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Older Guys (40+) - Kid Twist - 08-19-2016
Quote: (08-19-2016 11:58 AM)Dirty Dan Wrote:
This guy is in his 50s
https://www.instagram.com/gianlucavacchi/?hl=en
That guys tattoos look retarded. He might as well put them on his face, his face looks out of place, what an idiot
No, I'm not hating. Funny that the hamsters love this though
Older Guys (40+) - Dirty Dan - 08-19-2016
I am not an expert on tattoos. To be honest I don't really care much about them. But that is besides the point and cannot fathom as to why you would point that out before anything else.
He has 3.8 million followers on Instagram and is banging a 26 year old supermodel at the age of 50 and has the potential to bang many more.
He is fit and has a sense of style that the ladies admire (even though it's a bit too much for me). Finally, he is a multi-millionaire.
To me all these are commendable achievements and I would aspire to be at that level one day.
So, even though you may write "I'm not hating" that's the only thing that makes sense to me. Or you are fat old feminist who had managed to infiltrate this forum.
Older Guys (40+) - Travesty - 08-19-2016
Quote: (08-19-2016 11:58 AM)Dirty Dan Wrote:
This guy is in his 50s
https://www.instagram.com/gianlucavacchi/?hl=en
This is universally what I see in older guys that seem to be doing great:
1) If your hair goes gray don't do a weird dye job. When your hair greys it gets bushier. Just make sure it is short. Long grey hair makes you look like father time.
2) Past a certain age it is almost always better to have a short well trimmed beard to give you some ruggedness and hide the aging leanness in your face.
3) Being artistic and eccentric will open many more pussy doors to younger girls than being a distinguished guy.
This guy is incredible shape and has a colorful eccentric style. Very commendable.
I can see why he would have haters.
Truth is the better shape, better skin care, more tan you can be way more eccentric on the border line of gay (as far as loud style) and if you have Game younger girls eat it up because you such a wild rarity.
Even better if you have the fighting background and ego to give off the vibe like you could kick anyone's ass on top of it.
I give him an A+. He looks like he is having the time of his life.
Older Guys (40+) - JayJuanGee - 08-19-2016
Quote: (08-19-2016 05:59 PM)Dirty Dan Wrote:
I am not an expert on tattoos. To be honest I don't really care much about them. But that is besides the point and cannot fathom as to why you would point that out before anything else.
He has 3.8 million followers on Instagram and is banging a 26 year old supermodel at the age of 50 and has the potential to bang many more.
He is fit and has a sense of style that the ladies admire (even though it's a bit too much for me). Finally, he is a multi-millionaire.
To me all these are commendable achievements and I would aspire to be at that level one day.
So, even though you may write "I'm not hating" that's the only thing that makes sense to me. Or you are fat old feminist who had managed to infiltrate this forum.
Even though I would have phrased it a bit differently, you are kind of saying what I was thinking Dirty D....
If a guy stays in shape and has a decent amount of cash flow into his older age, then he is going to have decent chances to play the field. The tats are neither here nor there, and surely could cause a bit of an affect on the kinds of chicks that he may end up with - though tats are kind of in these days, and they surely look a lot better on a guy who is in good shape, rather than a guy who has allowed himself to deteriorate too much, whether that is physically or how he presents himself in terms of fashion.
Older Guys (40+) - Kid Twist - 08-20-2016
^ Hardly, DDan.
Jay is right, too. Admittedly, the guy is in good shape. He's a millionaire and obviously is fit, which he should be because he's smart. I just detest tattoos, especially from a person who wears nice clothes like that (I'll give it to him, he should and does have great suits).
I get why he has IG, but why would a given guy follow him. You don't know the guy from Adam, you're doing him a favor extending his brand, and you're making yourself a mini-cuck. Odd.
Older Guys (40+) - Vaun - 08-20-2016
Quote: (08-19-2016 01:28 PM)Dantes Wrote:
As we older guys know, there is no better feeling than sex with a younger girl. I was with a cute, sweet 19 year old a few days ago and I am still feeling the high. I would rather jump through hoops with the prospect of this experience than an easier conquest with a woman closer to my age, any day. The dividends are so much more rewarding.
You the man Dantes!
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Still going through this break up. I tried to go back with her, stupidly enough. Failed miserably, its over now for good. Getting back into developing myself; work, meditation, friends/family, reading, exercise, etc. Something good happened the other day that gave me hope. I pulled a 20 yr old off the street into my place in the same day. The stars literally aligned, on a weekday/workday for that matter. No sex, but close, and even though its been over a year since I did this, it was a major ego boost, and I remembered how fun life actually is.
App and Tinder dating now, but it sucks, most of the women I would never approach in real life. Time to go back to what works.
The Italian guy is exactly what I want my life to be in 10 years.
Older Guys (40+) - jimukr104 - 08-20-2016
lso know a 50-ish guy who regularly dates 20-something girls. Then again, this second guy *is* somewhat filthy rich (I'm guessing $5-10M net worth), and something of a player. He likes to take them out on his boat to get trashed, or up on his airplane so he can renew his membership in the mile-high club...
That isn't close to being filthy rich. Heck I got close to 2.5 and I goota count pennies. You have to remember people with that type of asset tend to live in areas where there home cost atleast 1 million. So that would leave 4 million left.
4 million is 40 yrs of 100k...not rich. The type of rich that gets girls because of wealth is in the 30 million plus range. This range means expensive car and maybe a boat and lots of cash o spend.
You need much more than that if you will have a large yacht or/and private plane. Throw in a mansion and you need atleast 75 million.
Older Guys (40+) - malkolinge1971 - 08-20-2016
Hey I am in my mid 40s. I am in great shape and just reinvent my life. I came across game at the same time guys like Roosh were getting into it but gave up around 2008 to go to med school. Now I have an exciting job but my game is rusty like hell. I have to try harder to get beautiful women but I still can pull it off. I am a minority with an accent but I don't let that hold me back. Guess what I admire old dude who still have moves on the dance floor. We call them creppy, but they are having the best time of their lives. It's only in the US there is an age limit for the club
Older Guys (40+) - iknowexactly - 08-20-2016
Quote: (08-06-2016 06:30 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (08-05-2016 03:23 AM)georgieporgie Wrote:
I also noticed that I get venomous looks from older women when I have a girl on my arm.
One of the subtle pleasures of the game.
WIA
There is no success in life without being hated.
Older Guys (40+) - iknowexactly - 08-20-2016
Quote: (07-29-2016 04:46 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:^Great.
Quote: (07-29-2016 02:06 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:
I'm trying to text game a youngster. ...
I simply ask them out for drinks. If they don't drink, ice cream/coffee.
1 of 3 things will happen:
1) She says yes.
2) She ghosts. Bye forever princess.
3) She disappears for a few days/weeks, can't stop thinking about you and says yes later. Or she finally dumped the guy she was thinking about dumping. Or she got ghosted too.
Give them the gift of missing you.
Maybe add one of Roosh's best dictums: "All game is numbers game."
You MUST be ready to lose out on her by testing her--and quickly.
"Difficult women remain difficult." (Paul Janka) It's easier to find a new one who hasn't expressed disinterest, converting one who isn't genetically predisposed to fuck you can be an exercise in futility.
Older Guys (40+) - Dirty Dan - 08-21-2016
Kid twist, makes complete sense. Good post.
Older Guys (40+) - iRONIN - 08-21-2016
Quote: (08-01-2016 06:01 PM)doc holliday Wrote:
I really felt terrible for the dude though. So many of these younger dudes are getting cucked big time. Can some of you guys enlighten me as to what's going on?
1/3 of Millenials Living at Home
Living at home until the age of 30 has a negative impact on emotional and social growth for both men an women. The men are used to being cucked by their mothers, and girls learning dominant traits from a single mom household. This has turned the dating pool upside down. In the last 1.5 years, I've been hit on more by married women, with husband present, than ever before. All these men have a few things in common.
1. Lived at home too long.
2. Useless education.
3. Don't workout.
4. Work from home (IT, small online business, writer, journalist).
5. Developed unhealthy sexual fetishes from watching too much porn.
6. Still spending 4+ hours a day playing video games.
7. Mommy issues or general resentment towards women.
None of these couples have children. I believe the wife married for stability and is holding off on procreation until she finds better breeding stock. None of this is right or healthy, and I get uncomfortable being hit on by married women.
I'm finding girls <30 are having less sex due to lack of options in their age group. They hold off on sex until sexual frustration peaks, and settles for a 'fuck boi'. I hate that term and puts up a big red flag with girls that use it. Be careful. They tend to be past the point of jaded.
The most frustrated female demographic now is 28-32. They mapped out a plan early to finish college, start a career, get financially stability, and start looking for a soulmate around 25-26. The problem is they are still looking, and it is having a bad impact on their emotional state. Why? I think naturally they look for men in our age bracket, and we're too busy chasing 21 y.o. girls, because now they are still available. The older girls give dirty looks, but several times this year, other younger girls approach mine and want to know, "what is your secret", or "where did you find him?" Strange times we live in.
These are few observations and experiences I've had, but haven't really thought about the why's. Lately though, due to some intense meeting in the Fortune 500 concerning the Millennials lack of resiliency in the workplace, I'm curious as to how it affects personal interactions and how to remedy. The U.S. is facing a big management shortage, and companies are having to get creative to fill the gap. This is bad in the long run, but great for our generation, as it means job security. It will be a long time before they put us out to pasture.
Older Guys (40+) - Vaun - 08-21-2016
41 year old musings; I gave up all of my game abilities in an LTR this year. Not sure why, but I have to fix it, and never let it happen again. I think I got lazy, and listened to bad advice. Never again. Goals for the next year set and ready to go. I'm chasing money. The ideal is that one day, when I am totally ready, I will wife up and be 100% rock solid on my game. But who knows, all I know is that I am not ready now.
When I tell people how much I date, they freak out and think its a lot. Its a fun distraction, I dont agree with them. I text with a lot, with a lot of girls. This week I went on 6 dates, two ended up at my place, one bang. $100 total spent for the week. If anything its a huge ego boost, it makes me feel like a man. Last night, 13 years my junior Colombian 7 from Tinder. Not ideal, but good enough to make me feel good today. I feel like talking about it with close "normal" friends is a mistake. It just rubs it in their faces.
You do what you have to do to survive and feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with my lifestyle, I know that now. Part of me says I should take a break, but why? Im not spending money, Im partying and having fun with girls 20 years my junior, and I am taking care of my life in all other areas. If anything the older I get the more unapologetic I am. I care less and less what people think of me.
Older Guys (40+) - sportbilly - 08-21-2016
the last sentence above sums it up.for me too.
Older Guys (40+) - Dantes - 08-22-2016
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:16 AM)Vaun Wrote:
41 year old musings; I gave up all of my game abilities in an LTR this year. Not sure why, but I have to fix it, and never let it happen again. I think I got lazy, and listened to bad advice. Never again. Goals for the next year set and ready to go. I'm chasing money. The ideal is that one day, when I am totally ready, I will wife up and be 100% rock solid on my game. But who knows, all I know is that I am not ready now.
When I tell people how much I date, they freak out and think its a lot. Its a fun distraction, I dont agree with them. I text with a lot, with a lot of girls. This week I went on 6 dates, two ended up at my place, one bang. $100 total spent for the week. If anything its a huge ego boost, it makes me feel like a man. Last night, 13 years my junior Colombian 7 from Tinder. Not ideal, but good enough to make me feel good today. I feel like talking about it with close "normal" friends is a mistake. It just rubs it in their faces.
You do what you have to do to survive and feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with my lifestyle, I know that now. Part of me says I should take a break, but why? Im not spending money, Im partying and having fun with girls 20 years my junior, and I am taking care of my life in all other areas. If anything the older I get the more unapologetic I am. I care less and less what people think of me.
I applaud your honesty and introspection. Breaks are necessary and well served when it is on your own terms and not to please others.
I return home from an extended stay in Europe soon. I plan to seriously develop some long term financial plans. My goal is to be retire at 50.
Older Guys (40+) - tupolev35 - 08-22-2016
40 plus forum for a growing demographic...i want in too
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Older Guys (40+) - Kid Twist - 08-23-2016
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:00 AM)iRONIN Wrote:
Quote: (08-01-2016 06:01 PM)doc holliday Wrote:
I really felt terrible for the dude though. So many of these younger dudes are getting cucked big time. Can some of you guys enlighten me as to what's going on?
1/3 of Millenials Living at Home
Living at home until the age of 30 has a negative impact on emotional and social growth for both men an women. The men are used to being cucked by their mothers, and girls learning dominant traits from a single mom household. This has turned the dating pool upside down. In the last 1.5 years, I've been hit on more by married women, with husband present, than ever before. All these men have a few things in common.
1. Lived at home too long.
2. Useless education.
3. Don't workout.
4. Work from home (IT, small online business, writer, journalist).
5. Developed unhealthy sexual fetishes from watching too much porn.
6. Still spending 4+ hours a day playing video games.
7. Mommy issues or general resentment towards women.
None of these couples have children. I believe the wife married for stability and is holding off on procreation until she finds better breeding stock. None of this is right or healthy, and I get uncomfortable being hit on by married women.
I'm finding girls <30 are having less sex due to lack of options in their age group. They hold off on sex until sexual frustration peaks, and settles for a 'fuck boi'. I hate that term and puts up a big red flag with girls that use it. Be careful. They tend to be past the point of jaded.
The most frustrated female demographic now is 28-32. They mapped out a plan early to finish college, start a career, get financially stability, and start looking for a soulmate around 25-26. The problem is they are still looking, and it is having a bad impact on their emotional state. Why? I think naturally they look for men in our age bracket, and we're too busy chasing 21 y.o. girls, because now they are still available. The older girls give dirty looks, but several times this year, other younger girls approach mine and want to know, "what is your secret", or "where did you find him?" Strange times we live in.
These are few observations and experiences I've had, but haven't really thought about the why's. Lately though, due to some intense meeting in the Fortune 500 concerning the Millennials lack of resiliency in the workplace, I'm curious as to how it affects personal interactions and how to remedy. The U.S. is facing a big management shortage, and companies are having to get creative to fill the gap. This is bad in the long run, but great for our generation, as it means job security. It will be a long time before they put us out to pasture.
A few things:
What do you mean "cucked" by your own mother?
Your 1-7 is pretty good, is the resentment because of 5 which makes them think it'll just fall into their lap?
Do you think 28-32 suffers from wanting to be with guys closer to their age (which you point out probably want 21 year olds) and the fact that they overestimate their value? I have a sister who for a long time probably considered 40 old, as far as I can tell, but as she got closer and closer to it, finally realized how stupid it was chasing the alpha or xyz, whatever you want to call him, who didn't [really] care about her.
Finally, in what way are you linking the management shortage the so-called millenials?
I don't like group and media terms like "millenial", but will agree to use it somewhat for generalizations or simplicity. I also don't like blaming them, they are just products of another spoiled generation; they just are what they are. I'm not making excuses for them.
It sounds like the next 10 years of my life are going to be fun (I'm not yet 40), LOL
As an aside, I love [tongue/cheek] the whole idea of "settle" down from others, or the suggestion that you should be married given how difficult it was to get to the status of "made man" as I like to call it. How much more of an idiot could you be to fall into that paradigm. But the people that usually suggest it are people from other countries who have classic, traditional and feminine women, OR guys who grew up here in the US when the women were fine, chaste, and sweet. Now they are masculine, demanding and incorrigible, on average. No thanks.
Older Guys (40+) - robreke - 08-23-2016
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:16 AM)Vaun Wrote:
I feel like talking about it with close "normal" friends is a mistake. It just rubs it in their faces.
When I first started banging young women on the regular, I'd tell a few friends my age and even occasionally send pics. I think we do these things for ego.
Recently, when talking to one of my best 'normal' friends my age, he asked how old this girl was I told him I'd recently banged. She is actually 19 but I told him 20 because, I didn't want to 'rub his nose in it' to much or whatever reason. One year, yeah dumb I know.
When I told him she was 20, he scratched his face and made a weird expression that said "Jesus, that's outrageous." His son, whom I've known since he was a small child, is older than that. I'm sure it makes him at least a tad jealous and makes him dislike his sex life even more as he's married to a woman his age who has ballooned up in recent years and whom he always gripes about.
I'm no longer going to tell this friend about any of my young woman conquests though they continue with regularity. I don't want him to come to resent me or feel like I am, in any way, rubbing his nose in it. No more kissing and telling.
Older Guys (40+) - DonnyGately - 08-23-2016
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:16 AM)Vaun Wrote:
41 year old musings; I gave up all of my game abilities in an LTR this year. Not sure why, but I have to fix it, and never let it happen again. I think I got lazy, and listened to bad advice. Never again. Goals for the next year set and ready to go. I'm chasing money. The ideal is that one day, when I am totally ready, I will wife up and be 100% rock solid on my game. But who knows, all I know is that I am not ready now.
When I tell people how much I date, they freak out and think its a lot. Its a fun distraction, I dont agree with them. I text with a lot, with a lot of girls. This week I went on 6 dates, two ended up at my place, one bang. $100 total spent for the week. If anything its a huge ego boost, it makes me feel like a man. Last night, 13 years my junior Colombian 7 from Tinder. Not ideal, but good enough to make me feel good today. I feel like talking about it with close "normal" friends is a mistake. It just rubs it in their faces.
You do what you have to do to survive and feel good about yourself. There is nothing wrong with my lifestyle, I know that now. Part of me says I should take a break, but why? Im not spending money, Im partying and having fun with girls 20 years my junior, and I am taking care of my life in all other areas. If anything the older I get the more unapologetic I am. I care less and less what people think of me.
Glad to hear it, that's the way to do it! Spend whatever you want to spend, as long as you got your money right.
It is such an ego boost, I agree.
I was meeting a plate when I was out of town, so talking to this college kid and his dad at the airport, a fun convo. They asked where/why I was flying and I told them to meet my 19-yr old gf.
The college kid just stared at me and said, 'My girlfriend is older than that!'
I busted out laughing. So did the dad.
Older Guys (40+) - MOVSM - 08-25-2016
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:16 AM)Vaun Wrote:
41 year old musings; ... I care less and less what people think of me.
That's true, and my 40yo self agrees with the sentiment. I just made my year-long girlfriend break up with me recently and I'm looking to get back into the game as well.
But I do have a question--I remember Alpha Game say something to the account of that whoring around is empty and only fulfillment is long term with a good woman.
Ever since I turned 30, marriage came up in my thoughts with increasing regularity, both before and after I discovered Game. Never enough to actually propose, and I remain never married with no kids, but the thought is there. I come from the old world where marriage is expected, but I grew up in US, with highly cynical view of it.
The question--how do you reconcile single life and marriage? Do you ever consider it? Is it ever in the plans, future? Maybe, never?
I am aware of most forum members' negative view of it, but I'm interested in the views of the 40+ demographic.
As Scott Adams says, none of us are rational creatures.
Older Guys (40+) - rudebwoy - 08-25-2016
Quote: (08-25-2016 06:52 PM)MOVSM Wrote:
Quote: (08-21-2016 11:16 AM)Vaun Wrote:
41 year old musings; ... I care less and less what people think of me.
That's true, and my 40yo self agrees with the sentiment. I just made my year-long girlfriend break up with me recently and I'm looking to get back into the game as well.
But I do have a question--I remember Alpha Game say something to the account of that whoring around is empty and only fulfillment is long term with a good woman.
Ever since I turned 30, marriage came up in my thoughts with increasing regularity, both before and after I discovered Game. Never enough to actually propose, and I remain never married with no kids, but the thought is there. I come from the old world where marriage is expected, but I grew up in US, with highly cynical view of it.
The question--how do you reconcile single life and marriage? Do you ever consider it? Is it ever in the plans, future? Maybe, never?
I am aware of most forum members' negative view of it, but I'm interested in the views of the 40+ demographic.
As Scott Adams says, none of us are rational creatures.
As a guy looking closely at a half century, I can say that since I have hit my 40s I have cared less for notches and more about being around a good woman.
I dated two good women in my early 40s, they were European of course and I was living that side at the time.
I will say they were attractive but not models or anything, they both took care of themselves and had no qualms about taking care of me.
Being in their early 30s they were not demanding, the only thing they talked about was having children. It ultimately was the thing that made me let them go, sometimes I wonder if I was a fool for not impregnating one of them.
I meet a lot of girls, I tend to be very social when I go out. Social in a way that doesn't come across like I am trying to hit on everything that moves. I try to establish eye contact and make casual conversation whenever possible, like Gio says I have to stay game ready.
I would like to meet another good women, I think it is the hardest part of the game. Sure, there are a lot of nice looking girls around but most are empty.
The girl has to be down to earth, if she isn't then there is no point going any further. Most are shallow, which seems to be standard issue when you live in the west.
On a side note - I met a 89 year old man the other day. The guy was in great shape and I thought he was in his 60s. I asked him what his secret was, he said he never drinks, doesn't smoke or eat red meat. He eats chicken and fish, walks daily and tries to live a healthy life.
I am seriously thinking of giving up Alcohol, this might be a very hard for me to do. The others I can take it or leave it.
Older Guys (40+) - Vaun - 08-25-2016
Quote: (08-25-2016 07:51 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
As a guy looking closely at a half century, I can say that since I have hit my 40s I have cared less for notches and more about being around a good woman.
I dated two good women in my early 40s, they were European of course and I was living that side at the time. I will say they were attractive but not models or anything, they both took care of themselves and had no qualms about taking care of me.
Being in their early 30s they were not demanding, the only thing they talked about was having children. It ultimately was the thing that made me let them go, sometimes I wonder if I was a fool for not impregnating one of them.
I have recently came to this conclusion. I became a man whore after my divorce, and I scored a lot of notches. I have recently taken myself out of the game, where I was constantly dating for the ego boost, constant texting, dates, etc, distracted from my life. Now I am focused on the highest quality women, and focused on practicing the tightest game. Also in taking care of myself with meditation, and a much higher focus on my money and health. Its a reinvention phase for me now.
Game has to be a high priority for the older player. Its not as discussed in this thread as it should be. Its easier to let go and get yourself burned, its like a constant vigilance and fact of life. Without game, you can look pathetic as an older guy gaming and banging much younger women, showing simp behavior.
I've also been down the road with Euro's this age recently. The Euro girls are all feminine and fun, but when the rubber meets the marriage road, they all are the same, on every corner of the globe. Lose your game, and you're done.
Quote: (08-25-2016 07:51 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
I am seriously thinking of giving up Alcohol, this might be a very hard for me to do. The others I can take it or leave it.
I know way too many pot bellied older single dudes. Drinking is what does it. Funny enough I only drink for work, or dates.
Older Guys (40+) - MOVSM - 08-25-2016
Quote: (08-25-2016 07:51 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
As a guy looking closely at a half century, I can say that since I have hit my 40s I have cared less for notches and more about being around a good woman.
I dated two good women in my early 40s, they were European of course and I was living that side at the time. I will say they were attractive but not models or anything, they both took care of themselves and had no qualms about taking care of me.
Being in their early 30s they were not demanding, the only thing they talked about was having children. It ultimately was the thing that made me let them go, sometimes I wonder if I was a fool for not impregnating one of them.
I came close to this with that last ex. It did affect me powerfully--when she broke up with me, she cried like the old world girls used to, like in the 50s movies. Swore her love for me up and down. I've never experienced anything like it before.
Quote: (08-25-2016 08:51 PM)Vaun Wrote:
I have recently came to this conclusion. ...
Game has to be a high priority for the older player. Its not as discussed in this thread as it should be. Its easier to let go and get yourself burned, its like a constant vigilance and fact of life. Without game, you can look pathetic as an older guy gaming and banging much younger women, showing simp behavior.
I've also been down the road with Euro's this age recently. The Euro girls are all feminine and fun, but when the rubber meets the marriage road, they all are the same, on every corner of the globe. Lose your game, and you're done.
Yeah... I only learned a small amount of game to land me a better model than an average american.
It seems the only way to learn game properly is to whore around. Is it?
Quote: (08-25-2016 07:51 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
I am seriously thinking of giving up Alcohol, this might be a very hard for me to do. The others I can take it or leave it.
I know way too many pot bellied older single dudes. Drinking is what does it.
Steel your resolve, man!
Beer and cocktails is what does it, because of sugar in it. Whiskey and dry wine do not. I gave up beer though I love it, but now I can't imagine having a steak without a glass of red. Every now and then I'll have whiskey for dessert, usually skyping with my parents.
Older Guys (40+) - rudebwoy - 08-25-2016
[quote] (08-25-2016 08:51 PM)Vaun Wrote:
I have recently came to this conclusion. I became a man whore after my divorce, and I scored a lot of notches. I have recently taken myself out of the game, where I was constantly dating for the ego boost, constant texting, dates, etc, distracted from my life. Now I am focused on the highest quality women, and focused on practicing the tightest game. Also in taking care of myself with meditation, and a much higher focus on my money and health. Its a reinvention phase for me now.
Game has to be a high priority for the older player. Its not as discussed in this thread as it should be. Its easier to let go and get yourself burned, its like a constant vigilance and fact of life. Without game, you can look pathetic as an older guy gaming and banging much younger women, showing simp behavior.
I've also been down the road with Euro's this age recently. The Euro girls are all feminine and fun, but when the rubber meets the marriage road, they all are the same, on every corner of the globe. Lose your game, and you're done.
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Vaun - Well said my friend.
I know a few girls in their late 30s, they look decent physically but other than a good roll in the hay there is nothing much more they can offer me.
I know a girl of the highest quality, she is a princess. I am now going through a long drawn out process of showing her I don't give a shit. She told my friend that I am high maintenance, the nerve.
The part about Euros, is so on the money. One of the girls I mentioned before could not take pressure, when she lost her job she cried like it was the end of the world. That was a deal breaker for me, although I strongly encourage any man to spend 6 months out of the west and experience real women. It worked wonders for me and I truly don't give two fucks now.
The real test of a women, is how she acts when things go bad.
How long will she stick around?
Sure, when things are rosy and I am acting like I got my stuff in order. Women will pop out of the ground and be available.
Older Guys (40+) - Vaun - 08-26-2016
Quote: (08-25-2016 09:55 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
The part about Euros, is so on the money. One of the girls I mentioned before could not take pressure, when she lost her job she cried like it was the end of the world. That was a deal breaker for me, although I strongly encourage any man to spend 6 months out of the west and experience real women. It worked wonders for me and I truly don't give two fucks now.
In large part, as was likely the case for me, it was one of the first times I had experienced a truly feminine woman. I am sure a lot of our friends from these parts will disagree, but the degree of femininity is much higher here, or what I would call more traditional. Even though it drove my rational brain nuts, I really enjoyed it. Girls like this absolutely crave good game and good sex, especially from an older man. Having strong game at 40+ toward the mid-late 20's - early 30's set, is what levels the playing field. Simp it up and lose your time, money and sanity.