Ok so from my last thread I mentioned that a Co-worker of mine
was the one that was giving me the "going out of town" line.
She has since contacted me again to apologize about forgetting
about our plans. I said no problem then we started chatting.
We are on the subject about turning down drinks and whatnot,
and all of a sudden she drops the bomb about GF, something totally
unrelated to the subject. This conversation is over messenger. Is this an IOI?
ill paste the convo:
ME: Nope i don't smoke. But I never turn down cigs or drinks from friends.
HB8: Its good you are not a girl. I don't have any clue how to say no.
ME: You should learn how to be a mean girl.
HB8: I've been trying, but I always feel guilty when I see peoples faces.
ME: Well i guess its ok for a girl to be nice.
ME: For guys its not ok, people view that as a sign of weakness.
HB8: As long as you are nice to your GF, you are safe.
How did this conversation steer in that direction?
I did nothing to mention GF, is she trying to find out whether I have a GF or not?
was the one that was giving me the "going out of town" line.
She has since contacted me again to apologize about forgetting
about our plans. I said no problem then we started chatting.
We are on the subject about turning down drinks and whatnot,
and all of a sudden she drops the bomb about GF, something totally
unrelated to the subject. This conversation is over messenger. Is this an IOI?
ill paste the convo:
ME: Nope i don't smoke. But I never turn down cigs or drinks from friends.
HB8: Its good you are not a girl. I don't have any clue how to say no.
ME: You should learn how to be a mean girl.
HB8: I've been trying, but I always feel guilty when I see peoples faces.
ME: Well i guess its ok for a girl to be nice.
ME: For guys its not ok, people view that as a sign of weakness.
HB8: As long as you are nice to your GF, you are safe.
How did this conversation steer in that direction?
I did nothing to mention GF, is she trying to find out whether I have a GF or not?