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Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - StrikeBack - 04-08-2019
My wife and I took a stroll through a local university campus on their open day a couple of months ago, when there were lots of young guys and girls getting to uni for the first time. My wife, being the eternal optimist matchmaker, said excitedly "I hope many of them meet, marry and make babies!" By the time we were through to the other side of the crowd, passing the guys who skip leg days, the ones with man buns, the ones who can't grow any facial hair, the ones wearing skirts and so on, her optimism turned into "Do these young guys have soy milk with their cereals daily?"
Can't always blame the chicks for the thread's topic.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - StrikeBack - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-07-2019 01:43 PM)Aurini Wrote:
Unicorn Hunting?
I've had some people misunderstand me when I've spoken about this, and think that I'm unicorn hunting: looking for that perfect catgirl/waifu who'll pat me on the head for winning a video game, and celebrate my mediocrity. That's not it at all. I'm looking for a woman who knows that she inherited Eve's sin, and does what she can to fight against it - even if she fails regularly.
I found a young virgin whom I taught about Eve's sin being in all women, taught her how to fight against it, and married her.
You are not going to find a young woman who already has those things. You are a leader, you should be the one teaching her that. Women are like water, they take the shape of the container, which will be you.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - MrLemon - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-07-2019 02:09 PM)for.petes.sake Wrote:
I would love to see a similar study done on India. India is heading towards a demographic crisis because of the huge imbalance in gender ratio.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_India
It is the first time in history we have seen a nation (including china) with so much more men than women. Sex crimes and harassment have become a common day occurrence in the daily life of an Indian. I saw a documentary on whole crisis and widened my eyes with what is going on there. The documentary even showed a 36 year old man cry because he had never had a girlfriend. I believe that in the future we will have major war just only fueled by sexual frustration. But what also intrigued me is how long this problem has has been going on for and how long it has been known by the general population. Basically the general population has known about the problems of gender selective abortion since 2001 (even the most rural areas got tallies on their medical wards to keep count of the ratio). Completely getting rid of ultrasound will not fix the problem. The documentary showed how the majority in rural areas just kill their daughter after birth because they can’t afford abortions. All this madness is done just to avoid paying dowry and raising a daughter. This info reminded me what a fellow forum member (Leonard D Neubache) said:
“A principle.
It's a foreign concept to them that a braindead, inbred literal retard from Pakistan sees no duality in stealing from others while bemoaning any theft of his own property, much the same as a dog will steal bones from other dogs and then viciously defend his own pile of bones as if he had the mandate of heaven behind him.”
Basically in India they want a son to get a dowry payment and to look after them. However if a daughter is shown on the monitor then abort it because who needs one. Never mind that life is supposed to random and for future generations we need a good ratio. But screw everyone else, I do not want to pay dowry or raise a daughter.
Also I feel like this problem is coming to the West to. I graduated from high school in Brampton in 2011 and my school was 99 percent Punjabi. We had 2 guys for every girl (I am not making this up I actually counted my yearbook). Now I have come back to Toronto from the States and I am realizing a lot of these problems and why they exist.
Honestly I have been given a better insight on even the IRT problems that persist on the forum. Basically Indian guy moves to the West and he is filled with so much sexual frustration. He has been raised by a mother who basically does everything for him and continually praises him. He watches Bollywood and learns all the beta behaviors such as completely stalking a girl. But he also watches Hollywood movies and see guys like Tom Cruise easily picking up on women on film and thinks it will be easy for him too (his mom has been calling him handsome everyday of his life). Then reality hits him in the West and he doesn’t know what else to do with his pent up frustrations. I am South Asian too so I am not trying to make a race debate but trying to delve deeper into the culture problems there. I am hoping for a major cultural shift.
When there are too many males and not enough females, biology has a simple answer: war.
Odds of a war in the next 20 years, to kill off 50-100 million surplus men? 99%
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - TigerMandingo - 04-08-2019
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - CleanSlate - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:14 PM)TigerMandingo Wrote:
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
I don't doubt that StrikeBack has a great wife, but I, too, find it hard to fathom a woman saying "did those guys have soy milk in their cereal". Unless she's been reading manosphere blogs herself.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - CynicalContrarian - 04-08-2019
Let's not forget the liability on Hellywood's part.
All those movies perpetuating exaggerated romance / romantic comedy scenarios & stereotypes.
All that bullshit, juvenile Disney princess / prince charming nonsense.
Any chick who desires some sort of Hollowood romance or Disney princess charming scenario to manifest in her real life, is kidding herself.
Real life is not a movie, real life is complicated & each chick is not a proverbial 'princess' deserving of some storybook / fairytale ending.
Yes the counter is that we as men need to grab their attention some other way & grab their attention regardless of the above.
Yet their strong underlying desire for juvenile fantasy does not help matters.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - SamuelBRoberts - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:53 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:14 PM)TigerMandingo Wrote:
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
I don't doubt that StrikeBack has a great wife, but I, too, find it hard to fathom a woman saying "did those guys have soy milk in their cereal". Unless she's been reading manosphere blogs herself.
I don't find it surprising at all, if StrikeBack uses words like that around her all the time.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - for.petes.sake - 04-08-2019
I also want to see a study on condom and contraceptive sales. I wonder how this study correlates with those sales. Funny, you would think big pharma would be actively pushing sexual activity in order to make disease spread more so that they could profit more of contraceptive sales and STD medication.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - speculator - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-08-2019 10:34 PM)SamuelBRoberts Wrote:
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:53 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:14 PM)TigerMandingo Wrote:
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
I don't doubt that StrikeBack has a great wife, but I, too, find it hard to fathom a woman saying "did those guys have soy milk in their cereal". Unless she's been reading manosphere blogs herself.
I don't find it surprising at all, if StrikeBack uses words like that around her all the time.
I introduced my 20 year old girlfriend to the word "soyboi" and now she uses it all the time to describe hipster fags. Her father learnt the word from her and now uses it for the same reason. Instead of Netflix and chilling, we watch Roosh's Youtube channel.
She is a sociology major at a liberal college in California but is supportive to the ideas we discuss here. It's not impossible to deprogram NPCs and recover their critical thinking skills.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Aurini - 04-08-2019
Quote: (04-08-2019 07:21 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:
Quote: (04-07-2019 01:43 PM)Aurini Wrote:
Unicorn Hunting?
I've had some people misunderstand me when I've spoken about this, and think that I'm unicorn hunting: looking for that perfect catgirl/waifu who'll pat me on the head for winning a video game, and celebrate my mediocrity. That's not it at all. I'm looking for a woman who knows that she inherited Eve's sin, and does what she can to fight against it - even if she fails regularly.
I found a young virgin whom I taught about Eve's sin being in all women, taught her how to fight against it, and married her.
You are not going to find a young woman who already has those things. You are a leader, you should be the one teaching her that. Women are like water, they take the shape of the container, which will be you.
1. Don't mistake the package for the contents. I once dated a virgin, who wound up wanting to 'take a break' right before she went down to burning man, along with a married couple she worked with who always had some blow for her. I told her "Why don't we just break up?"
2. The entire point of my post was that most of these women can't be led. They can be pimped - but not led. A woman who's dead-set on topping-from-the-bottom will never make a good wife.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Captainstabbin - 04-09-2019
An incel at my gym (no homo - in shape, decent looking) is IN LOVE with the cute girl working the counter. Never asked her out and never initiates any contact. I'm assuming he's paralyzed with fear of rejection.
I'd like to see a graph showing the same people not having sex and their number of approaches over the last month.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - StrikeBack - 04-09-2019
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:14 PM)TigerMandingo Wrote:
Strikeback, no offense but I doubt your wife said those things. That’s not how women talk and it sounds more like typical manosphere banter.
Quote: (04-08-2019 08:53 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:
I don't doubt that StrikeBack has a great wife, but I, too, find it hard to fathom a woman saying "did those guys have soy milk in their cereal". Unless she's been reading manosphere blogs herself.
Quote: (04-08-2019 10:34 PM)SamuelBRoberts Wrote:
I don't find it surprising at all, if StrikeBack uses words like that around her all the time.
SamuelBRoberts got it right. I say those things all the time, Mrs StrikeBack copies me. Here's another example, we ran into a friend of mine on the streets, said hello, and after that I told her it's my friend from the gym. Her words: "Oh really, he didn't look like he lifts."
That woman has A++ trash talk game, I tell you.
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Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - N°6 - 04-09-2019
Jacked Tinder Chad establishes rules for women. Scandal reaches national press:
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/datin...e-14263855
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - BlueMark - 04-09-2019
This topic brings to mind Samseau's article
Game Or Prostitution Cannot Save Western Civilization From Collapsing
Quote:Samseau Wrote:
Thus, the "game" is zero-sum. Every time one man gets some pussy, it means some other guy isn't getting pussy. And the more men learn game, the more competitive the market becomes which makes the cost to the pussy-market even higher for young-men entering the dating pool. This creates yet even more frustrated betas.
When a man scores an attractive woman, it means he beat out roughly 1-3 men who would have also banged that woman. We know there are more available men than women because a man's sexual shelf-life is longer and the obesity epidemic has shrunk the amount of fuckable women drastically.
What good is it if men are manly and can get laid, but find out their "prize" is just a ballbusting cunt who is incapable of showing love?
Meanwhile, as men improve themselves, women's expectations of their men rise accordingly. For example, there is a sterotype that American men are some of the finest husband material in the world, and it's not just because they have more money than other men. It's also because American men are forced to put up with insufferable bitches and have learned to be extremely pleasing to women in order to cope.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Fortis - 04-09-2019
Video gaming:
This is a tough one for me to fully articulate, but it boils down to what are we offering these boys that would make them not want to play games?
I don't think team sports is the answer. A lot of kids are not wired to play sports. Blah blah muh hunter-gatherers blah.
Sure, if you're a natural athlete, you can be one of the top dogs on the sports team, but who wants to be the bottom of the totem pole just by virtue of not being tall, fast or strong enough? These are the guys who end up addicted to video games, porn, and drugs.
Being forever second-string at something just feels bad.
I did competitive tae kwon do all throughout middle and high school and did the national tournament circuit for a bit of time. I know what it's like to compete and I was pretty decent at it. I loved the fuck out of it. In another lifetime I might have gone further with it, but I found that video games still won out in the end.
We can wax poetic about all the beautiful lessons we learned playing sports and competing (and I'm inclined to agree), but gaming is sort of an outgrowth of that in my eyes.
For a guy with extremely high dexterity and intelligence, you could become a musician, race car driver, pilot or something, but those jobs are often out of reach for guys with the requisite genetics until they've done years and years of schooling and then take a battery of tests and even then you may not make it. Let's not even get into the politicking that comes with it.
With gaming, it's just match-making. You win the matches, you go further and if you get really good you can compete for money. The prize pots for some local tournaments are fucking awesome now.
I know I'm a massive nerd, but aside from watching Boxing, Crossfit and UFC, the only other competition that truly engages me is watching professionals play fighting games.
What I love about gaming (in its most ideal form) is it's a type of competition where anyone can be competitive. If you're not too fast with your hands but you memorize match-ups and tactics you can hold your own at the highest levels.
If you got fast hands and you like to play risky, you can still destroy people based on your reactions and unorthodox approaches.
Something about it feels more "fair" than the real world and I can see why guys opt out of life to just game all the time.
What now?
A lot of the addicted gamer kids I meet now would have been the nerds of the past. The guys who do well in school but aren't exactly popular for it. Maybe they lack some social skills or they have weird hobbies.
The thing with that type of kid is that many of them are a lot smarter than average but they get average options thrown at them. This is why I've always been skeptical of "gifted" programs in schools. The people running them aren't gifted, otherwise, they wouldn't be running a program for gifted people.
These programs are designed by mediocrities to further accelerate smart kids down the path that mediocre kids usually take. Very compelling.
I knew many guys like this when I was growing up.
I saw this go down with my youngest sibling.
He was extremely withdrawn at the time so they ran a battery of tests of on him because they thought he had a learning disability. To the school's surprise, he was well above average for his age in all subjects and even amazing at math, but he was bored as hell.
They got him some extra help with organizational skills, but the fundamental issue is that kids like that cannot be engaged by the usual means. Left to their own devices, they find something they enjoy doing. Without guidance, that "something" is usually not anything that furthers the program.
Guys like this slip through the cracks all the time.
This isn't a problem that started 10 years ago. This problem goes back way further and it's now becoming an issue since these guys should be in the workforce but they aren't.
A lot of blame is laid at the feet of video game devs for making their products too addictive, but what does society offer to these guys that would make it worth it?
Addictive distractions have always existed: whoring, alcoholism, drugs and other things used to be practically legal but they weren't hitting such vast swathes of the population like they are now.
I'm not being pessimistic, but college is mostly a lame debt scam for a lot of guys now. Why hustle all throughout high school so you can take on your serving of McDebt?
The workforce?
Who the fuck wants to shuffle papers until they die AND do it for WAY less than your grandfather did it.
Raising a family?
Many of these kids are from broken homes. They wouldn't have a clue on how to run game, much less raise a kid and train a wife.
This isn't something that you can just solve with legislation because the guys will still be the same.
Let's say Yang Bucks becomes a thing. Some guys on the edge will probably become fruitful citizens, but many guys who are in the basement will remain there.
There needs to be a huge philosophical overhaul of the way we portray manhood or this problem will escalate.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Rorogue - 04-09-2019
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Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Days of Broken Arrows - 04-09-2019
Quote: (04-07-2019 01:43 PM)Aurini Wrote:
I've been thinking about writing the following for some weeks now, but I've been having trouble with phrasing things in a way that doesn't sound whiny. But these numbers fit with what I've been experiencing, which is the following: looks-wise, I've got nothing to complain about with the women I've been seeing. No substantial deviation from the past. But emotionally speaking, I'm blown away by the callousness and outright cruelty that's present in them. Dating used to be fun - these days it's like an extended psychological struggle, and I'm thinking of going back to celibacy because the companionship is 0, and the sex is just not worth it.
So with that said, let's dig into these numbers.
2008: 1/10 men in their twenties are incel.
This is probably the historical norm - 5-10% of men lose the genetic lottery (more variation in our sex) and a certain percentage of them simply don't deserve a woman. These are the Omegas in Sociosexual hierarchy. The basement dwelling neckbeards, who reek of desperation and video games. Nothing to see here.
2018: 3/10 men in their twenties are incel.
At first blush, these numbers might suggest that women are getting more picky - the top 20% of men are getting an increasing share of the sexual market. But I have reason to suspect that this isn't the case. 33% of those incels are the same Omegas from yesteryear - but the other 67%? Are they the 2/10 and the 3/10 guys? I'm not so sure about that. There have been some major shifts if the female population over the past decade.
1) Birth Control & Aspergers
There was a report that came out recently (points to whomever can find the thread we had on this) showing that the birth control pill causes temporary Asperger-like symptoms in women. Let's be precise in what this means: it does not mean "They turn into a geek that likes to collect comic books." It means that somebody has difficulty recognizing or understanding emotional cues, particularly the more complex ones. Women tend to get the same enjoyment out of talking that we get out of building, so aspie women aren't obviously socially dysfunctional the way aspie men are. But they are dysfunctional. Relationship-wise, they'll fail to understand what effect they're having on you with their words and actions. For instance, if they say something nasty and hurtful, the emotion displayed on your face - pain and frustration that somebody you care about is being so insulting - will be interpreted as simple anger.
How can you be around somebody who accuses you of feeling one thing, and refuses to believe otherwise? No matter what you say, her brain is telling her "Emotion Identified: Anger" and any protestations otherwise on your part will be read as manipulation.
Widespread antideperessant and antipsychotic usage likely contributes to this emotional coldness as well.
2) Cultural disrespect for men
We all see this; we all know what this is. Men are depicted as foolish, brutish, simple creatures in most media. Even 'positive' depictions of masculinity lack nuance; Rappers, Action Heroes quipping one-liners, showboating athletes. Heck, look at the bubble-gum media: Luke Skywalker encountered hard moral dilemmas, weighing his commitment to family and friends vs the Force. He was thoughtful. Is there anything remotely close to that in the new Star Wars or Marvel movies?
Masculinity has been reduced to a plastic shell. Certain women have complained in the past about the 'supermodel' culture, where a woman's worth is reduced to her bust size. Men have been similarly reduced, and this is exacerbated by the inability of women to recognize emotion, pointed out in 1).
3) Pro-woman culture
Let's just bullet-point some of the artificial advantages women have here:To sum it all up - women have been so puffed up that they act like they're goddesses. Nothing they do is wrong - cheating on their boyfriend, stealing from their employers, being overweight - all of these things are celebrated. Meanwhile, men are demonized if they don't provide the utility which women want. I forget the four-stages of rationalization that AnonymousBosch laid out, but one of them really stuck with me: "Anything I want, I deserve."
- Various incentive programs giving women an unearned advantage over men in school and the workplace,
- Women can do anything a man can do, and do it better, and men can't do what a woman can do - so what are men useful for?
- A lack of sexual shaming, enabling women to do whatever they want with their pussies - post it all over the net, use it to manipulate beta orbiters, cheat on their husbands, et cetera. "I've got the pussy, and I can do whatever I want with it!"
- A legal system which bends over backwards to protect their interests: when the courts go out of their way to punish domestic violence... let me clarify something here: domestic violence is wrong! But - sometimes it happened because the woman was using her tongue like a knife, ripping into her husband until he snapped. These days, women have no reason to hold back, and some will lay into you with impudence, while smiling because you can't do anything in return.
- General permissiveness and hedonism; widespread drug use; radical individualism which argues that nobody has any obligation to others - not to their parents, not to their friends or lovers, and not to society.
All of this taken together: the women in the west have about as much respect and love for men, as the soldiers in Ghengis Khan's horde had for women! Reciprocity is gone, amongst all but the most exceptional women; the majority feel entitled to anything and everything from the men, while any request for equal consideration is considered a vile form of "male entitlement".
Unicorn Hunting?
Who's banging these bitches?
(snip)
"To sum it all up - women have been so puffed up that they act like they're goddesses."
Here's proof of that: Women will constantly refer to themselves as "goddesses," "queens," or "princesses" and everyone cheers them on for it.
But if a man called himself a god, a king or a prince, he'd be laughed out of town, shamed on social media, or taken to a mental institution.
This says something about our culture today. And it wasn't always this way. When you read old books or watch old episodes of "Family Ties" or "The Brady Bunch," women were not referring to themselves or each other as goddesses or princesses.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Fortis - 04-09-2019
^ Funny, I actually call myself "the god-king" as a way to troll certain chicks. It goes over strangely well.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Psygnosis89 - 04-09-2019
Quote: (04-09-2019 01:44 AM)N°6 Wrote:
Jacked Tinder Chad establishes rules for women. Scandal reaches national press:
https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/datin...e-14263855
If that's jacked by modern standards, we're all in luck. (legs are decent tho)
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - JeanLucPrickhard - 04-09-2019
This link was posted earlier https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/datin...e-14263855
I don’t know what’s worse, his racist bio or that he’s wearing shoes in the shower and his pants are around his ankles in his mirror selfie.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Leonard D Neubache - 04-09-2019
Strikeback is making all the right moves with his wife but I think a bit more humility about his luck might be in order too.
"Here go I but for the grace of God" and all that.
Personally I'm understandably hesitant to attribute a lack of woman handling skills to guys like Roosh and Aurini as an explanation for a lack of wife material in their lives.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Glaucon - 04-09-2019
Quote: (04-09-2019 06:43 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:
Strikeback is making all the right moves with his wife but I think a bit more humility about his luck might be in order too.
"Here go I but for the grace of God" and all that.
Personally I'm understandably hesitant to attribute a lack of woman handling skills to guys like Roosh and Aurini as an explanation for a lack of wife material in their lives.
In my observation you need a lot of luck too.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Bananaman711 - 04-09-2019
Guy is 8-9 in his prime, top tier in looks department and he got list of 3 reasonable conditions; no women with kids, no loose slutty women and no golddgers
Now you go check out profile of some post wall out of shape woman and find she has 2 pages long list of conditions and demands very few man can pass
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - Bienvenuto - 04-09-2019
Yeah no.. one and 3 I can understand if he's trying to be edgy, some chicks dig that.
Number 2, not even 'no associating with negros' .. No THINKING about it.
The guys got issues.
Share Of American Adults Having NO Sex Reaches All-Time High - AntoniusofEfa - 04-09-2019
^The guy is probably confused, and should just date Asian women exclusively. I most open minded Chinese I know, would just not do blacks.