At lost with my natural self -
imdow123 - 05-22-2015
Since I found out about the red pill and the game, I have changed a lot physically and mentally. I was the typical nice guy before. Then after realizing the truth, I turned into an asshole or a bad boy. It worked with girls and people initially but then soon girls started labelling me as jerk and rejected me.
Now I want to change again. But this seems harder. I no longer know what is my natural behavior around girls and people in general. I can unnaturally be nice or an asshole but nothing comes natural.
How do I develop this NATURAL niceness coupled with the right amount of confidence and cockiness?
Basically my problem is that my personality no longer comes as natural to me. I hope I made sense.
At lost with my natural self -
Cr33pin - 05-22-2015
At lost with my natural self -
vinman - 05-22-2015
Quote: (05-22-2015 08:30 AM)imdow123 Wrote:
Since I found out about the red pill and the game, I have changed a lot physically and mentally. I was the typical nice guy before. Then after realizing the truth, I turned into an asshole or a bad boy. It worked with girls and people initially but then soon girls started labelling me as jerk and rejected me.
Now I want to change again. But this seems harder. I no longer know what is my natural behavior around girls and people in general. I can unnaturally be nice or an asshole but nothing comes natural.
How do I develop this NATURAL niceness coupled with the right amount of confidence and cockiness?
Basically my problem is that my personality no longer comes as natural to me. I hope I made sense.
How old are you? The reason that I ask is a lot of younger guys don't know themselves well enough.
At lost with my natural self -
WestIndianArchie - 05-22-2015
At lost with my natural self -
imdow123 - 05-22-2015
Quote: (05-22-2015 11:13 AM)vinman Wrote:
Quote: (05-22-2015 08:30 AM)imdow123 Wrote:
Since I found out about the red pill and the game, I have changed a lot physically and mentally. I was the typical nice guy before. Then after realizing the truth, I turned into an asshole or a bad boy. It worked with girls and people initially but then soon girls started labelling me as jerk and rejected me.
Now I want to change again. But this seems harder. I no longer know what is my natural behavior around girls and people in general. I can unnaturally be nice or an asshole but nothing comes natural.
How do I develop this NATURAL niceness coupled with the right amount of confidence and cockiness?
Basically my problem is that my personality no longer comes as natural to me. I hope I made sense.
How old are you? The reason that I ask is a lot of younger guys don't know themselves well enough.
I am 20.