[Kickb]

Five or six nights a week for me. This year, particularly the past 4 months, have really worn me down and I think I'm starting to look shot up.

[frenchcorporation]

3-4 times a week at the very least. sometimes ill go out every day for a fortnight, none of my mates can keep up

[Parlay44]

I have to ask ...how many of you guys live on your own? Not with mom and dad. Cause I have a hard time keeping up with cooking, cleaning, laundry, exercise. I have to do everything on my own plus pay bills like rent, groceries, insurance.

Where do you find the time and money to go out 6 nights a week? 1-2 nights a week is about all I can handle.

[Gmac]

I was going out about 5-6 nights a week with my old job and doing the online dating thing. Right now maybe 1 day a week, it fluctuates.

[at350zguyy]

varies week to week. sometimes once or twice and other times more. just depends on whats going on with people i know or what events i can crash.

[Roosh]

3 or 4 nights a week, not counting dates.

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Cause I have a hard time keeping up with cooking, cleaning, laundry, exercise. I have to do everything on my own plus pay bills like rent, groceries, insurance

It's a challenge... some things have to slide in the background. If I'm in a new city and going out nearly every night, I probably won't be going to the gym or doing much work.

[Parlay44]

Roosh can you put a dollar figure on that? 4 nights out at $50 a pop plus 2 dates? That's like minimum of $300 a week.

[Jackhammer]

Lately, it's been zero unfortunately.

My biggest problem is having to wake up really early for work. It's not that I mind being tired as shit at work, but I honestly look awful when I haven't slept. My eyes get dark circles underneath and they're all red. How do you guys work around this? I much prefer daygame to night game so it's not as big an issue as I originally thought

[Kickb]

I live on my own and a lot of shit does get pushed to the side. Sometimes, I go a couple weeks without doing laundry. I try and workout twice a week but lately it's been like twice a month. I spend all my money at night around 20 to 30, going to parties helps keep costs down. Was 195 pounds six months ago now I'm 180. I think it's time to down shift.

[ersatz]

Have a dishwasher and laundry machine in your place helps a lot, having all of your kitchen equipment be dishwasher safe and having enough clothing and bed sheet sets to do laundry every one or two weeks saves time. I also use a microwave egg steamer for breakfast, about 1 minute of work, and 7 minutes of waiting/doing other stuff in the morning. Getting any cooking tool that saves you time is worth it. I also have exercise equipment at home, so I don't need to go the gym, and to be honest buying adjustable free weights, in barbell/dumbbell/kettlestack form (get it from craigslist), a bench, a skip rope and maybe a power tower / pull up bar will be cheaper than any gym membership and far faster. Workouts should only take you 10-30 minutes per day that way. Also living close to your work saves a lot of time too. There's often a down time between going out at night and when you get home to work and you can do laundry during the weekends.

[Roosh]

(12-26-2011 09:13 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Roosh can you put a dollar figure on that? 4 nights out at $50 a pop plus 2 dates? That's like minimum of $300 a week.

Not in Eastern Europe. On average I spend $20-40 when I go out, sometimes much less. A lot of dates are two drink affairs that wind up in my place.

I probably spend $75-150 a week on nighttime leisure. Where I'm at, a vodka drink is $3, and I don't drink more than 4 when I go out. I think I'm overestimating my expenses.

When in the U.S. I spend 40-60 a night, so it's like $150-200 a week going out.

[Alpha]

I go out three times a week. Buy 1 Gin and Tonic for $5 (typically) and tip $1.

$20 a week in expenses. The drink is mostly just for me to hold, and not actually drink, so I nurse it slowly.

Focus on running better game, drinking less, and making your approaches count - not on going out all the time, getting wasted, serial approaching and hoping to get lucky.

[Amour Fou]

Do you guys drink every night you go out?

[wi30]

(12-28-2011 12:42 AM)Amour Fou Wrote:  

Do you guys drink every night you go out?

I used to, but it was wearing me down pretty quickly. It gets old waking up hungover every morning. Now every few nights out I am the sober driver for my buddies.

[Samseau]

I go out whenever I feel like it. Sometimes 3 nights a week, sometimes 6, sometimes 2, the month of December: not once.

Game is a hobby, I treat it as such. I do it for fun, I consider it no different than playing a video game.

[soup]

I try to not go out during the early days of the week. I'm out on almost every other night.

[WestIndianArchie]

(12-26-2011 06:29 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Five or six nights a week for me. This year, particularly the past 4 months, have really worn me down and I think I'm starting to look shot up.

Used to be 6 out of 7, but now I'm doing 1-2 week days, and maybe 1-2 weekend nights. I want to get back to the Sunday-Thursday circuit, and chill out do something else during amateur nights. But the slutted up high heel chicks don't always go out during the week.

[MikeCF]

I'm introverted. Going out every night would suck me dry.

3 nights a week is, for me, a long week.

1-2 nights is about right.

[Parlay44]

(12-28-2011 04:16 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

I'm introverted. Going out every night would suck me dry.

3 nights a week is, for me, a long week.

1-2 nights is about right.

Sorry for going off topic but...

Try a hit of E. You won't be introverted anymore. I'm not trying to advocate drugs really but it did help me open up a little and be more social. My view on things changed a little after using it a handful of times.

[el mechanico]

What are we considering going out here? Dates? clubs? Grocery store?

[Kickb]

Anywhere at night whether its just hanging out with friends or meeting girls.

[Chad Daring]

Once or twice a week, money permitting.

My job schedule makes going out during the week plausible but foolish as fuck. The problem with that is the weekend nightlife fucking blows Kielbasa Appreciation Day is less of a sausagefest then the weekend nightlife in my area.

I mostly go out with the girl I'm seeing, saves me money as I drink less with someone to talk to and she pays half the time.

Add all this into cold winter weather, yeah its not good. Hopefully a career change in the near future will open up my schedule AND my wallet.