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10-22-2012, 06:23 AM
so i'm in college(sophomore and i'm really considering going into a ltr with this girl. The problem is what to do with my off campus fuck buddy. I understand the general consensus that you should not appear needy but I am at odds. On one side I feel that having a girl on the side will change my behavior and sabotage the relation. On the other I do not want her to have the upper hand. Would like advice from someone in a similar scenario.
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10-22-2012, 08:03 AM
It's your life. What are your priorities? You have three options (stay single, faithful LTR, cheating LTR) and I could think of ten reasons for each one. What kind of a guy do you want to be?
The bad news is, it's clear you need more experience. The good news is, as long as you choose something actively, you're going to get it.
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10-22-2012, 08:38 AM
keep both around, more options= more power
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10-22-2012, 10:18 AM
You need to resolve your inner conflict. You need to get this girl in line with you having female "friends".
It the same shit they pull. They'll introduce you to 10 different guys at a party without telling you that they've
slept with them. Do you think their conscience bothers them? I doubt it. This is the point where you cross the line
between frustrated beta and player. Swallow the red pill my friend.
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10-22-2012, 11:18 AM
Parlay is right ^^^. Ironic your name, perhaps your glasses are too tinted to see whats right in front of you? You will look back at this time after you graduate and say "What was I thinking getting into a committed LTR in college!!! I missed out on so much pussy and great experiences!". Don't be that guy my friend.
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10-22-2012, 12:27 PM
Just keep your fuck buddy. Do you plan on marrying this chick? I'm assuming no, if so there are no consequences to being 'unfaithful'. Its great to have chicks on the side. You get sick of your main, shes putting up an attitude, you feel yourself slipping to beta? Fuck a girl and it all goes away, you realize that if you lose your main you'll only be slightly inconvenienced. it'll take a bit of work, but you'll replace her with someone better within the month.
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10-22-2012, 12:38 PM
Why don't you keep both girls as fuck buddies and no LTR ?
Trust me, in 10 years you will be thanking yourself.
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10-22-2012, 08:42 PM
Quote: (10-22-2012 12:38 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:
Why don't you keep both girls as fuck buddies and no LTR ?
Trust me, in 10 years you will be thanking yourself.
The current fuck buddy is useless for anything else. but I actually enjoy spending time with the other outside of the bedroom. The veterans on here might be right about keeping many options to avoid neediness.
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10-22-2012, 08:44 PM
Quote: (10-22-2012 10:18 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:
It the same shit they pull. They'll introduce you to 10 different guys at a party without telling you that they've
slept with them.
^this actually happened to me in high school but i was too naive to realize it.
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10-22-2012, 10:34 PM
Those of you saying keep the fuck buddy (which I agree is the right choice) should he tell the fuck buddy he's getting the girlfriend? If so, how?
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10-23-2012, 10:12 PM
update: fuck buddy flaked tonight with a bs doctors appointment at fucking 9 pm.
Said she only fucked like 4 or 5 niggas so you know you gotta multiply by three