Quote: (06-07-2012 07:54 AM)Richie Wrote:
Well said trainwreck. I don't believe Sweden to be as easy as it's scandinavian counterparts. At least not anything 7 and above. Since I believe the quality is slightly higher in Sweden than Denmark or Norway for example I can imagine it being a harder slog. Whilst I have my fair share of Swedish flags in general they are real teases and I never managed to bang the ones I really wanted.
I am really looking forward to Rooshs experience out there and how it compares it to the rest of scandinavian. I never thought I'd see the day but for the sake of the forum it is an exciting challenge. Good luck Roosh.
Yep, from my experience the 7's and above are actually mostly in relationships and they are quite serious about it. Swedish guys might have no compareable game to Americans but they do have great genes and swag. Finland is definitely the easiest one out of all nordic countries. This is due to Finnish guys just getting absurdely drunk, having no game and mostly not knowing how to dress well. I know a guy who got laid in
sweden... he managed a 7 out of 7 days streak... but the quality was ... to be fair, quite low.
The tales of having girls outright approach you are all BS. I roll suited up, look Spanish, got quite good looks and even though I do get a lot of approach invitations (stares, smiles) I never had a reasonably looking girl in nothern Europe approach me.
You definitely need to come in with great game. There are quite a lot of girls who would choose a foreign guy over a Swedish guy for LTR's but it's only because of a few points:
1- Foreign guys acknowledge the beauty of Swedish girls more, therefore treat them better
2- Foreign guys (they associate this mostly with Americans) have more of an alpha behavior compared to the scandinavian guys. They fuck better and know how to lead a woman. It's funny how the Swedish guys get trained to believe in equality (honestly, I think they get trained to believe that women are the superior sex) in school. It actually favors women in the day-by-day life but in the end, all they want is a guy that leads them and buys them dinner sometime
3- They think Americans are cool. God knows why
But there's a couple things that play in your disfavor if you're looking to LTR or bang any of these girls:
1- As a foreigner, I'm sure that you will mostly disagree with the nanny state and some certain laws
2- Swedes have been guilted by their School since childhood for being a rich country, they want to help everyone and everybody become more advanced. I've had a couple of discussions with Swedish girls why I don't think that sending money down to Africa helps anything at all. Also,
Sweden has been overrun by asylants. Most of the 18-30 crowd thinks this is a great thing since they 'saved a life of someone who would've gotten killed in their home country, even if hes a criminal'. I highly disagree.
3- Insane flakiness. Even if you banged her and had a great connection, there's no guarantee that she'll hit you up again. Especially during the summer months. If she's a hot girl, she will have an extensive social circle. And if you have friends in Stockholm, your summer nights are all booked up for at least 1 week in advance.
Of course being exotic will help you out with certain types of girls but the best ones are mostly tied down to some rich good looking Swedish dude - and also quite loyal. At least as loyal as a woman can be.
The pro's of Swedish girls:
1- They love to take care of their men. It's not unheard of having a SNL and waking up to some breakfast. I know this makes no sense given the fact of feminism, but I've found Scandinavian feminism to be rather about equality, not about castrating men or completely wishy washing male-female relations.
2- They got money and make awesome travel companions
3- Highly educated women, but somehow still manage to stay feminine
4- The looks. I've been in South America, All over Europe (including FSU) and Northern America. Swedish girls beat any other 'race'. Because they know how to dress, dress insanely provocative in the summer (I'm talking extra short shorts and just a bra) and have really cool, girly personalities. And I didn't even mention their awesome gene pool. I definitely want a kid from one of these beauties, lol.k
5- Perfect English. C/F doesn't work as well, sarcasm will
6- For some reason, lots of them are bi. Threesomes are possible.
7- Sexually open, they love sex and are OK talking about it.
About the 'husbands dont care if their women fuck around' thing.. lol, I highly doubt that. Divorce rates are high but then again, there are a lot of unmarried parents too.