Quote: (06-06-2015 03:16 PM)naughtygaijin Wrote:
Perhaps so, but it's a choice I make and I have zero interest in stopping drinking. The issue only comes up when I've drank heavily which is at most twice a week. I go days sometimes with no drinks as well, it's just a social thing and one that I chose to fit in to as it is the social norm here. If someone else wants to cut their drinking altogether and go that route, more power to them. That's not what I'm looking for at this point in my life, rather I'm quite content with supplementing a known problem with a little pill from a generic pharmaceutical manufacturer in India.
I will say though, based on experience living here for several years, someone who drinks (or at least visits bars) and has decent game will have a far higher volume of lays than someone with decent game who doesn't drink. There are plenty of places to find the girls who don't drink or drink very little, but they take a hell of a lot more work to get into bed, while someone persistent enough could pretty much get a decent SNL out of a bar every night of the week if they look in the right places.
I understand where you're coming from, if you drink because you enjoy it and choose it, that's your freedom. It's just that feeling like you have to drink to fit in or get more lays is just not true in my opinion.
I still hang out with people who are drinking, I still bang drunk girls, sober girls, etc etc, I don't discriminate as long as she is a 7 or better. As long as you are social and don't judge people for their choices, they won't judge you for yours.
I'm not one of those guys who keeps an excel spreadsheet of all of his lays with a dozen different categories for details, but my imprecise recollection is that the frequency and number of my lays is unchanged since I stopped drinking, and the quality is up significantly. My game is tighter, my conversation better. I plan more, think more quickly, react better. My confidence is up, and I have a lot more other things going on in my life, and I think women sense that and respond positively. It's like they know that I could bang her or not bang her, I can get someone else if I want, and anyway, I have stuff to do tomorrow and don't care all that much whether I bounce her on my dick or not.
I also think frequent drinking becomes much more of a game killer as you get older. I'm 35, and look like a healthy person in their late 20s. My friends who are my same age and drink tons and smoke and don't lift, they look like shit and about 10 years older than me. Younger women who respond positively to me, put old looking people like that in the older guy/creep category.