[big poppa]

(12-24-2011 09:47 AM)alphaspiraton Wrote:  

Make that 5 im in too

Are we starting today then

I'm clean since my last post (a whole 24 hours ago) so I'm 1 day in

[5K2D]

I'm in (starting from the 23rd as day 1 for me). The last time I did this, I was on a multi-month dry spell but ended it 9 days in. I think my lifetime record is 2 and a half weeks (not counting childhood).

[soup]

This is a bullshit thread.

[Spike]

(12-25-2011 05:33 AM)soup Wrote:  

This is a bullshit thread.

Not only is this a bullshit thread its turning into a homo erotic story telling thread, its of the numerous no-fapping debates/threads out there.

Somehow people believe that if they don't wank, they gain super human player skills. Being a player has nothing to do with jerking of or not. The motivation has to be in your mind to go out and game girls. If you have to wait till your body does its natural thing, you're basically saying to yourself that you don't have the confidence to go and game.

People should stop making up excuses. If i want to game girls it doesn't matter if i just blew a load or not.

[alphaspiraton]

While I don't agree fully with the above statement, there's also many other health benefits to not jerking off.. But that's in another thread. Please use the search function.

No hate in here. Simply do not enter this thread if it doesn't apply to you.

[Spike]

(12-25-2011 09:35 AM)alphaspiraton Wrote:  

While I don't agree fully with the above statement, there's also many other health benefits to not jerking off.. But that's in another thread. Please use the search function.

No hate in here. Simply do not enter this thread if it doesn't apply to you.

many other health benifits to not jerking off ?

Like what ?

It has been proven that not unloading on a regular basis is bad for your prostate.

And don't tell me what to do. Newbie

[vicen]

Today I've been 55 days without masturbating or watching porn. I plan to go to 100 days and then only masturbate once a week or so without any porn.

Why? Well I had a bad experience.

A couple of months ago I was with a solid 9 on the back seat of my car and I couldn't get it up. When you have one of the most popular girls of the university naked in front of you beggin for cock and your penis do not respond you know something is wrong. She blew me but it was embarrassing. 1 hour later at home I visited some porn website and my erection was at 100%.

I think I've seen too much porn and somehow it has desensitized me from the real thing. Sometimes I even had to think about porn while fucking to be able to stay hard.

I found an explanation of what happened to me on these videos:

It's been very hard to stay off porn and masturbation for this long.

The first days I was very horny but then my libido flatlined, I had no interest in women for some weeks. Then a couple of weeks later my libido has come back stronger than ever. I've been going out 3 days a week approaching like a machine.

I've noticed that now sometimes I get hard only by talking to a hot girl, or when she puts her ass on my cock on the dancefloor for 10 seconds. I feel like when i was 16 (I'm 27 now btw).

I think stop watching porn and limit the masturbation have a lot of benefits.

[Luckystar]

I actually agree with this. Too much sensory stimulation is not good for erections. Medical doctors will tell you the same.

[soup]

(12-25-2011 10:08 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(12-25-2011 09:35 AM)alphaspiraton Wrote:  

While I don't agree fully with the above statement, there's also many other health benefits to not jerking off.. But that's in another thread. Please use the search function.

No hate in here. Simply do not enter this thread if it doesn't apply to you.

many other health benifits to not jerking off ?

Like what ?

It has been proven that not unloading on a regular basis is bad for your prostate.

And don't tell me what to do. Newbie

I've had Prostatitis from sitting too much, and the doctor actually prescribed having many orgasms (wank or sex- didn't matter) and taking hot baths to cure it and prevent it.

Look, if this thread was asking how to get good at something in general, I wouldn't call BS on it. Sorry if my reaction seemed crass.

But, to ask for motivation- what are you expecting to hear? I think it's personal. I could tell you that when I was a kid, I saw my cousin being good with girls and it helped his career, we could argue that if all guys had better game it would be better for society in general.

That said, it has to be something very meaningful to you, regardless of what other people think or tell you is right. It can't just be some intellectual thing- you need to feel it in your bones.

I'm not sure we can give you motivation, but I can describe what it feels like to be motivated so you'll be able to recognize it and take the reigns when it comes:

For me, the motivation feels like a wave, and I'm the surfer. The wave pushes me through all the hard parts- the rejections, the repetition, etc. It's that wave of inspiration that has pushed me through getting psyched (either out, or up), and towards the goal, which for me, at a very basic level, is to have more options.

What is your goal? What does your dick want?

[Riker]

God I'm lucky... Christmas seems to have brought me a solid fuck buddy... this will be a cakewalk!

Sometimes I like to fap with the girl next to me making out or whatever, I think that doesn't count, just fapping by yourself counts.

[ManAbout]

This is not a bullshit thread. If you want to find an excuse to continue masturbating, sure go ahead. It's like the smoker who claims that any evidence that smoking causes lung cancer is bullshit, and we are all going to die anyway.

Think about this, if you get release from masturbation, where is the motivation to go out and game a girl? All that work, talking, putting up with her crap, her games etc.. ?? Who needs it, when all you have to do is pull out your dick and wank off. It's a lot easier and the end result is the same. If you think masturbation does not affect your game, you are lying to yourself.

Do you think our ancestors sat there playing with their dicks all day? It's a fucking beta thing to do. Either you sat there and played with your dick or you went out and spread your seed. They didn't have time to sit around masturbating. It was all about survival.

Moreover, stop masturbating for a month and see how much clearer your mind will be. Excessive masturbation causes your brain to fog over. Masturbation does more harm than good.

[Spike]

(12-25-2011 05:28 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  

This is not a bullshit thread. If you want to find an excuse to continue masturbating, sure go ahead. It's like the smoker who claims that any evidence that smoking causes lung cancer is bullshit, and we are all going to die anyway.

Think about this, if you get release from masturbation, where is the motivation to go out and game a girl? All that work, talking, putting up with her crap, her games etc.. ?? Who needs it, when all you have to do is pull out your dick and wank off. It's a lot easier and the end result is the same. If you think masturbation does not affect your game, you are lying to yourself.

Do you think our ancestors sat there playing with their dicks all day? It's a fucking beta thing to do. Either you sat there and played with your dick or you went out and spread your seed. They didn't have time to sit around masturbating. It was all about survival.

Moreover, stop masturbating for a month and see how much clearer your mind will be. Excessive masturbation causes your brain to fog over. Masturbation does more harm than good.

I feel weird have a mastubating debate with a complete stranger, so this is the last i have to say about it.

Youre quote :
Think about this, if you get release from masturbation, where is the motivation to go out and game a girl? All that work, talking, putting up with her crap, her games etc.. ?? Who needs it, when all you have to do is pull out your dick and wank off. It's a lot easier and the end result is the same. If you think masturbation does not affect your game, you are lying to yourself.

For me this is bullshit, i can jerk of and go out a few hours later beeing in the same mood as before.
You need seed in your nutsack to put up with "crap" and "games" ??

I dont game girls solely to empty my balls. I enjoy the hunt and having a fun night.

As i said before, this is the last i say about it. Have fun damaging your prostate.

[ManAbout]

(12-25-2011 05:54 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

For me this is bullshit, i can jerk of and go out a few hours later beeing in the same mood as before.
You need seed in your nutsack to put up with "crap" and "games" ??

If you were getting enough sex, you wouldn't be masturbating.

If you weren't masturbating you would be getting enough sex.

Masturbating is a completely wasteful, unproductive and self indulgent activity.

[soup]

"Masturbating is a completely wasteful, unproductive and self indulgent activity."

That's one of the best things about it!

Fapping is totally different from banging a girl. I get a joy from fucking women that is not just about sperm. Sometimes, I don't care if I cum or not. I like to hear her moan from the pleasure, and the POV from doggy is one of the most beautiful views in the world. I love dominating women. Sex and fapping are different meanings. If it is just about nutting, I actually do that more efficiently on my own.

Contrary to what everyone is saying about jerking off depleting your sex drive, my experience is the opposite; the more I cum, the more I want to cum. I try to have as many orgasms as I can. I'll jerk-off and then go pickup a girl, fuck her, kick her out, and then jerk-off again.

It also makes me better at sex because it's good for the prostate. The prostate directly affects your ability to control your orgasms. So, in this way, fapping can actually be good for your game- if you fuck her well, she'll want to come back for more.

And, yeah, if monkey behavior is anything like what our ancestors were like, I do think they were jerking off a lot. Probably just as much or more: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sexual_behaviour

[ManAbout]

(12-25-2011 06:42 PM)soup Wrote:  

"Contrary to what everyone is saying about jerking off depleting your sex drive, my experience is the opposite; the more I cum, the more I want to cum. I try to have as many orgasms as I can. I'll jerk-off and then go pickup a girl, fuck her, kick her out, and then jerk-off again.

Didn't you mention that you were diagnosed with prostatitis? I assume that the above sequence of events you laid out have been pretty standard operating procedure for you since puberty?

Well guess what, I wouldn't be at all surprised if your prostatitis was in fact linked to excessive masturbation. One of the main causes of prostatitis is tensing of the pelvic area, which is exactly what you are doing when you masturbate. Long periods of masturbation, leading to continuous tensing of the pelvis, resulting in your prostatitis.

[soup]

Doctor told me the prostatitis came from sitting for three hours at a time without getting up. To clear it up, he said I had to have more orgasms, take hot baths, and to not sit for more than 45 min at a time. He said it didn't matter if I jerked it or fucked.

[ManAbout]

(12-25-2011 07:26 PM)soup Wrote:  

Doctor told me the prostatitis came from sitting for three hours at a time without getting up. To clear it up, he said I had to have more orgasms, take hot baths, and to not sit for more than 45 min at a time. He said it didn't matter if I jerked it or fucked.

Did you tell your doctor that you were already masturbating multiple times a day?

[soup]

http://www.prostatitis.org/mastur.html

[ManAbout]

(12-25-2011 08:42 PM)soup Wrote:  

http://www.prostatitis.org/mastur.html

I don't see anybody advocating excessive masturbation, which is what you are doing.

If you think that looking at porn and masturbating multiple times a day is healthy, then you need a reality check.

[Screwston]

I don't know what y'all are arguing about but I won't post in here anymore unless I slip up. Let's see how long I can last and if I turn into a peverted madman like Tuth said.

[Riker]

(12-25-2011 09:08 PM)houston Wrote:  

I don't know what y'all are arguing about but I won't post in here anymore unless I slip up. Let's see how long I can last and if I turn into a peverted madman like Tuth said.

I don't know why people are arguing either. Cool, good luck.

[alphaspiraton]

The next post should come from someone slipping up, which hopefully doesn't happen for another 20 days minimum.

I tried this challenge a few months back. Suddenly by day 14 I was approaching women during the day whom I normally wouldn't approach. It was like this gut feeling developed where I was more inclined to talk to more women and actually try to number close minimum. It took virtually no effort on my part as I did this while just going about my day.

You can read more testimonials on http://www.yourbrainonporn.com. It was mentioned in amother thread but I'll leave it here in case anyone has any doubts about the enormous benefits to not jerking off. And it was mostlu virgins taking the challengr and within ~73 days maximum almost all got laid. Your primal instincts will come out and your motivation will increase 10 fold.

[xmlenigma]

(12-25-2011 09:23 PM)alphaspiraton Wrote:  

The next post should come from someone slipping up, which hopefully doesn't happen for another 20 days minimum.

I tried this challenge a few months back. Suddenly by day 14 I was approaching women during the day whom I normally wouldn't approach. It was like this gut feeling developed where I was more inclined to talk to more women and actually try to number close minimum. It took virtually no effort on my part as I did this while just going about my day.

You can read more testimonials on http://www.yourbrainonporn.com. It was mentioned in amother thread but I'll leave it here in case anyone has any doubts about the enormous benefits to not jerking off. And it was mostlu virgins taking the challengr and within ~73 days maximum almost all got laid. Your primal instincts will come out and your motivation will increase 10 fold.

I tried this out a few times. What I did notice that my "gut instincts" just were on fire. I was acting less from the mind and more from GUT. Some kind of "natural hormonal / animal" elements came out on AUTO PILOT.

I was being openly CAVEMAN, in circles and environments I'd usually would kinda be more chilled out.

It was some kind of semi-sleepy late night state where my MIND was off, (no alcohol) and my GUTS took over and I grabbed this tiny asian and went a little sensual graphic on her to the point that the people stepped out on the balcony and i was on the couch with her. And in this circle of people I was usually never doing this.

Then again, I am not saying this is consistent across the board. But, somehow when you DONT.. SHORT CIRCUIT your Sexual Gratification (Maybe it has to do something with how much DRIVE each person has at a time) the AUTO PILOT NATURAL INSTINCTs take over v/s the mind.

[Cr33pin]

[arkanBrah]

Along with masturbating ONLY at a reasonable rate...

I would say eating well, exercise and protein whey-isolate supplements keep me at attention well.