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Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - GlobalMan - 02-12-2016

I'm surprised to see most in the same boat as OP.

For me, nothing really tops a good blowjob, and I'll nut quickly from that if done right. On the other hand, I can pound away for hours and lose interest before I get off.

Besides sensitivity and physical things, I think it has a lot to do with what a guy digs, as Kaotic said.

There's something deliciously dominate about having your cock in a girls mouth. Historically it was far more taboo than having intercourse in most cultures.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - BrewDog - 02-12-2016

It was the same for me for many years. It mainly just tickled my dick and I wasn't getting much from it. Until I met this one girl... holy shit. SHE knew what she was doing, and I still think about her BJs years later.

But yet, if a girl is that good at head, how did she get that knowledge?

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Buakaw - 02-12-2016

I have the same problem like OP. I cant cum from just sucking

This is what helped me: Tell the girl to only suck the tip and have her jerk off the shaft using her hand. Not the whole fist but one or two fingers. My girl now has perfected this technique and I get more awesome orgasms from this than from fucking

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - pizdets - 02-12-2016

Throatfuck

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Suits - 02-12-2016

Quote: (02-11-2016 07:40 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  

Quote: (02-11-2016 07:36 AM)Suits Wrote:  

So guys simply don't enjoy getting head.

Have you tried fucking her?

I wanted to but she's catholic and wants to stay a virgin. She's 17.

Does she have an asshole?

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - GlobalMan - 02-12-2016

Quote: (02-12-2016 05:00 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (02-11-2016 07:40 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  

Quote: (02-11-2016 07:36 AM)Suits Wrote:  

So guys simply don't enjoy getting head.

Have you tried fucking her?

I wanted to but she's catholic and wants to stay a virgin. She's 17.

Does she have an asshole?

[Image: highfive.gif]

This.

In fact, that's been the mainstay of "I'm still a virgin" young Catholic girls for decades, if not centuries.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Belgrano - 02-12-2016

Quote: (02-12-2016 01:34 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

I'm surprised to see most in the same boat as OP.

For me, nothing really tops a good blowjob, and I'll nut quickly from that if done right. On the other hand, I can pound away for hours and lose interest before I get off.

Besides sensitivity and physical things, I think it has a lot to do with what a guy digs, as Kaotic said.

There's something deliciously dominate about having your cock in a girls mouth. Historically it was far more taboo than having intercourse in most cultures.

Same here.
I think it hasn't been mentioned so far, but could circumcision and the resulting desensitization have something to do with it? Cause honestly, the fact that some guys don't enjoy or cum from getting blowjobs just blows my mind.

Maybe I'm biased, I tend to be a serial monogamist and train my girls to do exactly what I like. So the blowjobs I get are always awesome.
If a girl is clueless but willing to please and learn, no problem.
Practice makes perfect.
Otherwise I throw her back into the water.
There's really no reason to compromise on my sexual pleasure.

OP, I also agree with Mercenary.
It seems you are just not that into her.
An important part of the experience is pyschological.
The more beautiful and desirable you think a girl is, the more you will enjoy seeing her submit to you. It brings a deep sense of gratification.
Don't punch below your weight just because it's convenient and easy.
Go for what you truly want. It will be worth it, trust me.

I know you are still young and probably just happy to get some, but ask yourself if a girl that you don't find attractive, who gives bad head and doesn't make you cum, who is also conservative and lacks the curiosity and eagerness (which a teen girl like that should have if she finds you desirable) to let you fuck her, is really worth your time and attention.

I mean the fact that she wants to stay a virgin is really adorable and cute, and there's nothing wrong with respecting that, but why would you invest your time into her if there are so many horny and eager alternatives out there who crave the dick? And that you will also be much more into?
Realistically speaking, this girl most likely won't stay a virgin until marriage, but what's important, given her age and morals, she might very likely stay a virgin while with you. Wrong time, wrong girl. I'd say move on.

Quote: (02-11-2016 07:26 AM)Mercenary Wrote:  

Quote: (02-11-2016 05:13 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  

So, I was getting head for the first time not so long ago with a girl I'm good friends with,
She's a friend so I dont find her physically attractive to date

Look at what you wrote there. Think about it.
Your issue might be purely mental.

It seems to me that your dick is refusing to cooperate because you don't find her attractive enough or cant objectify her properly like you would a really hot girl.
Your dick always knows better than you if this is a girl worth blasting into.

Find a girl that turns you on more and probably won't have this problem.


Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Ruivinho - 02-12-2016

Quote: (02-12-2016 06:18 AM)Celtic_Austrian Wrote:  

Quote: (02-12-2016 01:34 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

I'm surprised to see most in the same boat as OP.

For me, nothing really tops a good blowjob, and I'll nut quickly from that if done right. On the other hand, I can pound away for hours and lose interest before I get off.

Besides sensitivity and physical things, I think it has a lot to do with what a guy digs, as Kaotic said.

There's something deliciously dominate about having your cock in a girls mouth. Historically it was far more taboo than having intercourse in most cultures.

Same here.
I think it hasn't been mentioned so far, but could circumcision and the resulting desensitization have something to do with it? Cause honestly, the fact that some guys don't enjoy or cum from getting blowjobs just blows my mind.

Maybe I'm biased, I tend to be a serial monogamist and train my girls to do exactly what I like. So the blowjobs I get are always awesome.
If a girl is clueless but willing to please and learn, no problem.
Practice makes perfect.
Otherwise I throw her back into the water.
There's really no reason to compromise on my sexual pleasure.

OP, I also agree with Mercenary.
It seems you are just not that into her.
An important part of the experience is pyschological.
The more beautiful and desirable you think a girl is, the more you will enjoy seeing her submit to you. It brings a deep sense of gratification.
Don't punch below your weight just because it's convenient and easy.
Go for what you truly want. It will be worth it, trust me.

I know you are still young and probably just happy to get some, but ask yourself if a girl that you don't find attractive, who gives bad head and doesn't make you cum, who is also conservative and lacks the curiosity and eagerness (which a teen girl like that should have if she finds you desirable) to let you fuck her, is really worth your time and attention.

I mean the fact that she wants to stay a virgin is really adorable and cute, and there's nothing wrong with respecting that, but why would you invest your time into her if there are so many horny and eager alternatives out there who crave the dick? And that you will also be much more into?
Realistically speaking, this girl most likely won't stay a virgin until marriage, but what's important, given her age and morals, she might very likely stay a virgin while with you. Wrong time, wrong girl. I'd say move on.

There's no moving on or investing my friend. I'm sure I stated before we have been friends for some time, but would never be more than friends.
Frabkly we both go gym and have good bodys, so we just decided to engage in sexual activity for fun, no strings attached.

In terms of sensitivity, I am uncut. I always thought of a BJ as being the pinnacle of pleasure sex wise, but unfortunately my experiences with BJ's have been quite different..

Theres probably many factors that contribute but masturbation death hand grip shit is i think where the root of the issue stems from.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - spygoat - 02-12-2016

Personally if a girl doesn't suck my dick like its the fountain of youth I have a hard time nutting and would much rather give her the business. However, like some of the fellas said, a good nut from a bj is great. Training the girl on what you like and what turns you on is the most important part. The ones you don't have to train, you keep those on the side haha.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - _Samo_ - 02-12-2016

I can never really cum from getting head, had some 12-15 different girls do that and I came once I think or I don't remember. I don't think it's a major problem. I also felt at first it wasn't so enjoyable but then I just started to do what I want, by that I mean pushing her head down and holding it, pulling her hair, slapping her face with it, telling her what to do etc. still I don't feel like cumming from it but it's more enjoyable now. Mix it up.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Vinny - 02-13-2016

Same issue here. I think it is due to porn use in younger age.
I only came from BJ twice in my life and both were while I was driving. Somehow that takes away my conscience, and lets me get there.
I am trying NoFap now to see if it will have any effect.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Vienna - 02-13-2016

Some of the best nuts I've had was when a girl blew me.

Completely drained my balls.

That chick also damn well knew what she was doing.

But nutting from a blowjob is as much about what you're doing as what she's doing.

Get her into various blowjob positions. On her knees in front of you. You on your back in bed, her standing on all fours beside you going at it while you finger her pussy. On her back with her head on the edge of the bed. In these various positions, you can grab her head and pound away (start low to let her warm her throat up), pull her hair, slap her face with your dick, squeeze her tits like the animal you are.

While she's slobbering away, guide her through moans and variations of "good girl". Like others already pointed out, train her. And just as important, the more animalistic and immersed you are, the more into it she gets - because you lead her by example. And when you see her enjoy herself so immensely by giving YOU pleasure, something in your mind will click.

Tell her nothing is off limits and you want her to worship your dick. I was not aware of it then but I think it's a good way to show a non-judgemental attitude, which makes her comfortable with being sexual with you.

The last important thing is when you come. Tell her you're about to come, and to keep going just like she's doing and not stop. She's gonna have to go deep, hard and fast and will likely only be able to sustain it for a limited time. Of course, this expects that she'll swallow, but if you've done a good job prior she's gonna do everything she can to get your juice in her mouth.

Trust me man, the first time you nut from a stellar blowjob, it will change your life. You will be drained, and the girl should be well on her way to a dislocated jaw while having your Nobel Prize winners venturing down her esophagus. [Image: lol.gif]

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - emuelle1 - 02-13-2016

I've only "completed" from a blow job once, and that girl was experienced at it. And it still took forever. For me, it's good for a minute or two, then gets boring. I start thinking "I'd be done by now if I just did it myself." And that's assuming she doesn't use teeth. I guess it's hard for a girl to understand something she can't personally feel. Same thing with a hand job. I've pretty much given up training my wife to do either, although I did get her to understand she's not trying to start a lawnmower.

I'd rather just start with some stimulation then finish through intercourse.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - PapayaTapper - 02-13-2016

If you're only getting a "nice girl" blowjobs then you really haven't had a one. What you need is to find a chick that's insane. The nuttier the better. If you can find one that was sexually molested, and has an eating disorder that's the gold standard.

One of the nuttiest chicks I ever banged more than once was a complete whack job. The first indication of what I was dealing with was when I discovered she had a tatoo saying "Love Me"...on the inside of her bottom lip...think about how spun she'd have to me to do that.

First couple of times she blew me it was like I had hot wet piston going at 1000 rpms on my meatsicle. It was incredible. The only problem was that right when I blew she gagged and coughed and it sort of spoiled the finish.

She said:

"I'm so sorry that happened again. I can't control it. Next time right when youre about to cum I want you to pull the back of my head into you as hard as you want so I cant cough you out"

[Image: cool.gif]

So sure enough a couple weeks later she's at my place, I'm laying on my bed and she's kneeling between my legs with the dick diesel going and when the time came (pun intended) I did as she requested and put a two handed grip on the back of her head and stayed ball deep. As I blew a massive load in the back of her throat and through all the muffled coughs and gags an unexpected thing happened. Since the load wasn't going down against the pressure of her lungs via the cough and the gagging...well if you haven't guessed by now the majority of that wad and with spit came splattering out of her nose like a snot explosion.

Once she regained her breath enough to speak with my glaze still dripping down her face and chin the first thing she said was.

"That was so fucking hot"

Team Face Fuck

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Vienna - 02-14-2016

Quote: (02-13-2016 06:38 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

So sure enough a couple weeks later she's at my place, I'm laying on my bed and she's kneeling between my legs with the dick diesel going and when the time came (pun intended) I did as she requested and put a two handed grip on the back of her head and stayed ball deep. As I blew a massive load in the back of her throat and through all the muffled coughs and gags an unexpected thing happened. Since the load wasn't going down against the pressure of her lungs via the cough and the gagging...well if you haven't guessed by now the majority of that wad and with spit came splattering out of her nose like a snot explosion.

Once she regained her breath enough to speak with my glaze still dripping down her face and chin the first thing she said was.

"That was so fucking hot"

Team Face Fuck

What you did is known as the angry dragon.

Inadvertantly did that to a girlfriend when I was younger. She reacted exactly the same, thought it was incredibly hot.

At dinner with her family later that evening she kept blowing her nose, and her mom asked her if she was getting a cold.

Was really hard to hold my laugh. [Image: lol.gif]

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Jtguthrie12 - 02-14-2016

I've only busted once from head so you are not alone my friend.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Vinny - 04-18-2016

Since I've posted here last time I had achieved significant progress.
I mean I came from blowjob, pretty fast. The girl was nothing special, and she was just normal at doing it.
The secret recipe is NoPorn.
I did already 2 months without porn and I am still going strong, and the results are great. All to do with sex is just more pleasurable.

I am not a great advocate for NoFap, because for me personally it is too much. I try to fap less than once a week to keep myself motivated.
But NoPorn is a miracle worker for sure.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - azulsombra - 04-18-2016

I'm surprised so many dudes have a problem busting a nut from a BJ.

Im guessing its one of two things.

1. Girl doesn't go "all out" with her blowjob technique because she wants it to be a prelude to banging her. Some girls are selfish and will give you just enough head to keep you hard but want to make sure you don't nut so they keep a slow boring rhythm in the hopes that you will get bored, remove it from their mouth and bang away.

2. The other culprit that sabotages what would have been an otherwise decent BJ is dry mouth. Some girls try to give you a classy BJ instead of a sloppy one and forget to spit and slobber on that Mofo. Just like banging a dry vag is no fun, banging a dry mouth can make it difficult to arrive at your destination. A girl has to commit to sucking you off and YOUR pleasure and forget trying to be cute while doing it.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - gmoneysauce - 04-18-2016

Quote: (04-18-2016 04:53 PM)Vinny Wrote:  

Since I've posted here last time I had achieved significant progress.
I mean I came from blowjob, pretty fast. The girl was nothing special, and she was just normal at doing it.
The secret recipe is NoPorn.
I did already 2 months without porn and I am still going strong, and the results are great. All to do with sex is just more pleasurable.

I am not a great advocate for NoFap, because for me personally it is too much. I try to fap less than once a week to keep myself motivated.
But NoPorn is a miracle worker for sure.

Completely concur. My ability to ejaculate with a blowjob is inversely proportional to how much porn I have watched in the past few days or weeks.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Leonard D Neubache - 04-18-2016

The OP is overthinking it.

He needs to sit back, instruct the girl to slowly suck on the tip drip feed style while he rests a good book on her head and gets some reading in.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Travesty - 04-18-2016

Have you tried choking her during so it's a tighter fit?

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Remington - 04-18-2016

Quote: (04-18-2016 06:44 PM)azulsombra Wrote:  

2. The other culprit that sabotages what would have been an otherwise decent BJ is dry mouth. Some girls try to give you a classy BJ instead of a sloppy one and forget to spit and slobber on that Mofo. Just like banging a dry vag is no fun, banging a dry mouth can make it difficult to arrive at your destination. A girl has to commit to sucking you off and YOUR pleasure and forget trying to be cute while doing it.

Co-signed. The best head I have ever received was when girls flick the slut switch on and throw dignity out the window. I've only had maybe 10 girls that got into that mindset.

The spitting, drooling, deep throating, gagging, and teary eyes are great indicators that say they are trying. It's pretty tricky not to finish when they are doing all the right things.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - PapayaTapper - 04-18-2016

Quote: (04-18-2016 08:14 PM)Remington Wrote:  

Quote: (04-18-2016 06:44 PM)azulsombra Wrote:  

2. The other culprit that sabotages what would have been an otherwise decent BJ is dry mouth. Some girls try to give you a classy BJ instead of a sloppy one and forget to spit and slobber on that Mofo. Just like banging a dry vag is no fun, banging a dry mouth can make it difficult to arrive at your destination. A girl has to commit to sucking you off and YOUR pleasure and forget trying to be cute while doing it.

Co-signed. The best head I have ever received was when girls flick the slut switch on and throw dignity out the window. I've only had maybe 10 girls that got into that mindset.

The spitting, drooling, deep throating, gagging, and teary eyes are great indicators that say they are trying. It's pretty tricky not to finish when they are doing all the right things.

Patrice tried to tell chicks how to keep a man...






Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - Rawmeo - 04-19-2016

I'm in the same boat, I have yet to find a girl who can me nut from head.

Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me? - PapayaTapper - 04-20-2016

Just blew a load in girls throat a few hours ago. I walked in to my house with her, the dog came out from the bedroom and with one look that I swear was "Oh here we go again" barely said hi and went back to the room.

2 hours, and 3 glasses of wine after we met on the couch watching a movie with my shoes still on, pants and choneys down at my ankles, chick was gobbling my spam missile 12 min into the movie. She had great technique and I blew a good batch in her mouth. Never even put down the remote. It was almost a perfect evening.

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