take it as an insult if they don't do it.

Krauser said this in a post on his blog in 2012.

"Never trust a girl who wont get on her knees and suck your cock whenever you demand it. Ideally she will proactively offer. Blowjobs, among normal non-slutty chicks, are more submissive and a greater signal of soul-surrender than sexual intercourse. Don’t ever believe a woman who claims she dislikes or is ideologically opposed to putting a man’s cock in her mouth. I’ve had many girls who had never sucked cock before fall in love with it, and other fairly bolshy girls who claim they dislike it then suddenly can’t get enough. It’s a pure submission thing. If she’s not sucking your cock, she hasn’t submitted. If she hasn’t submitted, she’s not in your reality."

I totally agree with him 100% but I apply this to having girls swallow as well. There is just something in me which makes me feel like I haven't totally dominated and owned a girl 100% until she's done that for me.

Every girl I intend on seeing more than a month after the 1st bang (and have refused so far to do this), I make it known that I not only want this, but that it is mandatory if she wants to keep seeing me. And like Krauser says about blowjobs, I've had girls say that the taste is horrible, they find it disgusting, it's something they just don't do, they never did it for anyone else....all the excuses you can think of. I stood my ground and demanded it anyway. Sometimes it took a few months of back and forth, but all (so far) came round eventually. It truly is a pure submission thing.

Once they start doing it, (and as long as you still excite them as man) then it usually stays like that for good.

If you train them well, eventually they will actually crave it and become addicted.

Once time I was in an LTR with a 23 year old girl who had been with 5 guys before me and had never given a blowjob. I knew it was true because her technique was awful and she kept coughing, biting and scratching with her teeth. A true BJ virgin. Over the course of many months I not only trained her to suck me properly, but swallow as well. 6 months later there was an occasion with her where it was taking me ages to bust my nut, cause I’d already cum many times that day. She had been blowing me like for 20 minutes. Most girls would have been exhausted or given up but she just kept hammering away faster, deeper and harder. She refused to give up until I came. Her dedication and relentless effort was amazing and almost scary at the same time. Truly glorious. I will remember it till the day I die. The best part was that I was the man who had trained her to be like that.

For her, swallowing had become the prize and like an wild hungry starving animal, blowjobs had become like feeding time.

Treat them like shit and they'll pretty much do anything to please you.

If she spits, chastise her a little bit, and be like "what the fuck?" Then act like you're not that into her blowjobs going forward.

Watch how quickly she swallows.

To me there are two type of girls.. the one who really enjoy (love) sucking a cock and the one who do not. I have the experience of missing a girl who is a 5 or a 6 but sucks like a champ after I have a girl who is a 7 or an 8 to suck it like if they never put a cock inside their mouth.

My worst experience was with a bitch who will grab my cock with 2 fingers only and who did not suck more than just the head.

Every time I have a girl who from the beginning is a champ at sucking cock I know she will swallow and for the others I do not even bother to let them finish sucking my cock and just tell them they do not know how to do it and they need to learn period.

You guys think some girls are just adamantly against it and won't do it no matter what?

The last 2 girls swallowed me like champs even though one was hesitant at first, but this current plate just won't go there. I've been dominant in bed, hold good frame basically just been doing what's been working for me lately but I just can't get this particular chick to swallow the nut. She is really conservative but I've overcome that before in the past. Some chicks just aren't down with it I guess. Which frustrates me, cause I want to conquer that pretty mouth.

My unscientific observation: women are always happier once they've swallowed a load. I believe it is something hormonal -- something in the jizz that makes her fizz. It will also keep her "full" for hours so it's good for a diet too.

So far as getting the girl to swallow at first: just tell her it's good for her diet. Young blings love such things. An older (more experienced) woman will swallow with no questions asked.

How to get her to swallow?

Bust in. Then pinch and hold her nose, head facing up. Then let go.

And I though fluid mechanics was useless.

If she's not swallowing, you kick her out of the car.

Interesting topic, up until my current gf I think I've maybe had one girl not swallow out of probably 100+ different ones. I thought it was the norm. Some seem to get off on it and the rest just do it as if its the norm. My current gf is the only one who's not crazy about swallowing. I brought up to her how odd I thought I found it and she was surprised and said none of her friends do.

Quote: (07-08-2016 01:31 PM)jamaicabound Wrote:  

Interesting topic, up until my current gf I think I've maybe had one girl not swallow out of probably 100+ different ones. I thought it was the norm. Some seem to get off on it and the rest just do it as if its the norm. My current gf is the only one who's not crazy about swallowing. I brought up to her how odd I thought I found it and she was surprised and said none of her friends do.

What kind of friends does she have if she knows this sort of information about them ?
I have never heard girls asking eachother if they spit or swallow, even when blind drunk.

I think most girls Will at least let you bust in their mouth, keep going until you're finished, then run and spit it out at the end. Those chicks I don't mind, even if they don't swallow because they at least will keep sucking until you're finished cumming. The ones I hate are the ones that won't let you cum in their mouth at all, those are the selfish ones.

It is not a negotiation. Some comfort-building may be required initially but once we have reached a certain level of closeness I make clear my sexual expectations because if she isn't swallowing for you, she has probably swallowed for someone else who has turned her on more in the past or will swallow for someone who turns her on more in the future. And nothing would make my cock go flaccid quicker or make it clearer that she is a pump and dump than her saying, "Of all the loads I've swallowed yours has tasted the best." I like pineapple juice but I'm not going to drink two litres of the damn stuff a day just to make my cum taste good.

(I have found that Asians have a strong aversion to cock sucking and swallowing. Your average Western chick? She needs to swallow just to put herself on a level playing field)

Quote: (07-08-2016 10:10 PM)Zaca Wrote:  

It is not a negotiation. Some comfort-building may be required initially but once we have reached a certain level of closeness I make clear my sexual expectations because if she isn't swallowing for you, she has probably swallowed for someone else who has turned her on more in the past or will swallow for someone who turns her on more in the future. And nothing would make my cock go flaccid quicker or make it clearer that she is a pump and dump than her saying, "Of all the loads I've swallowed yours has tasted the best." I like pineapple juice but I'm not going to drink two litres of the damn stuff a day just to make my cum taste good.

(I have found that Asians have a strong aversion to cock sucking and swallowing. Your average Western chick? She needs to swallow just to put herself on a level playing field)

   

If she doesnt want to, she's not that into you. work on your alpha game man!

Most of the asian chicks I've met are pretty terrible at oral using their teeth kills my boner

I've gotten the girls who initially spit my load out to swallow my load after talking about using wine to swish it down. I have usually talked about the nutritional benefits of my load and the pleasure I get from watching them gulp it down. After a few dates or hangouts with these girls, they usually gulp it down with wine very quickly. The more into you they are, the more you will see them smile after doing it. They have to like you in the beginning or they will give you looks like it no longer pleases them. Work quickly or you will lose their eager gaze to another male.

Game can be a little difficult in Boston, but I can honestly say I've never had a girl here refuse to swallow, even on a first date BJ.

Swallowing seems completely common and expected. I once asked a girl in Cambridge giving me a BJ on her couch (likely while the boyfriend was out of town ) where she wanted me to cum, and she gave me this puzzled look and said "Um, in my mouth?" like she thought I was silly for considering anything else. I don't ask anymore.

If for some reason you're feeling nervous or tired or something and can't bust in these girl's mouths within about five minutes, they seem to get offended, like you think they're substandard. Gee whiz I'm in my mid 30s and work my ass off all day, I can't always bring my pornstar game every night!

For online game girls these days I'm more into the first lay facial. I've only had one girl from OKCupid shoot me down when I told her I was going to blow on her face after we had sex for the first time. College-educated hipster white girls appear to enjoy being degraded.