[Luckystar]

Relapsed over Amia Moretti. 7 days seems to be my sticking point.

[Donald Duck]

(01-19-2012 04:05 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  

Relapsed over Amia Moretti. 7 days seems to be my sticking point.

Do you also masturbate in those 7 days without porn? Because if you do, that might explain the 7 days. When you masturbate, it actives the 'chaser effect' and makes you even hornier to watch porn. Always happens to me.

[Luckystar]

(01-19-2012 04:14 PM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

(01-19-2012 04:05 PM)Luckystar Wrote:  

Relapsed over Amia Moretti. 7 days seems to be my sticking point.

Do you also masturbate in those 7 days without porn? Because if you do, that might explain the 7 days. When you masturbate, it actives the 'chaser effect' and makes you even hornier to watch porn. Always happens to me.

Maybe once or twice. Good point, perhaps I'll cut this out as well.

[_DC_]

Luckystar, Amia is ridiculous.

I recommend the scene she does with Melanie Rios. On day 7, of course.

[Luckystar]

(01-19-2012 09:37 PM)_DC_ Wrote:  

Luckystar, Amia is ridiculous.

I recommend the scene she does with Melanie Rios. On day 7, of course.

Ya, I love girls like her. She's like porn crack.

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

After reading through these types of threads on here for weeks I have quit all porn and fapping altogether. My mind is so much sharper, lifts are much stronger, and I'm an absolute beast when I get behind the drivers wheel. Yeah I think about sex alot more and it's a bit uncomfortable, but nothing good in life comes w/o sacrifice.

GL to all

[Donald Duck]

I was also very aggressive behind the wheel as well. Music was always blasting too. I installed a porn blocker and I hope to never relapse again. 10 days seem to be my maximum for now.

[mofo]

(01-20-2012 02:33 AM)TheAntiWhiteKnight138 Wrote:  

After reading through these types of threads on here for weeks I have quit all porn and fapping altogether. My mind is so much sharper, lifts are much stronger, and I'm an absolute beast when I get behind the drivers wheel. Yeah I think about sex alot more and it's a bit uncomfortable, but nothing good in life comes w/o sacrifice.

GL to all

Congratulations.

[Donald Duck]

Relapsed after 1 day because I needed to change a setting on my internet blocker... By the way, a blocker also frustrates the hell out of you.

[choichoi]

I managed to go 2 mos but then I had a pretty exciting dream; I guess the body is programmed to get rid of those fuckers from time to time. From week 2 onwards you feel very focused, aggressive and highly attuned to IOI signals from the bishes - hell you can smell the pussy if it's the right time of month. Prob. is if your wallet is a hurting like mine is right now and trying to stay inside as much as possible to conserve money, old habits resurface.

[Donald Duck]

How is it going for you, guys?

[Saladin]

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

[Donald Duck]

Good luck. I never made it past 14 days. Back at day 1 now.

[Spike]

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

[Donald Duck]

(02-11-2012 05:19 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

How can you not understand porn addiction? Can you understand someone addicted to cigarettes? I guess a person trying to quit smoking would also make himself suffer for no reason...

[_DC_]

(02-11-2012 05:19 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

"It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane."

Neil, I can't understand how you can't understand how this can help people. If it doesn't work for you, or you feel like chasing girls 24/7 then I'm envious.

If I jerk off a day or two before going out I have almost zero motivation. You ask "why not just try to bang a girl"... but why try if you don't feel like banging a girl? It's so simple. Don't get me wrong, if a hottie throws herself at me I'll get horny fast whether or not I fapped in the past 24 hours. Its totally a motivation thing. Its an initiative to take action. Your body is sexually satisfied so why take any risks? If it's been 5 days, your body's reptilian brain starts to resonate louder than any cerebral bullshit.

To each their own!

[pitt]

Thats the worse shit that can happen to a player in the game - become addicted to porn. It kills your motivation to game.

I advise you guys to just completely block all porn sites and try work out everyday and eat good. Preferably get a fuckbuddy that is always up for sex and avoid to be alone.

There is one line about masturbation that stucked with me for years: "people who cant stop masturbating, dont have any will power''

[Moma]

I agree with Neil but I guess I can see where you guys are coming from. Sublimation from sex causes warped things to occur in people's brains.

I have seen lizards act in very strange ways when abstaining too long from sex. For instance, they will pick more fights.

Example, on my recent trip, at my auntie's place, there was a woman that was permanently cross. She was constantly yelling about this.
"You didn't clean the meat!" and "Why didn't you pick my call when I called you?"

I found her behaviour overly aggressive and I asked my auntie what was up.
My uncle, who is a powderkeg himself, agreed that this woman was almost excessively aggressive.

My auntie responded that the woman was not married. Basically, she was sexually frustrated and needed a good rodgering.

My point is, I don't believe the adult male can reframe from not releasing for an indefinite period of time.

When I was 18, I stayed in Houston for three months in a crowded house. My T-levels were through the roof but there was no place for me to fap so I had to just sublimate like a muthafcuka.

I had a wet dream one night about my aunt (my relation through marriage) and I bussed unwittingly and violently into my pyjamas bottoms.

I think I have great willpower but not releasing doesn't enable me to sleep comfortably and my mind wanders restlessly.

I think you guys should work strongly on getting a fcuk buddy. If you have a fcukbuddy (available on any call) and you still find the need to fap rather than fcuk her, then I would agree you may have a porn addiction.

But there is nothing addictive about a guy who ain't getting no azz who resorts to the internet for that needed release.

[Donald Duck]

Quote:

But there is nothing addictive about a guy who ain't getting no azz who resorts to the internet for that needed release.

I don't think so. If it's masturbation ONLY we are talking about, then I would agree. I would never masturbate if it wasn't with porn. As an addict, I cannot separate masturbation and porn. I think if you need porn to masturbate/release, you are addicted to porn.

In the end, like you said, a fuck buddy is the only thing that can almost 100% help.

[Spike]

(02-11-2012 10:36 AM)_DC_ Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 05:19 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

"It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane."

Neil, I can't understand how you can't understand how this can help people. If it doesn't work for you, or you feel like chasing girls 24/7 then I'm envious.

If I jerk off a day or two before going out I have almost zero motivation. You ask "why not just try to bang a girl"... but why try if you don't feel like banging a girl? It's so simple. Don't get me wrong, if a hottie throws herself at me I'll get horny fast whether or not I fapped in the past 24 hours. Its totally a motivation thing. Its an initiative to take action. Your body is sexually satisfied so why take any risks? If it's been 5 days, your body's reptilian brain starts to resonate louder than any cerebral bullshit.

To each their own!

The reptilian brain thing makes no sense to me. Not a native English speaker.

I guess i'm motivated by the hunt more than the actual pussy. I feel like a winner when i'm totally sweet talking a girl and can game her into bed. The way she looks at you when you approach her, you see her thinking " here comes another dude trying to pick me up", the surprise on her face when you actually have an interesting story and aren't the same as everyone else. I love it !

I enjoy seeing other guys fail where i succeed. I feel fucking powerfull when i see guys throwing money around,buying drinks or acting the tough guy but being shy with girls and i'm dancing with a hot girl or sometimes a small group of them and walk out of the club with her. Sometimes i parade her a few times through the club and past a group of guys who have seen me walk up to her and take her away or at least get a phone number which for the most guys is already mind boggling.
Not for me because i know a phone number doesn't mean shit.

It doesn't matter if i don't jerk off for a week or i jerk three hours before i go out. Even when i jerk the same night i go out, my dick goes up when i have the girl in bed.

I think you should look at picking up girls more as a sport with winners and losers and not as the only way to get a orgasm. Having a goal usually gives strong motivation to get of your butt and take action. I had my goal to bang 80 girls around the world and score as many flags as possible.

Think about it !

I even think you No fap/porn guys un-contiguously find a way to escape your fears by saying : i jerked off, now my motivation is gone,i 'd better stay home and try not to fap for another week to see what happens. The whole feeling powerfull and horny thing : I'm not buying it. Down to the core, its downright escapism.

I used to make tons of excuses to myself and always thought that it would be better next time or once i had money, a nice car,clothes a house whatever, then i would pick up girls. I learned that there is no next time. There's only now. I took me years to do my first traveling and now i regret wasting so much of my good years feeling sorry for myself. I'm 35 and wasted my best years sitting on my hands.

I'll end this rant with the best motivational youtube vid there is. Watch it before you go out or keep making excuses to yourself.

Damn, i got all angry about this wimpy No Fap behavior and just wrote a whole new post for my site. Gonna edit this and post it in a few days.

[Donald Duck]

Quote:

The whole feeling powerfull and horny thing : I'm not buying it. Down to the core, its downright escapism.

Sounds like you've never been without orgasm shorter than a week. It's simply a fact that you feel more horny and alert if you haven't ejaculated for a while.

You're libido must be 200% higher than mine because I could never watch porn, masturbate and talk women into fucking 1 hour after I watched.

[OGNorCal707]

(02-11-2012 02:01 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 10:36 AM)_DC_ Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 05:19 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

"It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane."

Neil, I can't understand how you can't understand how this can help people. If it doesn't work for you, or you feel like chasing girls 24/7 then I'm envious.

If I jerk off a day or two before going out I have almost zero motivation. You ask "why not just try to bang a girl"... but why try if you don't feel like banging a girl? It's so simple. Don't get me wrong, if a hottie throws herself at me I'll get horny fast whether or not I fapped in the past 24 hours. Its totally a motivation thing. Its an initiative to take action. Your body is sexually satisfied so why take any risks? If it's been 5 days, your body's reptilian brain starts to resonate louder than any cerebral bullshit.

To each their own!

The reptilian brain thing makes no sense to me. Not a native English speaker.

I guess i'm motivated by the hunt more than the actual pussy. I feel like a winner when i'm totally sweet talking a girl and can game her into bed. The way she looks at you when you approach her, you see her thinking " here comes another dude trying to pick me up", the surprise on her face when you actually have an interesting story and aren't the same as everyone else. I love it !

I enjoy seeing other guys fail where i succeed. I feel fucking powerfull when i see guys throwing money around,buying drinks or acting the tough guy but being shy with girls and i'm dancing with a hot girl or sometimes a group of them and walk out of the club with her. Sometimes i parade her a few times through the club and past a group of guys who have seen me walk up to her and take her away or at least get a phone number which for the most guys is already mind boggling.
Not for me because i know a phone number doesn't mean shit.

It doesn't matter if i don't jerk off for a week or i jerk three hours before i go out. Even when i jerk the same night i go out, my dick goes up when i have the girl in bed.

I think you should look at picking up girls more as a sport with winners and losers and not as the only way to get a orgasm. Having a goal usually gives strong motivation to get of your butt and take action. I had my goal to bang 80 girls around the world and score as many flags as possible.

Think about it !

I even think you No fap/porn guys un-contiguously find a way to escape your fears by saying : i jerked off, now my motivation is gone,i 'd better stay home and try not to fap for another week to see what happens. The whole feeling powerfull and horny thing : I'm not buying it. Down to the core, its downright escapism.

I used to make tons of excuses to myself and always thought that it would be better next time or once i had money, a nice car,clothes a house whatever, then i would pick up girls. I learned that there is no next time. There's only now. I took me years to do my first traveling and now i regret wasting so much of my good years feeling sorry for myself. I'm 35 and wasted my best years sitting on my hands.

I'll end this rant with the best motivational youtube vid there is. Watch it before you go out or keep making excuses to yourself.

Damn, i got all angry about this wimpy No Fap behavior and just wrote a whole new post for my site. Gonna edit this and post it in a few days.

Neil, I like your mentality, it's about more about the process of the hunt, then just focusing on the final result (slaying the pussy). Unfortunately, I can sympathize with a lot of guys on here, while I do love those moments where my "game is on" and I say the right combination of words that are really witty, funny, and sexually charged, I also lack motivation after jerking too much.

There are times, if I'm not horny because of jerking to porn, that I'd much rather NOT go to the local shitty bars, I don't really like drinking much, spending money, drinking and driving, staying up late (not getting enough sleep), dealing with stupid/annoying people, dealing with shit tests and bitchy women.

If I'm not that horny, I'd rather just chill, smoke weed, watch a movie, go out for a nice dinner, kick back and have a beer and shoot the shit with a few friends, etc.

It's after no jerking off for a few days, that I really feel that drive to get out there, and stick my dick in a woman.

It's not that I'm an asexual androgynous pussy that has NO sex drive after jerking off, I'd still be DTF if a cute girl was into me, but I just don't have the motivation to go through all the "leg work" to get the girl in the first place. In the U.S. if you're not above 6 ft., have really good looks, social status, or ridiculous tight game, getting laid can be a chore. I'm average height, above average in looks, and have intermediate game, but I still deal with a bunch of B.S. and don't get much more than a phone number or kiss the majority of nights I go out.

Well, I broke down and jerked off late last night, because I was having a hard time falling asleep. Also, I have a date planned tonight with a chick I met on Thursday, and I get a decent slut vibe, so I'm hoping to drive hard to the hoop and get laid.

While, I know that jerking off will kill some of my mojo tonight, I already know this chick is into me enough, and if I get her back home, I don't want to cum too fast, from being too sensitive. Cumming too quick after not jerking off for a while, is kind of the downside of not jerking for me.

Anyways, like most of my post, this diverged into a major rant. Just wanted to say I liked your post Neil, I only give rep points to new members, but this earns some honors:

[Saladin]

(02-11-2012 05:32 AM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 05:19 AM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(02-11-2012 12:10 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

At 4 days right now. Went 22 last time I tried. It was an awesome feeling but the horniness was insane.

I'm aiming for 30 days now.

Why not go out and try to bang a girl ? Why make yourself suffer ?

I just cant understand this thread.

How can you not understand porn addiction? Can you understand someone addicted to cigarettes? I guess a person trying to quit smoking would also make himself suffer for no reason...

I wouldn't say I have porn addiction but I the results from not ejaculating are really great.

[Spike]

(02-11-2012 02:27 PM)Donald Duck Wrote:  

Quote:

The whole feeling powerfull and horny thing : I'm not buying it. Down to the core, its downright escapism.

Sounds like you've never been without orgasm shorter than a week. It's simply a fact that you feel more horny and alert if you haven't ejaculated for a while.

You're libido must be 200% higher than mine because I could never watch porn, masturbate and talk women into fucking 1 hour after I watched.

I wonder if you even comprehend what i said. Its not my libido that drives me, its the winner mentality. Better read it again.

I said three hours, who the hell jerks off an hour before he goes out. I have better things to do like taking a shit,shave and shower before i go out.

[Spike]

Quote:

Neil, I like your mentality, it's about more about the process of the hunt, then just focusing on the final result (slaying the pussy). Unfortunately, I can sympathize with a lot of guys on here, while I do love those moments where my "game is on" and I say the right combination of words that are really witty, funny, and sexually charged, I also lack motivation after jerking too much.

There are times, if I'm not horny because of jerking to porn, that I'd much rather NOT go to the local shitty bars, I don't really like drinking much, spending money, drinking and driving, staying up late (not getting enough sleep), dealing with stupid/annoying people, dealing with shit tests and bitchy women.

If I'm not that horny, I'd rather just chill, smoke weed, watch a movie, go out for a nice dinner, kick back and have a beer and shoot the shit with a few friends, etc.

It's after no jerking off for a few days, that I really feel that drive to get out there, and stick my dick in a woman.

It's not that I'm an asexual androgynous pussy that has NO sex drive after jerking off, I'd still be DTF if a cute girl was into me, but I just don't have the motivation to go through all the "leg work" to get the girl in the first place. In the U.S. if you're not above 6 ft., have really good looks, social status, or ridiculous tight game, getting laid can be a chore. I'm average height, above average in looks, and have intermediate game, but I still deal with a bunch of B.S. and don't get much more than a phone number or kiss the majority of nights I go out.

Well, I broke down and jerked off late last night, because I was having a hard time falling asleep. Also, I have a date planned tonight with a chick I met on Thursday, and I get a decent slut vibe, so I'm hoping to drive hard to the hoop and get laid.

While, I know that jerking off will kill some of my mojo tonight, I already know this chick is into me enough, and if I get her back home, I don't want to cum too fast, from being too sensitive. Cumming too quick after not jerking off for a while, is kind of the downside of not jerking for me.

Anyways, like most of my post, this diverged into a major rant. Just wanted to say I liked your post Neil, I only give rep points to new members, but this earns some honors:

Cumming too quick is a MAJOR downside and i wouldn't risk it with new girl. It will be the last time you bone her when that happens.

I think you are still missing the point of my explanation a bit, its not the jerking of or libido, its the drive to win. Focus on making a pick up a win when succeeded. Set an (impossible) goal and try to reach it. say you want to bang 3 new girls a month for starters and work up to one a week. By the end of the month you will have to work damn hard to reach your goal. See it as a deadline.

I used to stay very short in some cities or even countries, i gamed hard to get my flag, even though i don't have much money, no knowledge of the city or the language. I have to start from scratch every new place i went. Ask for information where to go , how to get there and i did it all alone. No buddies who i can ask for advice or to wing me, no social circle. Just nothing to start with.

I had to walk into a club where i have never been, don't know the ins and outs or who's with who and still i pushed myself to go there. Of course i rather lay on my bed and watch a movie but i kept pushing myself to reach my goal or get close.

That's why i can recommend everyone to travel alone on a budget. It will give you strong inner game.