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relationship game for a newb - blackglasses - 10-22-2012

so i'm in college(sophomore and i'm really considering going into a ltr with this girl. The problem is what to do with my off campus fuck buddy. I understand the general consensus that you should not appear needy but I am at odds. On one side I feel that having a girl on the side will change my behavior and sabotage the relation. On the other I do not want her to have the upper hand. Would like advice from someone in a similar scenario.

relationship game for a newb - TXH - 10-22-2012

It's your life. What are your priorities? You have three options (stay single, faithful LTR, cheating LTR) and I could think of ten reasons for each one. What kind of a guy do you want to be?

The bad news is, it's clear you need more experience. The good news is, as long as you choose something actively, you're going to get it.

relationship game for a newb - Snowflake - 10-22-2012

keep both around, more options= more power

relationship game for a newb - Parlay44 - 10-22-2012

You need to resolve your inner conflict. You need to get this girl in line with you having female "friends".
It the same shit they pull. They'll introduce you to 10 different guys at a party without telling you that they've
slept with them. Do you think their conscience bothers them? I doubt it. This is the point where you cross the line
between frustrated beta and player. Swallow the red pill my friend.

relationship game for a newb - rationalize_this - 10-22-2012

Parlay is right ^^^. Ironic your name, perhaps your glasses are too tinted to see whats right in front of you? You will look back at this time after you graduate and say "What was I thinking getting into a committed LTR in college!!! I missed out on so much pussy and great experiences!". Don't be that guy my friend.

relationship game for a newb - WesternCancer - 10-22-2012

Just keep your fuck buddy. Do you plan on marrying this chick? I'm assuming no, if so there are no consequences to being 'unfaithful'. Its great to have chicks on the side. You get sick of your main, shes putting up an attitude, you feel yourself slipping to beta? Fuck a girl and it all goes away, you realize that if you lose your main you'll only be slightly inconvenienced. it'll take a bit of work, but you'll replace her with someone better within the month.

relationship game for a newb - BIGINJAPAN - 10-22-2012

Why don't you keep both girls as fuck buddies and no LTR ?

Trust me, in 10 years you will be thanking yourself.

relationship game for a newb - blackglasses - 10-22-2012

Quote: (10-22-2012 12:38 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:  

Why don't you keep both girls as fuck buddies and no LTR ?

Trust me, in 10 years you will be thanking yourself.

The current fuck buddy is useless for anything else. but I actually enjoy spending time with the other outside of the bedroom. The veterans on here might be right about keeping many options to avoid neediness.

relationship game for a newb - blackglasses - 10-22-2012

Quote: (10-22-2012 10:18 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

It the same shit they pull. They'll introduce you to 10 different guys at a party without telling you that they've
slept with them.

^this actually happened to me in high school but i was too naive to realize it.

relationship game for a newb - Parlay44 - 10-22-2012

Quote: (10-22-2012 08:44 PM)blackglasses Wrote:  

Quote: (10-22-2012 10:18 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

It the same shit they pull. They'll introduce you to 10 different guys at a party without telling you that they've
slept with them.

^this actually happened to me in high school but i was too naive to realize it.

It's funny when you're on the other side of it. I tend to end up "friends" with the girls I bang. I don't do friendships with girls I haven't slept with. I keep them on the aquantence level. I also don't do friendships with girls after we've dated and done the bf/gf relationship thing. It never works for me. Too many mixed emotions. It takes me a while to sort it out after a break up. I'm working on it.

Anyway back to my point ...being friends with fuckbuddies is interesting because you're on the other side of the relationship fence. Women open up to you and reveal their true nature because they start to trust you. Like friendship trust not boyfriend trust. The difference is you'll get party invites and they introduce the new boyfriend to you and play it off like you're some beta orbiter. That's fine though cause it diverts attention. That's how they work. Plus she'll be riding your cock next time they fight or break up. Just don't end up in the emotional tampon trap. It's ok if she wants to come crying to you over some guy but if she ain't throwing no pussy your way you need to cut her loose. That's how you handle these girls.

relationship game for a newb - cat_a_clysm - 10-22-2012

Those of you saying keep the fuck buddy (which I agree is the right choice) should he tell the fuck buddy he's getting the girlfriend? If so, how?

relationship game for a newb - Samseau - 10-23-2012

Quote: (10-22-2012 10:34 PM)cat_a_clysm Wrote:  

Those of you saying keep the fuck buddy (which I agree is the right choice) should he tell the fuck buddy he's getting the girlfriend? If so, how?

Nope

Don't say a thing


Fuck and remain silient

relationship game for a newb - blackglasses - 10-23-2012

update: fuck buddy flaked tonight with a bs doctors appointment at fucking 9 pm.