[InternationPlayboy]

(04-09-2013 06:36 AM)scotian Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 05:28 AM)InternationPlayboy Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 03:56 AM)scotian Wrote:  

(04-09-2013 02:52 AM)InternationPlayboy Wrote:  

Yeah, the locals are big into prostitution there and Brazil. I would imagine P4P would be a much better bet in Colombia, unless you are really into Asian girls. The quality must be better in Colombia, right?

I find Asian strip clubs to be quite boring, unless you go to one of the freaky ones in Thailand where the girls shoot bananas out of their beavers and do other crazy shit like pull razors out and blow out candles with their snatches. I almost got scammed at one of those clubs in BKK as well (my three beers @ 100B/beer suddenly turned into a 4000B tab). However, I did have a pretty good time at Spanky's in BKK whipping girls asses with a styrofoam tube.

The Colombian strip clubs are less freaky but still pretty wild, at some of them they will get random guys out of the audience and blow them and fuck them infront of the entire crowd, not only is this free for the guy, but they give him a pint of rum for participating. Also, as I mentioned before, people openly doing blow in the strip clubs, you can order it right from the waiter and he'll bring you a bag or vial to your table and you can just chop up lines in the open, no problem. I always went with locals and never had a problem getting ripped off or scammed.

Another thing, the Colombian strip clubs are a lot more dangerous as you can probably imagine. Not so much inside the club, although you have a bunch of drunk dudes wacked out on booger sugar, once you step outside the club at Sante Fe or Centro Medellin at 2am, you're basically in a war zone.

So, to me they're both fun, I'm just more attracted to Colombian women (Latina and Afro-Colombian) shaking their big fat asses on stage than the thinner Thai women, different strokes for different folks I guess!

Wow, the Colombian strip clubs sound like a blast. You're kind of making me wish I would have stopped by one for a visit. But I could imagine centro being pretty seedy and night, as even in the day it doesn't even seem that safe in certain parts. Sound info, I'll have to check it out next time.

Just don't go there alone man, I can't emphasize how rough it is in Sante Fe, if you need a local to go with just PM and I can link you up with some of my Colombian American friends who live in Bogota.

Cool, thanks for looking out. I wouldn't plan on going alone. I know these places can be pretty dangerous.

[latinlover]

I have never ever had any issues with the colour of my skin anytime in my life, but after landing in Colombia, I have never been more greatful of Madre's decision to hook up with Padre.

Honestly, the number of times I have to explain and apologise for the behaviour of the "perro blancos" to the Colombiana's, it's untrue

Seriously , Colombia just seems to attract the worst of of society, the dredges.

What really riles is that Colombians go out their way to be friendly and welcoming, to present their best side after violence and problems of the past. To be rewarded by dirty coke snorting p4p guys.

And you wonder why the tide has turned against gringo's in certain circles.


On a purely selfish note, it does me no harm.as much misgivings i have of the p4p, and the destructiveness to the gooodwill that was once present it has done. .As a non local-local hispanic,I am not tarred by the same brush.

Thank god for small mercies.

Otherwise, the mindset for quit a few is, as a gringo,by default you are a sex tourist, until you prove otherwise.

[WEDO]

(04-09-2013 06:55 PM)latinlover Wrote:  

I have never ever had any issues with the colour of my skin anytime in my life, but after landing in Colombia, I have never been more greatful of Madre's decision to hook up with Padre.

Honestly, the number of times I have to explain and apologise for the behaviour of the "perro blancos" to the Colombiana's, it's untrue

Seriously , Colombia just seems to attract the worst of of society, the dredges.

What really riles is that Colombians go out their way to be friendly and welcoming, to present their best side after violence and problems of the past. To be rewarded by dirty coke snorting p4p guys.

And you wonder why the tide has turned against gringo's in certain circles.


On a purely selfish note, it does me no harm.as much misgivings i have of the p4p, and the destructiveness to the gooodwill that was once present it has done. .As a non local-local hispanic,I am not tarred by the same brush.

Thank god for small mercies.

Otherwise, the mindset for quit a few is, as a gringo,by default you are a sex tourist, until you prove otherwise.

Personally I think the case against the white gringo in Colombia is overstated.

Vast majority of patrons of any P4P establishment in Medellin are Colombianos. When you count all the whore houses in every small town and city in Colombia....I doubt if gringos even make up one percent of the paying customers. If Colombianos didn't like P4P they would at the very least make prostitution a crime.

Overall being a Gringo is a plus....Take a look at the photos....for every little hottie that finally broke down and sold her ass ....there are 10 more that haven't yet.....plenty have been humped and dumped so many times by Colombianos and plenty left with a child and with absolutely no support that any guy that isn't Latin starts to look good. jajaja

Even the sisters of chicks that get fucked over by Colombian guys start to like gringos better than latinos after a while. LOL!!

The biggest problem with gringos hooking up with Colombianas is a lack of social circle and the image of being a tourist that is here today and gone tomorrow. Stay awhile and Colombia with open up in a way that will be life changing....well at least it was for me.

You have to realize that most of the hottest Colombianas you see will never even own a car their entire lives....at least 50 percent of them will never even have any shot at a middle class lifestyle if they don't hook up with a decent guy at some point in their lives....single women in Colombia are financially challenged unless they come from a good family.

The image that gringos have of being financially stable and willing to take care of their children and wives makes them much more sought after to at least half the female population than you might imagine.

Can't tell you how many times I have snaked hot Colombianas from right under then nose of some broke ass Colombiano and you can do it also if you just appear to be a serious person and not just a player.

[Tigre]

(04-09-2013 06:55 PM)latinlover Wrote:  

Honestly, the number of times I have to explain and apologise for the behaviour of the "perro blancos" to the Colombiana's, it's untrue

Seriously , Colombia just seems to attract the worst of of society, the dredges.

What really riles is that Colombians go out their way to be friendly and welcoming, to present their best side after violence and problems of the past. To be rewarded by dirty coke snorting p4p guys.

And you wonder why the tide has turned against gringo's in certain circles.

I have to take issue with the unspoken assumption here that the RVF tourist is so much better than other kinds of tourists. Every guy with something swinging between his legs is on a mission to get laid. The only difference is in the methods and outward appearance.

Don't be under any illusion, a large part of Colombian society hates guys with no Colombian roots that come down to Colombia to chase women.

Don't take my word for it. Look at the outcry from Colombians on twitter when news of Bang Colombia hit the media. It was mostly repulsion for Roosh and his methods.

When Mixx wrote that he fucks a girl once then blocks her number and never speaks to her again, he got high fives and praise on this forum. So please enlighten me on why love tourists are not contributing to degrading the reputation of foreigners in Colombia?

[Dark Cyd]

(04-09-2013 10:31 PM)Tigre Wrote:  

When Mixx wrote that he fucks a girl once then blocks her number and never speaks to her again, he got high fives and praise on this forum. So please enlighten me on why love tourists are not contributing to degrading the reputation of foreigners in Colombia?

Excellent question. I think it's the forum "kool-aid" that everyone's been drinking here - where we go to other countries and have sex with the local women but somehow we're not sex tourists; where we wile them, game them and lie to them but somehow we conduct ourselves better than the p4p guys who are more direct & honest in their interactions.

[kazz]

Any single guy traveling to any country on the earth, has at the very least in the back of his mind that he wants to go out have fun, bang chicks. The exact some thing that many guys do in there own countries. I have blonde hair and blue eyes, I was hoping this would be a plus as has been mentioned many times. If Im going to be looked at as a 'white dog' as latin lover said, I dont see much point in it, either way I take what i read on the internet with a grain of salt will soon find out for myself 1st hand.

The other thing is look at thailand, thats fucking hardcore, so many aussie yobbo fuckheads go over there but they are not bitter. Perhaps the colombian males are just trying to cockblock, good on them, game on in that case.

[Volk]

(04-10-2013 03:57 AM)kazz Wrote:  

The other thing is look at thailand, thats fucking hardcore, so many aussie yobbo fuckheads go over there but they are not bitter. Perhaps the colombian males are just trying to cockblock, good on them, game on in that case.

Cockblocking is not in our culture, not with our own people. On the other hand, most guys won't appreciate some foreigner from who-knows-where jumping from table to table trying to pluck and escalate with every girl from their social circle banking only on the color of his skin.Also, from what I know, people here don't like when gringos are put (or put themselves) on their table or party, because it kills the vibe or the atmosphere.

[scotian]

(04-10-2013 09:12 AM)Volk Wrote:  

(04-10-2013 03:57 AM)kazz Wrote:  

The other thing is look at thailand, thats fucking hardcore, so many aussie yobbo fuckheads go over there but they are not bitter. Perhaps the colombian males are just trying to cockblock, good on them, game on in that case.

Cockblocking is not in our culture, not with our own people. On the other hand, most guys won't appreciate some foreigner from who-knows-where jumping from table to table trying to pluck and escalate with every girl from their social circle banking only on the color of his skin.Also, from what I know, people here don't like when gringos are put (or put themselves) on their table or party, because it kills the vibe or the atmosphere.

I witnessed this first hand at Andres Carne de Res in Zona Rosa Bogota, I was with an RVF member, good looking guy, tall, well dressed and very obviously a gringo, he was an approach machine, getting girls from the dance floor and even from tables where they were sat down with their group, he was fearless! I'm not so ballsy, so sat at the bar and observed.

After the bar closed we waited outside in the line for our taxi, and probably 4 or 5 girls came up to us and wanted his number, unfortunately he didn't speak much Spanish so I had to translate. At this time one of the Colombian guys freaked out and was yelling at one of the girls he was with and giving us dirty looks, which is fairly uncharacteristic for the local guys, who I found to be really cool in general.

I think it boils down to the cultural difference between guys coming from North America where such behavior is normal to a place like Colombia where the people socialize in a different way. Myself, I honestly prefer the Colombian way where you go out with a group, get a table, drink some bottles and dance. Usually the groups will intermingle as the night goes on, so that's when approaching is a better bet. But going out alone or just two gringos together at a night club full of mixed set tables can be a challenge and I understand why the locals such as yourself resent this type of behavior.