It's not about the rep points per se. Nothing to do with that, just with the history of posters around here with Korea. I'm not particularly interested in Korea quite honestly, but K Girls tend to be quite hot.

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Dozens of posts saying korean girls are hard, suddenly this Pokemon comes around and says its actually easy, and it's his first post...

Hmmmmmmm call me a skeptic but I'll need a lot more before I buy it.

This guy's legit. Consider yourself lucky that someone experienced has dropped straight knowledge here.

Seeing that I currently only have 1 rep point probably doesn't make him any more legit and probably makes my opinion mean jack shit to you. But whatever, for those of you looking to be more successful with k-girls, take notes from this mofo. He knows whats up.

Quote: (04-21-2015 10:42 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

4. We would also sometimes take girls to video rooms. These places ("bideo-pang") were places where you could rent a VHS cassette tape movie AND watch it right there in a private room together. I look back now and this sounds bizarre, but that's what we did. Private, intimate, and useful since everyone lived at home and you needed a place to go for low-key stuff.

I'm glad that my post brought back some memories for you. For all of its pros and cons, Korea will always be a special place to me and I enjoy writing about my time there.

Korea still has those video rooms, and they are still shady as ever. They call them "DVD-Bangs" now. Different technology, same game

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Thanks for your posts OP. South Korea is one of my top spots to go to next. I'm currently in Budapest.

When would you say the Best time to go to S.Korea is?
I've heard from someone who's been all over the world that partying/clubbing there is better than anywhere else, would you agree?
Could a good looking american guy who knows absolutely no korean language pull a lot there? (I'm the type that'll set a hook constantly until I get a bite)

The best time of the year is April, May and June by far. Great weather and casual sex is in the air.

July and August aren't too great because it's rainy season.

The weather is nice in September and October but girls are in boyfriend-hunting mode and that point, I always pulled less in those months for some reason. The rest of the time is just to cold.

An earlier post I made talks about a friend who did well without much Korean, but he also had cultural knowledge.

If you are coming to Korea for a week or less, there's a really good chance you'll be frustrated. If you don't speak Korean or know how things work there, it's like you're going into the forest to hunt without a rifle. You might catch a rabbit with your bare hands, but it's not going to be efficient and there's a good chance you'll go home empty-handed even if your game is quite solid.

A friend's friend who was supposed to be the natural of naturals back in LA was there for four days and only got 1 bang in that time. According to him, it was difficult.
When you are in Korea, you play by Korean rules. Once you realize this, everything opens up.

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Good post, man. Thanks for the info. I've been in Korea for about 4 months and it really goes with what I've seen.

20 girls a year is solid here, unfortunately I'm out in the boonies so I'll be a lot under that. 74 is crazy high, but I'm sure it's possible. For people reading that guy would definitely be in the top 1% or top .1% of dudes in Korea, don't come here expecting anything close to that.

Thanks! It seems like you are enjoying yourself quite well in Korea. It should only get better with the more Korean you speak and the more knowledge you gain about the place.

I also knew a guy who closed 100+ girls in a year in Korea, which was hard to believe until I met him myself and watched him do daygame. Dude was a legend, although his quality was inconsistent from what I saw.

I would agree, I was probably in the top 5%, and the players I speak of were definitely in the top 1% of foreigners, if not higher. But if you are aggressive about pursuing girls and follow the right blueprint for meeting Korean women, it's definitely doable.

A couple other tips I have would be to follow the fashion trends there. Korean guys have pretty good style and you can jack their swag.. Girls will notice this and this also wins you points because it shows an implicit understanding of the current social norms there.

Also, even though you're in the boonies, I often found the girls with the best personalities in Korea were always the small-town girls. The girls in Seoul have less of a soul, so to speak. The country girls are just as pretty but don't have as much attitude. If you can find a solid GF to hold you over until you move to Seoul (which is what a lot of guys end up doing), it's not a horrible idea.

I also have a special thing for girls from Busan. They seemed to be more laid-back and down to earth, which I attribute to them being from a beach city. They are also less-accustomed to foreigners and more curious than Seoul girls in my experience. The only girl I dated seriously in Korea was from there, and to this day, she's still "the one that got away."

Quote: (04-22-2015 04:30 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

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4. We would also sometimes take girls to video rooms. These places ("bideo-pang") were places where you could rent a VHS cassette tape movie AND watch it right there in a private room together. I look back now and this sounds bizarre, but that's what we did. Private, intimate, and useful since everyone lived at home and you needed a place to go for low-key stuff.

I'm glad that my post brought back some memories for you. For all of its pros and cons, Korea will always be a special place to me and I enjoy writing about my time there.

Korea still has those video rooms, and they are still shady as ever. They call them "DVD-Bangs" now. Different technology, same game

Lollll!
The great thing about the video-bangs was that the different cubicles were separated by very very thin walls or even a heavy curtain. So you could hear other couples making out going at it, while you did the same.
I remember renting "Rambo" and actually making out with a girl to this movie. Where else in the world could you do this and then later go eat "dokk" with red pepper sauce in the street late at night?

OP, thanks for excellent thread and follow-up posts.

What is typically the largest age difference the girls will go for in a man there?

I know it's an ambiguous question, but let's say I am 39 and can consistently close 30 yo women in California, and occasionally mid 20s girls. 6' tall American white guy.

Quote: (04-22-2015 04:47 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

If you are coming to Korea for a week or less, there's a really good chance you'll be frustrated. If you don't speak Korean or know how things work there, it's like you're going into the forest to hunt without a rifle. You might catch a rabbit with your bare hands, but it's not going to be efficient and there's a good chance you'll go home empty-handed even if your game is quite solid.

Yeah, Korea doesn't seem like a good place for short-term guys. It's not a bargain by any stretch, at least assuming if you're staying in private rooms. You'd be dropping a lot of cash for a pretty shitty return.

Also Seoul is a nice city and everything, but in terms of travel, I'm not sure if it's a must-see.

Quote: (04-22-2015 04:47 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Thanks! It seems like you are enjoying yourself quite well in Korea. It should only get better with the more Korean you speak and the more knowledge you gain about the place.

I also knew a guy who closed 100+ girls in a year in Korea, which was hard to believe until I met him myself and watched him do daygame. Dude was a legend, although his quality was inconsistent from what I saw.

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Also, even though you're in the boonies, I often found the girls with the best personalities in Korea were always the small-town girls.

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I also have a special thing for girls from Busan.

Yeah, it's definitely possible to get numbers like that, I just wanted to stress that your numbers are much more realistic than your friends. I'd feel bad if people came to Korea expecting some pussy paradise where'd they'd be banging a new girl every other night.

I'm not so far out in the boonies, more of a very small city. Just outside Busan actually, I go a occasionally, although mainly I visit Seoul. Logistics are shit though, which makes things rough.

I'm dating a local girl though, which is nice. She actually is fluent in English which is why my Korean is coming so slowly. It's been nice though, lots of time to work on self-improvement, read, and save money.

Are you teacher?

So...Is anyone near the Daegu area?
I'll be there this weekend

Quote: (04-22-2015 11:59 PM)Stun Wrote:  

OP, thanks for excellent thread and follow-up posts.

What is typically the largest age difference the girls will go for in a man there?

I know it's an ambiguous question, but let's say I am 39 and can consistently close 30 yo women in California, and occasionally mid 20s girls. 6' tall American white guy.

Age gaps are a little more accepted but nothing too ridiculous. "Seeking arrangement" is pretty common among older rich Korean guys and hot younger girls, but I don't think that applies as much for foreigners and the arrangement is going to be way more expensive. One girl I went on a date with told me that an older Korean guy offered her $5,000 a month to essentially be his mistress. I'm sure the offers get higher and more extravagant than that for the best of the best.

You should be able to pull late 20s if you keep fit and whatnot. The good thing about East Asian girls and especially Korean ones is that the rule of thumb is to subtract 5 years from their age, and that's what they look like compared to western girls.

So if you are banging a 30-year old Korean it'll feel like she's 25.

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Are you teacher?

I was. I taught test-prep which was cool cause I only had to work 3-4 months of the year. Now I'm back in the States doing normal, responsible stuff. I'd probably still be in Asia if it weren't for my family.

Good info: glad to hear a counterpoint. I lived in Seoul in 2004 where a different girl a week wasn't uncommon amongst my group of Korean American friends, so looking at it, I think it does color my perspective now. That shit was contra easy mode back then, now you sorta need the 30 lives code.

Thinking of taking KTX and going down to Busan, Daegu and Daejeon next time I'm there. Probably a better value proposition.

I recently visited Seoul and it was like Candy Land. Now that it's spring and warm weather, the girls are out and looking hot. Went out on a Friday with some buddies in Itaewon, and you can't imagine the ratio in some clubs where it's literally 3 girls to 1 guy. Now, of course the quality spread can be pretty large, but quality of K girls is much higher than in the west. Their efforts with makeup, fashion, and ability to be endearing bring up their rating by 1-2 points easily.

I'd make one strong suggestion. K girls that go to Itaewon know there are foreigners everywhere. The K girls going to Gangnam are going for rich K guys. If you're a foreigner, don't bother going to Gangnam, you'll have a hard time. On the other hand, the girls in Itaewon want to use their english or have spent time in the west, which makes communicating very easy if you speak little Korean.

Don't go to clubs first. Go to pubs like Prost where it's a casual meat market. Clubs are more exclusive, and the high end bars have tons of stuck up psycho K girls who are hot but don't want to be bothered by anyone. Casual pubs/bars are the way to go - people want to meet other people and girls LOVE the attention there. I'd also suggest not going too late. You want to escalate with a K girl as she gets buzzed, not after she's had one too many.

Use caution for westernized K grenades. There are many cute K girls in Itaewon that have that one 4-5 level friend that spent time in the west and is annoying as fuck. If you see a group with a girl like that, either have a guy that's going to take one for the team, or bounce to the next group where all the girls are quality.

Many girls who are professionals and are not married live at home and have curfews between 12am-2am. This shit can be intense because on one hand, they're looking to marry a K guy, but on the other hand, they're repressed as fuck and need sex before curfew runs out. You can easily play this angle.

As for my report - went into a bar, met some girls, we started bar/club hopping together. Night ended, exchanged numbers. Went out again for dinner and drinking, and then shit was on. Bang the very next day and boy was she in need of some attention in that department.

Happy to answer more questions.

Quote: (04-23-2015 04:48 PM)booshala Wrote:  

Good info: glad to hear a counterpoint. I lived in Seoul in 2004 where a different girl a week wasn't uncommon amongst my group of Korean American friends, so looking at it, I think it does color my perspective now. That shit was contra easy mode back then, now you sorta need the 30 lives code.

Thinking of taking KTX and going down to Busan, Daegu and Daejeon next time I'm there. Probably a better value proposition.

Korean-Americans still do better than foreigners on average, but yeah, I think the "American Dream" has less appeal than it used to now that Korea has more economic and cultural clout in the world than it did ten years ago.

Busan club scene is poppin these days (and not just in summer). Club Fix and Grid are the hot-spots in Seomyeon.

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I'd make one strong suggestion. K girls that go to Itaewon know there are foreigners everywhere. The K girls going to Gangnam are going for rich K guys. If you're a foreigner, don't bother going to Gangnam, you'll have a hard time. On the other hand, the girls in Itaewon want to use their english or have spent time in the west, which makes communicating very easy if you speak little Korean.

This is definitely spot-on. Itaewon is the way to go. Girls at Gangnam are better on average but I'd pull more quality in Itaewon than I did in Gangnam. Girls get in an "Itaewon Freedom" mindset when they go there.

Best spots in Itaewon are Prost, like above poster mentioned, and Glam, which is located directly above Prost. They are both classy type bars but filled with girls looking to meet guys. You don't have to buy a drink in either place (everyone is standing and it's free cover). I banged more girls from Glam than any other venue in my whole life and spent less than $100 in 2 years there.

What I typically did in Itaewon was buy a $10 wristband at B1, then go in and out between B1, the main street on Itaewon, and Glam and Prost. Only $10 for nightlife expenses and you can drink at the 7/11 if you need more liquid courage. B1 is more Korean style so very few foreigners go there but I still had decent success there.

Once it gets to 2-3 a.m., most of the girls from Itaewon have been pulled or gone home already, but the Gangnam clubs stay poppin so the typical play is to reroute there and try to pick up the scraps, which happens more often than you'd think.

Quote: (04-24-2015 08:21 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

What I typically did in Itaewon was buy a $10 wristband at B1, then go in and out between B1, the main street on Itaewon, and Glam and Prost. Only $10 for nightlife expenses and you can drink at the 7/11 if you need more liquid courage. B1 is more Korean style so very few foreigners go there but I still had decent success there.

Once it gets to 2-3 a.m., most of the girls from Itaewon have been pulled or gone home already, but the Gangnam clubs stay poppin so the typical play is to reroute there and try to pick up the scraps, which happens more often than you'd think.

This, my friends, is playing the big game, while the idiot K cockbockers are playing the little game.

Glam around midnight is like an LA freeway. It's so out of control and the quality spread can be ALL OVER THE PLACE. Try to get there early so that you're not dropping your standards to 5s.

And Gentlemen, use your eyes. If you get that slightly prolonged look, they're up for you approaching. If they won't give you the time of day, move on. We gotta be efficient.

I am in korea now.. anyone who is here hit me up. Im korean american and need a wingman.

Quote: (04-22-2015 11:08 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

Quote: (04-22-2015 04:30 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Quote: (04-21-2015 10:42 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

4. We would also sometimes take girls to video rooms. These places ("bideo-pang") were places where you could rent a VHS cassette tape movie AND watch it right there in a private room together. I look back now and this sounds bizarre, but that's what we did. Private, intimate, and useful since everyone lived at home and you needed a place to go for low-key stuff.

I'm glad that my post brought back some memories for you. For all of its pros and cons, Korea will always be a special place to me and I enjoy writing about my time there.

Korea still has those video rooms, and they are still shady as ever. They call them "DVD-Bangs" now. Different technology, same game

Lollll!
The great thing about the video-bangs was that the different cubicles were separated by very very thin walls or even a heavy curtain. So you could hear other couples making out going at it, while you did the same.
I remember renting "Rambo" and actually making out with a girl to this movie. Where else in the world could you do this and then later go eat "dokk" with red pepper sauce in the street late at night?

She sounds like a keeper!

Quote: (04-23-2015 02:45 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

You should be able to pull late 20s if you keep fit and whatnot. The good thing about East Asian girls and especially Korean ones is that the rule of thumb is to subtract 5 years from their age, and that's what they look like compared to western girls.

Ok care to explain what "normal, responsible stuff" exactly is back home? I'd say you should f*ck that shit and get the hell back to Korea!

Quote: (04-23-2015 02:45 PM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

So if you are banging a 30-year old Korean it'll feel like she's 25.

Nice way of looking at it - same goes for Russia too - they really do keep their figures better & tighter much longer and just look younger (more makeup too of course). I guess they eat a lot less of the crappy food that we eat in the West. Do Korean girls eat much after 7-9 o'clock or is there a real fat shaming/eat healthy attitude there?

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Nice way of looking at it - same goes for Russia too - they really do keep their figures better & tighter much longer and just look younger (more makeup too of course). I guess they eat a lot less of the crappy food that we eat in the West. Do Korean girls eat much after 7-9 o'clock or is there a real fat shaming/eat healthy attitude there?

Allow me to respond to that one, alongside fat shaming and stuff of the kind, they give TREMENDOUS importance to looks, too much perhaps, even men are starting to wear makeup to compete with women for jobs...

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Ok care to explain what "normal, responsible stuff" exactly is back home? I'd say you should f*ck that shit and get the hell back to Korea!

Well, I'm at the point in my life where the potential regret of not being close to my parents outweighs the potential regret of not banging random Asian pussy.

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Nice way of looking at it - same goes for Russia too - they really do
keep their figures better & tighter much longer and just look younger (more makeup too of course). I guess they eat a lot less of the crappy food that we eat in the West. Do Korean girls eat much after 7-9 o'clock or is there a real fat shaming/eat healthy attitude there?

Russian girls are my #2, actually. I've always thought there were a lot of similarities between them and Koreans, although one might argue that Russian girls are a better value proposition since their culture is less xenophobic and Russian men are notorious for being deadbeats whereas Korean guys have the K-Pop swag going for them and are generally more successful.

Both Russian girls and Koreans don't fuck around when it comes to their looks. They both like aggressive men and are cold on the outside but very warm once you break through their shell. They're both known for being materialistic. Hell, even their alcohol of choice is similar. K girls get the upper hand on aging more gracefully, though.

Fat-shaming is no joke in Korea. The real fatties (obese people) are literally weeded out of the gene pool. Like, you just don't see them anywhere. Lol. I was the only one eating on a lot of my dinner dates.

How is street game there? Do you run direct or indirect approaches?

An acquaintance of mine tried running his Japan-style street game in Seoul and got shut down by random Korean guys on numerous occasions. This was a few years back though. Is this kind of cockblocking still common?

I approached thousands of girls on the street and never had an issue. His style must be very aggressive or he must stand out a lot in some way.

Street game is good. Seoul is such a high density city so there will be so many chances to approach. I dont think direct game works that well with asian girls b/c they have even more anti-slut defense than other girls (due to confucian culture).

Really? Are you Asian by any chance? 1000s of street approaches and not one cockblock sounds pretty unlikely as an obvious foreigner. Hell, I've been blocked in Japan on many occasions and by all accounts Korea is supposed to be much worse. For example, another friend of mine got in a fist fight with some Korean guys who blocked his mate's approach on the street.

If you didn't get cockblocked, you have a face the Koreans like. There's a typical face over there that gets a free-pass. When the guys will come up to cockblock you, they'll rep you instead, or won't even bother. Same thing applies in Japan.

You could either be any of the following:

1. Baby-faced
2. That face that gets a good rep/pass (this is the face Koreans aspire to with the plastic surgery)

That.makes sense, I'm half asian (although most ppl think I'm full white) and i have a babyface.

I still get cockblocked regularly at the club, though.

Quote: (06-03-2015 11:44 AM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

Really? Are you Asian by any chance? 1000s of street approaches and not one cockblock sounds pretty unlikely as an obvious foreigner. Hell, I've been blocked in Japan on many occasions and by all accounts Korea is supposed to be much worse. For example, another friend of mine got in a fist fight with some Korean guys who blocked his mate's approach on the street.

1000 approaches...


You are so contradictory in your post thats its like two different people are using your account.
Your first group of first talk about how easy korean girls are and how you need to be aggressive with them

Quote: (06-03-2015 11:44 AM)rungoodinc Wrote:  

I had over 20+ SNLS from clubs. The rest of my closes were either D2 or D3 with dates i met from the club, and some from daygame.
Korean girls are not any more conservative than any other girls. In fact, they are probably more slutty than girls from other countries in a way, because their culture tries to repress sex so much on the outside, but when you try to repress something people becoming even more tempted to do it.

When it comes to having the right approach, you have to be aggressive and push the limits even more than you're used to. There is a phrase in korean which says that "korean girls don't want to talk, they just want physical things."

Then later you go one about how korea isnt a good place for quick bangs and that you being aggressive is the wrong way to get korea girls.
Your post are really inconsistent and dont seem like anything more than long drops of text with no meat

^^ those aren't my quotes above. I agree though that there's something not quite right about OP's reports.

my bad bro ^^ I realized I pasted the wrong the wrong name when I made the quote box

You just quoted someone else in order to show that i contradicted myself. The top quote was written by dreambig and the bottom one was written by me.

Can a mod please delete this guy's last post?

These personal attacks are getting ridiculous.