[ASA123]

I know its been discussed before but how do you guys go about gym game. I see so many attractive girls at my gym its a real shame to let it go to waste. Additionally, how do you guys suggest yoga game? My gym has yoga classes that have some pretty attractive girls in them.

[Batata]

For yoga, my guess would be to just get good at yoga and wait for girls to notice. If you're just in there and hit on girls on the first day people will know you joined because you're pussy-hungry.

Shouldn't be too hard to outclass most people in the class considering girls suck at most things anyway.

[Vicious]

(12-14-2011 11:22 PM)Batata Wrote:  

...wait for girls to notice.

Very, very rarely good advice for any type of game. Unless you're Mick Jagger.

[Giovonny]

Look good, dress sharp, make small talk. Ask about exercise and classes.

The gym is a great place for pickup. First, let them observe you for a few weeks, if she in interested she will make some eye contact and come around your personal space, once that happens, begin the chit-chat.

Once she has seen you around the gym for a while she will be more comfortable talking to you.

[Blaze Frazier]

(12-15-2011 12:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Look good, dress sharp, make small talk. Ask about exercise and classes.

The gym is a great place for pickup. First, let them observe you for a few weeks, if she in interested she will make some eye contact and come around your personal space, once that happens, begin the chit-chat.

Once she has seen you around the gym for a while she will be more comfortable talking to you.

Dress sharp in the gym? That's the last thing I'd want to do. I'm in there to lift and get out. If a woman comes by, I'll chat and go from there.

[Giovonny]

(12-15-2011 01:38 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

Dress sharp in the gym? That's the last thing I'd want to do. I'm in there to lift and get out.

Do an experiment for us..

Go to the gym wearing clean, stylish workout clothes with fresh tennis shoes. Make sure the clothes fit you right and highlight your body.

Then go to the gym wearing a dirty old t-shirt that is way to big, cut off jean shorts, and sneakers with dirt stains on them.

Which outfit gets you a better response from the cute girls...?

[bengalltigerr]

gym game is easy if you bench 250 lb+ otherwise stay away from gym game hahha just kidding.
try talking to her about her routine and stuff and number close from there.

[November]

(12-15-2011 03:26 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

(12-14-2011 11:22 PM)Batata Wrote:  

...wait for girls to notice.

Very, very rarely good advice for any type of game. Unless you're Mick Jagger.

Actually, this can work for yoga if you do it right. My experience has been this:

Girls in yoga classes want to show off. They get dressed up in tight clothing and expect guys to drool over them in the classroom. The key is to just totally ignore them. Give them the opposite of what they expect and then they'll be curious.

[wi30]

(12-15-2011 12:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Look good, dress sharp, make small talk. Ask about exercise and classes.

The gym is a great place for pickup. First, let them observe you for a few weeks, if she in interested she will make some eye contact and come around your personal space, once that happens, begin the chit-chat.

Once she has seen you around the gym for a while she will be more comfortable talking to you.

Letting them see you around for a few weeks is definitely one of the most important aspects. All girls at the gym have their guard up against guys who are there to hit on them. It's easy to tell who's actually working out and who's checking out every girl's ass through the mirrors. Don't be one of those guys. The reason for going to the gym is to workout. Meeting a girl there is secondary.

Unlike a bar or club, it's one of the few places where you can't rush into it.

[PDX]

There's a few threads already on yoga game. MiXX did some lengthy investigating and has great insight. Do a search.

[Batata]

(12-15-2011 03:26 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

(12-14-2011 11:22 PM)Batata Wrote:  

...wait for girls to notice.

Very, very rarely good advice for any type of game. Unless you're Mick Jagger.

Should have added that he should wait for the class to recognize him as one of the alpha yoga practitioners (to notice him, basically) in the class before approaching.

Didn't mean that he should wait for girls to come up and talk to him first. I agree that's a terrible idea.

[MikeCF]

Are the guys posting advice in this thread actually regular gym goers?

If you actually train, you tend to see the same girls over and over again. People follow a schedule. After-work, pre-work, whatever.

So, yeah, you do want to wait. If you're training on off hours, then don't want. I train after work, so if I were there at lunch, I'd make the move upon first sighting. Otherwise, warm them up.

You'll see her at the gym, or as often happens, you'll see them out later.

[Giovonny]

I rotate between 6 or 7 different gyms to stay under the radar and keep a fresh supply of new cuties. I like being the new guy. After I've gotten everything I can from a gym, I go somewhere else. Then after a few months or a year, I return. Been working this gym rotation cycle for like 10 years.

And, this is not even counting yoga studios..

[drymarro]

(12-15-2011 05:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I rotate between 6 or 7 different gyms to stay under the radar and keep a fresh supply of new cuties. I like being the new guy. After I've gotten everything I can from a gym, I go somewhere else. Then after a few months or a year, I return. Been working this gym rotation cycle for like 10 years.

And, this is not even counting yoga studios..

How's it turning out game wise? I want to try gaming some girls at the College gym so could use some ideas.

[Giovonny]

(12-15-2011 05:09 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

(12-15-2011 05:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I rotate between 6 or 7 different gyms to stay under the radar and keep a fresh supply of new cuties. I like being the new guy. After I've gotten everything I can from a gym, I go somewhere else. Then after a few months or a year, I return. Been working this gym rotation cycle for like 10 years.

And, this is not even counting yoga studios..

How's it turning out game wise? I want to try gaming some girls at the College gym so could use some ideas.

The gym is one of my primary hunting grounds. I get a couple bangs a year from the gym. Its funny you mentioned your college gym because I just started going to the gym at my local university. You don't even have to be a student to join!

My biggest thing is giving them a couple weeks to observe me looking good and walking around with style and confidence. Then little by little, I start to get eye contact, we start to say "hello" to each other and then the chit chat follows. Once they are comfortable speaking to you, you can move forward with the Gaming process.

Got any specific questions?

[drymarro]

(12-15-2011 05:20 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-15-2011 05:09 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

(12-15-2011 05:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I rotate between 6 or 7 different gyms to stay under the radar and keep a fresh supply of new cuties. I like being the new guy. After I've gotten everything I can from a gym, I go somewhere else. Then after a few months or a year, I return. Been working this gym rotation cycle for like 10 years.

And, this is not even counting yoga studios..

How's it turning out game wise? I want to try gaming some girls at the College gym so could use some ideas.

The gym is one of my primary hunting grounds. I get a couple bangs a year from the gym. Its funny you mentioned your college gym because I just started going to the gym at my local university. You don't even have to be a student to join!

My biggest thing is giving them a couple weeks to observe me looking good and walking around with style and confidence. Then little by little, I start to get eye contact, we start to say "hello" to each other and then the chit chat follows. Once they are comfortable speaking to you, you can move forward with the Gaming process.

Got any specific questions?

Hmm well I suppose how fast do you escalate from not saying hi to saying something to them? Do you have specific quidelines?

[TudoBem]

I disagree with some of the advice in this thread, especially the parts about waiting and letting her notice you.

Who cares if you display your sexual needs?..as long as you do it correctly, instead of appearing desperate.

If you are looking for a girlfriend, wait, if you want vagina, charge right ahead.

I think the best way to go about gym game, is to use a situational opener.

My single favorite thing to do, is to make a comment to her about some other guy who is working out hard, or is looking at her, etc. I say something like, "that guy is trying really hard, he must like you a lot" or "wouldn't you think it was sexy if I could bench 400 lbs too?"

I then move into a playful discussion of how some people take themselves too seriously, or go to the gym to get noticed, etc.

You defuse the social tension, and you set yourself up as an interesting, high value prospect who is different from the others.

Important during this interaction is good eye contact.

[Blaze Frazier]

(12-15-2011 01:59 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-15-2011 01:38 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

Dress sharp in the gym? That's the last thing I'd want to do. I'm in there to lift and get out.

Do an experiment for us..

Go to the gym wearing clean, stylish workout clothes with fresh tennis shoes. Make sure the clothes fit you right and highlight your body.

Then go to the gym wearing a dirty old t-shirt that is way to big, cut off jean shorts, and sneakers with dirt stains on them.

Which outfit gets you a better response from the cute girls...?

That would be an interesting experiment, but I already wear workout clothes that fit me right and highlight my body. I hit the gym hard, so most of everything fits me well enough.

Plus, I go to a serious gym that turns out state champion lifters like clockwork, so it's a dedicated gym with an old-school feel. Not many women walk through those doors.

[kosko]

Girls got that jacked up hormones after lifting just like we do. gym game looks interesting though but I do agree that regulars you do see often. But I find only dudes who clown around try and game broads. Most dudes who are serious about lifting are to in the zone. I notice but it just distracts me from my sets. On water breaks I always contemplate how an idea approach would be but then... again get sidetracked by lifting. Dudes I see gaming hard in the gym ain't even swole lol. Usually they just came from playing ball and just fuking around on the weights for fun.

[speakeasy]

The gym I go to has a huge membership and you rarely see the same girl twice. Man, I'd say gym is the toughest environment there is. Just about every girl has her headphones on with that don't bother me look on her face. They virtually never smile or flirt or seem warm to an approach.

[Giovonny]

(12-15-2011 05:45 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

how fast do you escalate from not saying hi to saying something to them? Do you have specific quidelines?

Once we have seen each other a few times I look for eye contact and smiles. Actually, I don't physically "look" for eye contact and smiles but rather I put myself in position were the girl can make eye contact with me and say "hi" to me if she wants. Just sort of being in the same general area as her is enough. If she is interested in you talking to you, she will eventually make eye contact with you, smile at you, and put herself in your position for you to notice her.

When a girl makes eye contact with you and smiles, she is saying .."I'm open to talking to you"

If a girl starts saying "Hi" to me before[/i] I start saying "Hi" to her. I know she is probably interested in talking to me.


Once you've seen a girl at the gym a few times, and you guys start saying "Hi" to each other, the next step is to get comfortable chatting together. When the casual chatting begins, I try to make her laugh, find things that we have in common, and basically build a connection/chemistry with her.

When you get to casual chatting, you now have your shot to move things forward. As always, look for sustained eye contact, her getting into your personal space, her touching you, her looking at you, her saying "hi" to you first, her trying to prolong the conversation. These are all signs that she is open to getting to know you a little more.

And of course, my new favorite indicator that I learned from "Day Bang", her asking you a personal question. If that happens, the ball is in your court.

(12-15-2011 07:30 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

it's a dedicated gym with an old-school feel. Not many women walk through those doors.

Oh, okay, now I understand why you don't care about looking good at the gym.

[Blaze Frazier]

(12-16-2011 11:55 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-15-2011 07:30 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

it's a dedicated gym with an old-school feel. Not many women walk through those doors.

Oh, okay, now I understand why you don't care about looking good at the gym.

Well, yeah...and it's a gym, not a bar.

[Downunder]

(12-15-2011 12:18 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Look good, dress sharp, make small talk. Ask about exercise and classes.

The gym is a great place for pickup. First, let them observe you for a few weeks, if she in interested she will make some eye contact and come around your personal space, once that happens, begin the chit-chat.

Once she has seen you around the gym for a while she will be more comfortable talking to you.

Very good advice indeed